Black History Month With The Ebony Femdom

Black History Month
Duchess Willow has a message for black history month. 1-800-601-6975

Disclaimer: If any of the black history month subject matter is offensive to you or hurts your feelings, go throw that on a damn therapist. 

Good day white bois and caucasitious beings. It’s February, you know what that means don’t you? It’s Black History Month. Reparations are due, and there are few ways you can pay for your sins and please The Duchess. For one, you can stop sniveling and whining about how you’re tired of hearing about racism. I know you have a disconnect where blackness is concerned, unless you’re blackfishing and appropriating our culture, I don’t give a damn. How you feel about it is none of my concern, and it’s only going to make your white boi training during black history month more severe. So let’s cut right to the chase: NONE of you will be cumming this month, and you will know the pain and discomfort of more than just orgasm denial.

Black History Month With The Ebony Femdom

For the people in the back complaining that caucasitious is not a word, yall bitches make sh*t up every day and claim you discovered it and no one ever questions you, so go sit on your mouth. We’re going to discuss why black history month with the ebony femdom is important. First of all, you need to understand that before you fetishize another black woman, you’re going to be well versed on who we are and why your behavior is racist. Notice I didn’t say – before you fetishize “a” black woman? Because I know you’ve already done it. Many of you fetishize black women on a daily basis. So why don’t we start with racism, a subject that makes many white people uncomfortable, because it demands them to acknowledge their behavior.

Racism And Fetishizing Black Women

To fetishize a black woman is simply to see her as a sex object instead of a human being. Many white men see black women as mammies or sex objects or loud and angry. All of these are wrong. For anyone who will argue about fetishizing women in general, you’re part of the problem. Here we are talking about black women and you feel the need to interject your unsolicited commentary and include all women. When a black woman is talking about being fetishized, here’s how to participate: 1. Shut the whole fuck up. 2. Listen.

Fetishizing Black Women Continued

Now as I was saying, the reason there is a difference between fetishizing all women and fetishizing black women – and there is a difference – is because even white and non black women of color get more respect than black women do. I have seen with my own eyes and ears and spirit, how mostly white men will take liberties with black women and say and do things in our presence they would never do or say toward non black women. The same sadly goes for some black men – but that’s a whole other conversation involving internalized racism and self hatred and misogynoire. Many men shift in both verbal and body language when around black women and feel “more comfortable” talking down to us or in front of us, because we’re seen as “less than.” It is the reason that those who fetishize black women do not see anything wrong with their behavior, and is based on stereotypes about black women.

Yes We Are Sexy And Beautiful.. And Also Smarter Than You

Black women are the furthest thing from stupid, and we live in a society where freedom to be sexual and express a woman’s sexuality, is reserved for the racially ambiguous and for non blacks. Black women are told to “have respect for ourselves and put our clothes back on” because “you know what people will think about you if they see you behaving or dressing like that.” I was raised in that sort of stifling and isolating upbringing. Where you’re told to focus on being a good girl and because of double standards, black women who dress and behave in a sultry and provocative way are seen as fast and uncouth.

Ebony Femdom Beginnings

Thankfully for me, I never listened to other people and their opinions, and I did as I pleased and became a sex worker and an ebony phone sex provider. Yet I still see around me, the glaring contrast in how white sex workers are treated, and even how they treat each other as opposed to how they respond to us. And I have touched on the need for diversity, and the toxic behavior on social media that is poisonous to black women. The point I’m making in all of this, is that I am really tired of seeing black women ridiculed for being sexy, for being attractive, for being sexual, and being feminine, in a world that expects us to be hard, strong, and coddling to everyone outside of us.

Black Women Embody Intelligence.. We Have To

And also expecting us to be stupid, as if we cannot be sexual, and sexy, and feminine and intelligent all at the same time. Regardless of education credentials. I’m not a college graduate, my intelligence and my wit have nothing to do with a piece of paper or a test. I can boldly say I have more sense in my head that most people who have masters degrees. And it has a lot to do with privilege, that thing that yall keep denying exists. Oh, and of course, there are those of you that think if you hear us using AAVE or slang, that we must be uneducated coons. Keep thinking that, because it will only allow me all the more power to destroy you.

Racism: Black People Cannot Be Racist

I said what I said. Racism is a system of oppression and is privilege based on skin color, therefore black people have no benefit from it. Can black people be prejudiced or discriminate against someone? Yes we can, that is where the difference lies. I know it makes you angry, you’re still wrong. So go sit in your little corner of wrongness and go do your research. The issue with having this conversation about race, is that there are people who solidly believe in their belief systems, and will not listen to anything outside of their belief system. What they’ve been taught and stand by. Those people aren’t the ones who interest me, they will end up gagging on their own ignorance. The rest of you I challenge to see outside of your little white bubble you’ve been living in, and for the women, I challenge you to understand what I’m saying without getting your white tears all over your computer screen.

The Correlation Is Simple

What does this have to do with the ebony femdom? We’re getting to that, you needed the life lesson first. The BDSM and kinky humiliation is coming next, for all those of you that are willing and able to be led by a black dominant. There is racism within the kink community too. Keep the following words out of your mouth at all times: “I am not attracted to black women” or “I don’t find black women appealing” congratulations, if you ever used these terms, you are very much racist. You’re also racist if you ever used the term “ghetto” to describe a person place or thing. And you’re hella racist if you thought the Kardashians invented cornrows and box braids.

You Are Racist Until You Educate Yourself On Why

And also understand that white people are inherently racist due to the society they’ve been raised in that taught them there’s a difference in how you treat people based on skin color. Yes, even you, and your having black friends are included in that group. And if you think sleeping with black women makes you not racist, you need your teeth kicked in. Because men will fuck a woman they can’t stand; men will fuck black women and still view them as animals. Men are disconnected from their erections, so fucking a black woman doesn’t mean a damn thing.

Racism In The Kink Community

In a world where black women are seen as strong, dominant, mouthy, having an attitude, hard and as mules that can take the weight on their backs, you’d think they’d be perfectly welcomed in the kink community. Sadly even there, black women are excluded from participation, and then invited to spend money when it’s convenient. Because of closed minded societal standards of beauty and attractiveness, here too, skin color plays a role. Slowly that is changing, however if you look around you, black dommes are the minority. They are just as experienced, and probably just as popular, but black women in femdom are also treated with less respect than their white counterparts. So what to do about this? Education is needed, and also, for black women’s voices to be heard and listened to.

Black History Month With The Ebony Femdom – Humility Is A Great Teacher

I talk a lot about diversity training, and a form of ebony cuckolding that does not involve your typical “black bull” if you will. I loathe the term “spade” because of what it stands for. Yes I’m aware of the fetish, yes I’m aware it is popular, and yes it’s racist as fuck. My style of cuckolding will have you respecting your black superiors. My style of white boi training involves me sometimes taking matters into my own hands. That includes the occasional strapon, and for those with a taste for tgirls – some erotic ebony shemale action. First though, I need to clarify. I do not use the terms shemale, or tranny, or faggot, unless someone specifically asks for those words, asks to be called those words, states that those words are part of their kink. Calling a tgirl a tranny or shemale is disrespectful and dismissive. Periodt.

Your Ebony Femdom Training

Consider everything discussed in this blog entry, part of your ebony femdom training. And since it is black history month, and my favorite thing to do with white bois is humiliate them, I have a special assignment for you. I’m going to love it, I really don’t give a damn whether or not you do.

Diversity Training Assignments For Black History Month

Go out and buy a pack of white undershirts. Make sure you have enough undershirts for every day of the week, and for every day of this month. Buy a pack of tighty whities too while you’re at it. Get a big black sharpie marker. I want you to write, in all capital letters: PROPERTY OF THE BLACK QUEEN WILLOW across the front of the undershirts, and wear them every day for the rest of the month.  Write in all capital letters: WHITE APPROPRIATING COLONIZER IN SLAVE TRAINING across the back of the undershirts. On your tighty whities, on the front of that trash dick in all caps: WILLOW’S DICK on the back, in all caps: WILLOW’S ASS. Every day when you rise from slumber, I want you to stand in front of the mirror, slap yourself hard in the face 10 times, and say: I am a pathetic white dog, after each slap.

White Boi Humiliation Training

You will wear these every day for the rest of the month, as a reminder that you serve a Black Queen and that The Duchess controls you. If the marker fades in the wash, you will write over the lettering to keep it clear in your mind and in your heart, that you are my slave. Think of it as ebony femdom reparations. For the rest of your training, you need to pick up the damn phone and call me. The number is 1-800-601-6975 and the name is Duchess Willow. I also will accept Mistress Willow. You are allowed to send me pictures of you in your white, slave training attire, however for every picture you send, there had better be a virtual bouquet or an amazon gift card before hand. In addition to the disclaimer, if you’re offended by a black woman talking about racism, you can kiss my black ass. Until next time..

Duchess Willow

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4 thoughts on “Black History Month With The Ebony Femdom

  1. Yes, all of this. Allow me to amplify your voice, Duchess Willow.

    I had the Duchess on Whore School to discuss Black History month and racism in kink, Sunday the 9th. If you missed it, you can stream it on demand now! So go do so, and learn something.

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