The Ebony Femdom Interviews The Virtual Vixen

The Ebony Femdom interviews Mamia Orio and talks to the Virtual Vixen about online sex work and gamer girl things.
The Ebony Femdom interviews The Virtual Vixen, Mamia Orio and discusses gamer girls and virtual adult entertainment.

I had the pleasure of speaking with Virtual Vixen, Mamia Orio and we chatted about sex work in the virtual world, and our experiences as virtual sex workers. Obviously online sex work is technically virtual sex work, too, but we’re specifically discussing the adult industry as it pertains to people who use 3D avatars and digital sex workers.

The Ebony Femdom Interviews The Virtual Vixen Mamia Orio

While virtual sex work is not necessarily a new concept, The Virtual Vixen gained recognition for being an only fans content model, after making over 100K using solely her avatar, on the popular platform (you can also find her on Playboy’s subscription site.  She offers the same services that many “real” content models offer, and since this is something I have knowledge of myself, I instantly became a supporter of hers.  Now with the uncharted territory of offering something that no one else is offering at the time, you’re gonna have haters. Especially people who aren’t part of the gaming community and are ignorant to the fact that men will pay for many different forms of kink artistry.. especially when they’re horny.

Virtual Vixen Mamia Orio

The Virtual Vixen And The Ebony Femdom Discuss The “Haters”

Yep. When I first started at Enchantrix I was only a virtual Ebony Femdom and you could only do sessions with me via the metaverse. So guess what happened when I joined the sites using an avatar? Oh yes, everything from naysayers to men asking silly questions about whether or not I was a real person. There was also the occasional backlash on twitter, from people who were ignorant of who I was and what I was offering. Mamia did share that she had content models talking trash about her, and the cattiness of the industry we’re in.  Basically people were acting real weird because we’re doing something different that they don’t fully understand. But here’s the positive take away.

Getting To Know The Virtual Gamer Girls

Most of our society thrives on mediocrity and fitting in. So imagine you’re offering a new service, doing something no one has done before, and people looking at you like you’ve sprouted an extra head and horns. As I’ve mentioned before, talking to me vs. assuming sh** is always going to be a completely different ball game. And once men did sessions with me and got to know me, they realized what I offered and the personable experience I provided. Mamia also mentioned that people are completely different when you talk to them and get to know them in private, which is definitely FACTS. So what did we learn, bois?  That’s right: Just because it’s different, doesn’t mean it’s wrong.

The Allure Of Virtual Adult Entertainment

In case you didn’t know, there are virtual strippers, dance troupes, burlesque acts, escorts, and even virtual brothels, as one of my close friends owns an AFK sim, where you can pay to perform simulated sex acts with a persons avatar.  There is also a very big BDSM and kink community online, and there are many real life Femdoms, who have virtual world avatars and offer services online. And just like with real BDSM sessions, you can roleplay Femdom scenes and fantasies. There’s a market for virtual sex work, but the key factor is that it IS real work.  You have to promote yourself, you have to have customer service skills, and really being a sex worker requires a skillset that most of the vanilla world simply doesn’t have, mostly because they don’t have to.  And just like in the real world, you’re going to have pushback and negativity to overcome.

Protecting Your Energy Online

One of the things we talked about on the podcast, was how important protecting your energy – both spiritually and emotionally – is, and how frustrating it is to find out that you have to do that online, and in virtual, as well. We all know how crazy real life can be. Add the virtual world into the mix and it basically removes certain boundaries like distance  and face to face communication, and that world gets even crazier. Because unfortunately while you have a lot of freedom in the virtual world, that freedom also leaves the gate wide open for toxic behavior such as poor etiquette, and digital harassment.  I did ask Mamia about her experiences with roleplaying and while she doesn’t roleplay anymore, she did say she used to enjoy it… until people started taking things to heart, like the virtual soap operas that unfold on the grid because of hurt feelings. Now here’s my personal feelings on roleplaying.

Roleplaying As A Hobby Vs. Roleplaying For Money

There are several virtual roleplaying communities online for people who enjoy them, and I’m no stranger to roleplaying, as I used to do it years ago, in addition to my erotic writing. Personally my social battery now is way too short to take roleplaying as a hobby, because for me personally it’s draining, and only because I also do this for work. However if you like rp’s, the virtual world is the place to go.  With a warning: Just like with anywhere else online, sometimes you get to know people and feelings get involved. It’s a good idea to have healthy boundaries and voice your expectations, because the virtual can turn into wackadoodle land, REAL FAST.

Remembering That There Are Real People Behind The Virtual Personas

My advice to anyone who doesn’t understand the gamer girl kink, or the interest in virtual hotties, is to remember that these are real people, with real lives, that are tapping into a market that caters to offering versatility and accessibility. There are a myriad of reasons why people enjoy playing virtual personas, and I’m not here to judge those and neither should you. I have pet peeves specific to the fetishization of black people, and I am also aware of the entirely different set of challenges black female creators encounter, so I fully support virtual work and black virtual content creators. And thankfully this is slowly changing.

The Many Reasons People Choose Virtual

For one you can express yourself in many different ways. You can literally be a unicorn or a fairy in world without judgement. Many people who are sex workers choose not to show their faces for privacy reasons, and having a virtual model gives you a level of privacy that you might not have if you used your own real life content. There are other virtual platforms such as IMVU, that other metaverse where the avatars only have a torso… (I discussed the running joke about the other metaverse, on the podcast), GTA which is also very popular, and there are content creators that use the sims for their work and roleplays.  Harassment is yet another reason sex workers choose to remain anonymous. I have personally heard horror stories and experienced some of my own from when I used to work in a real life strip club. It’s important to remember that some people cannot separate fantasy from reality, and have unhealthy obsessions with the women they project onto. Privacy is important to us for our loved ones and friends also.

Tips For Breaking Into Virtual Content

Research. Research. Research. Learn how to market yourself, and remember that sex workers have to do much more because we’re promoting ourselves. It’s not going to happen overnight, but you can make a name for yourself if you do the work. I will tell you right now, this is not a job for lazy people, or for people that think a real job means working a 9-5.  And if you’re a patron of virtual sex workers, remember that this is a job for us, and treat us with respect.

Sessions And Content

If you’d like to know more about Mamia Orio, hit that link and go to her website. And if you want to know more about the Ebony Femdom, you’re in the right place.  Email me willow@enchantrixempire.com for custom inquiries and text sessions. Sidenote: Because people have been abusing the system, my attention on Skype will be extremely limited or non existent. So if you want a texting sesssion, you can pay on the sexy texting site, and then email me to confirm your payment. Also watch this space, because we have a lot going on in July. For calls with me just dial 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow. I would like to send a special shout out to Mamia Orio for taking the time to speak with me, it was a pleasure having her on the podcast. If you’re interested in being on my podcast or have an idea for an episode, hit that email. Stay safe, and stay blessed.

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Ebony Femdom Juneteenth Request – Humiliating Foot Worship

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Disclaimer: If you’re fragile and looking for a soft Domme do not read this blog. It will hurt your feelings. I won’t care if it does.

I hope you didn’t think just because it’s Pride Month, that we were just gonna sliiiiiiiide past it being Juneteenth on Monday, and you weren’t gonna hear my mouth. (Laughs… HARD) Your favorite unhinged black Femdom has something to say, about all of that. So sit down, shutup, and read my Ebony Femdom Juneteenth. It involves humiliating foot worship, and you being a pathetic disappointment and degrading yourself for my delight.

Ebony Femdom Juneteenth

To be frank, I really dislike discussing certain things, like politics and religion. However where this (fake ass) holiday is concerned, I will say that I am rather disappointed but not surprised that “massa” tried to placate us with making this a holiday. This country has a rich history of well…. let’s not go there. Anyway what I need you white bois to do for Juneteenth, is actually really easy to do. Pay me and STFU.  In my line of work, I will tell you, that I love being paid to tell white people to shut the fuck up. If you have to be in my presence on Monday, you will need to be even less annoying than you normally would need to be. So on Monday, I’m welcoming – really I welcome them any time – ignore calls, where you sit on the phone and be quiet.

No Emotional Labor On Ebony Femdom Juneteenth And Lots Of Humiliation

Before I tell you exactly what I have planned for Monday,  I’m gonna tell you right now don’t ask me to explain sh** to you. You better have a friend in Jesus and Google and pray that both of them can help you. If you don’t know something, look it up. While you’re at it write a 500 word essay on Juneteenth.  Now that we’ve gotten that out of the way, let’s talk about humiliation foot worship.

Ebony Femdom Humiliating Foot Worship

My life is always made easier when men pamper me. I always get what I want.  Remember those two things and to refrain from whining to me about “what you want” if you call me on Monday.  Monday is pay black women and be ignored while I use you as a doormat, day.  And to all of you risk takers out there, who love being pummeled into submission, but have fantasies about being dominated by black women: MY holiday is the perfect day, to be my bitch, and make me comfortable.  My feet will be the only part of my body you are allowed to look at, worship, and touch. And you can only touch my feet, with your face and mouth.

What Happened To A Kinder Gentler Duchess Willow?

She’s taking the day off. Bitch. If you need something else to read while I’m ignoring you, peep my things to do on an ignore call, for starters. The rest I’m not going to tell you until you call me. That means be ready to do whatever I tell you to do, and if you cry about it I’m going to laugh at you. I expect you to be able to follow explicit instructions and do exactly as you’re told. This is a test to see how well you handle being my toy for a day. Many of you claim to want a woman to take control, but you don’t really mean that. You mean YOU want your Domme to follow the script you’ve envisioned every time you pump your lube filled cock sleeve. Guess what love? I’m not your cock sleeve.

The Aftermath Of Ebony Femdom Juneteenth

Suffer my wrath and maybe the “nice” Duchess Willow will come back and want to talk to you on Tuesday.  The “nice” Duchess Willow will spank you and tell you you’re a naughty boi and make all your dreams come true. The dark side of a Cancer moon woman is your worst nightmare. People have this misconception about cancer women, yes we’re emotional, no… I don’t sit around crying. I’d rather make you cry instead.

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Ebony Femdom Black Supremacy – Is It Real?

I know some of you are familiar with a black supremacy fetish called BNWO which is basically a form of fantasy “reverse racism.” So lemme put you on real quick: Real reverse racism doesn’t exist.  I know it’s upsetting when you discover that all of your privilege does not leave room for you to be oppressed, but since everyone else is delusional then I’m going to join you in the wackadoodle party.  If it was a thing, you wouldn’t last 5 seconds. Since it’s not, the only way you can experience it, is through a fetish roleplay fantasy. I’m here to help you reach your delusional best. Just remember one simple thing: BNWO means you serve black Dominants…… not white Dommes who fuck black men.  So leave your Qos nonsense the fuck out of it. That is not a service, to us.

What Kind Of Callers Does The Ebony Femdom Get?

Everything from sensual foot worship, to the nastiest little crackhead sissies (literally) want to serve me. Basically…. come closer….. (whispering) I do everything the white Dommes do. With a few exceptions obviously, which I’m sure you bitches know, what not to say to me if you want to keep your teeth. Figuratively speaking of course.  I like indulging my fantasies just as much as you do, which is why I’m going to rub my delicious feet all over your face and make a pretty mess of you.

Foot Worship With The Ebony Femdom

Pick your jaw up off the floor and get used to a Dominant woman actually speaking her mind. I make these informative posts deliberately, because it takes a certain pedigree of submissive, to satisfy my needs. If you want to call me tonight, or tomorrow, for diversity training, you’re welcome to. If you don’t want to be ignored, I’d suggest you have something interesting and respectful to say or I swear I’ll put the phone down and play bejeweled while you talk to yourself.  If you can’t call read acts of service and share this blog around. Dial 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow. You’re welcome to pay reparations in the form of virtual bouquets, when you connect with dispatch. Have the day you deserve.

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Pride Month And Diversity In Phone Sex With The Ebony Femdom (And Birthdays Too)

Pride Month With The Ebony Femdom And Diversity In Phone Sex
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I cannot for the life of me understand, why people are so fragile while simultaneously trying to micromanage other people’s lives……. I’m working on this kinder, gentler vibe, just know, that sometimes you have to be blunt with people, because they don’t understand kindness.  With that said, it’s pride month, and we’re going to talk about diversity in phone sex, ebony femdom thoughts how to have a happy pride, and why you can always talk to us, and explore your sexuality, with us.

Pride Month And Diversity In Phone Sex

It seems within our diverse society, most of the opinionated mouth breathers, have a lot to say and no knowledge to back it up. If you don’t have experience as a business manager, would you tell a manager how to do their job? Don’t answer that, I know some of the Karen’s and Steve’s are reading this. Stop telling people how to live their lives especially if you are not fucking them, and their identity does not in any way impact who you choose to invite to your bedroom, who you stick your dick into, and whom you spread your fucking legs for.

Pride Month – Be Authentically You

That’s about as politely as I am going to say that, as someone who has gay, trans, bisexual loved ones, and… sadly, some very homophobic, transphobic relatives, who have let a man made book dictate their programming.  The same way I can’t tell a trans person how to live their life, is how I feel about most things I have experience with, that others, do not.  So no matter what your background, you’re welcome to discuss your sexuality, and kink fantasies with us, so long as you respect everyone’s boundaries. Now that.. hmm… seems to be a very difficult thing.. for some people. Which is why I’m writing this blog.

Boundaries And Identity As A Part Of The LGBTQ+

Doesn’t matter what gender or sexual orientation you identify with, we can all stand to have better manners. For instance, I’m heteroflexible. That means I’ve had experiences with the same sex, and my preference is masculine men.  If someone walked up to me and said, “oh you only like men because you’ve never tried being with a woman” or any variation of that, I’d probably kick them in the teeth. So I think it’s very strange when team “pray the gay away” starts their foolishness.  Same goes for your fantasies. Be mindful that your fantasy is just that, and what may turn you on – such as your trans cocksucking fantasy, with those “words” you definitely should not say to a trans person – might be offensive to someone else. (Looks at the sissies sternly) Speaking of sissies… Let’s have a little chat about that.

Is The Sissy Lifestyle Problematic Or “Harmful” To Trans People?

Since this is a fetish we cater to, it’s important to understand and acknowledge, that outside of the BDSM/Kink community, there are many people who find the sissy fetish, offensive and harmful to transgender people. My umbrella answer to that question, is that all kinks are problematic.  Qos is hella racist, and yet some black men are okay with it. Notice I didn’t mention what non-black person was okay with it, because yall don’t have a say in what’s offensive, to black people. Many cis men are into the sissy fetish and also the qos fantasy – as discussed in ethical tattoos for sissies, as are some white women.  I don’t police all black men, I’m just gonna tell you that you should tread lightly, and mind your manners when approaching black men. Show them the same respect you expect to be shown in your privileged, professional lives.

More On The Sissy Kink In Relation To LGBTQ+

The sissy terminology has evolved from being used as a slur against gay men, to being a term for men who are into feminization as a form of Domination. Not all crossdressers are sissies, not all sissies are crossdressers, and not all trans people are “sissies” and some may find being called a sissy, offensive.  However you will come across trans women who indulge in the sissy fetish, and call themselves sissies, and are not offended by it. So as a general rule: Don’t assume. Ask.

 

Being Safe When Indulging Your Kinks

This one is for the men, who throw caution and their own safety to the wind, when they have an erection.  Be careful approaching men when you’re looking for a cock to suck, or to get fucked by. Because while I know there’s plenty of men who will take you up on the offer to get a blow job, there’s also plenty of men who might take offense to being approached by you, in your time of need. And I promise you your horniness is not more important than ending up in the ER, or needing your teeth rearranged.  Unfortunately, there are people in this world that – if they find out you’re cruising for the “gay” experience – will take measures to harm you, out of pure hatred and phobia.

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Safe Spaces For LGBTQ+ In Kink

I am always going to suggest finding local groups to indulge in your kink, and finding safe spaces and safe people, to play with.  With that in mind, I would definitely suggest you call the ladies at LDW, before you embark on any wild adventures. Why? Because sometimes your fantasy works better as a roleplay, than it does in terms of logistics.  Especially if we’re talking about the more risque fetishes. There are a lot of things we can talk about, that are safer discussing, than they are doing.

Celebrating Pride And… Birthdays With The Ebony Femdom

Celebrate Pride Month with me and you’ll also be helping me celebrate another year of Ebony Femdom Phone Sex. My birthday is June 29th and I will be claiming the entire month – possibly part of next month – to party.  I believe there’s a special raffle going around for our valued customers. Do a 60+ minute phone sex session, possibly win a prize if the odds are in your favor.  If you’d like to spend a little time with me, you can do that by dialing 1-800-601-6975 and asking for Duchess Willow. And if you ask nicely, I’ll let you kiss my feet, since phone sex foot fetish is our site of the month. Stay safe, and stay blessed.

 

Duchess Willow

willow@enchantrixempire.com

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Ebony Femdom Phone Sex Podcast

Sexy Texting

Enchantrix Discord

Custom Audios

Phone Sex Audios

Ebony Femdom Dick Ratings

Email And Texting Package

Virtual Femdom Sessions (You must have a computer)