I cannot for the life of me understand, why people are so fragile while simultaneously trying to micromanage other people’s lives……. I’m working on this kinder, gentler vibe, just know, that sometimes you have to be blunt with people, because they don’t understand kindness. With that said, it’s pride month, and we’re going to talk about diversity in phone sex, ebony femdom thoughts how to have a happy pride, and why you can always talk to us, and explore your sexuality, with us.
Pride Month And Diversity In Phone Sex
It seems within our diverse society, most of the opinionated mouth breathers, have a lot to say and no knowledge to back it up. If you don’t have experience as a business manager, would you tell a manager how to do their job? Don’t answer that, I know some of the Karen’s and Steve’s are reading this. Stop telling people how to live their lives especially if you are not fucking them, and their identity does not in any way impact who you choose to invite to your bedroom, who you stick your dick into, and whom you spread your fucking legs for.
Pride Month – Be Authentically You
That’s about as politely as I am going to say that, as someone who has gay, trans, bisexual loved ones, and… sadly, some very homophobic, transphobic relatives, who have let a man made book dictate their programming. The same way I can’t tell a trans person how to live their life, is how I feel about most things I have experience with, that others, do not. So no matter what your background, you’re welcome to discuss your sexuality, and kink fantasies with us, so long as you respect everyone’s boundaries. Now that.. hmm… seems to be a very difficult thing.. for some people. Which is why I’m writing this blog.
Boundaries And Identity As A Part Of The LGBTQ+
Doesn’t matter what gender or sexual orientation you identify with, we can all stand to have better manners. For instance, I’m heteroflexible. That means I’ve had experiences with the same sex, and my preference is masculine men. If someone walked up to me and said, “oh you only like men because you’ve never tried being with a woman” or any variation of that, I’d probably kick them in the teeth. So I think it’s very strange when team “pray the gay away” starts their foolishness. Same goes for your fantasies. Be mindful that your fantasy is just that, and what may turn you on – such as your trans cocksucking fantasy, with those “words” you definitely should not say to a trans person – might be offensive to someone else. (Looks at the sissies sternly) Speaking of sissies… Let’s have a little chat about that.
Is The Sissy Lifestyle Problematic Or “Harmful” To Trans People?
Since this is a fetish we cater to, it’s important to understand and acknowledge, that outside of the BDSM/Kink community, there are many people who find the sissy fetish, offensive and harmful to transgender people. My umbrella answer to that question, is that all kinks are problematic. Qos is hella racist, and yet some black men are okay with it. Notice I didn’t mention what non-black person was okay with it, because yall don’t have a say in what’s offensive, to black people. Many cis men are into the sissy fetish and also the qos fantasy – as discussed in ethical tattoos for sissies, as are some white women. I don’t police all black men, I’m just gonna tell you that you should tread lightly, and mind your manners when approaching black men. Show them the same respect you expect to be shown in your privileged, professional lives.
More On The Sissy Kink In Relation To LGBTQ+
The sissy terminology has evolved from being used as a slur against gay men, to being a term for men who are into feminization as a form of Domination. Not all crossdressers are sissies, not all sissies are crossdressers, and not all trans people are “sissies” and some may find being called a sissy, offensive. However you will come across trans women who indulge in the sissy fetish, and call themselves sissies, and are not offended by it. So as a general rule: Don’t assume. Ask.
Being Safe When Indulging Your Kinks
This one is for the men, who throw caution and their own safety to the wind, when they have an erection. Be careful approaching men when you’re looking for a cock to suck, or to get fucked by. Because while I know there’s plenty of men who will take you up on the offer to get a blow job, there’s also plenty of men who might take offense to being approached by you, in your time of need. And I promise you your horniness is not more important than ending up in the ER, or needing your teeth rearranged. Unfortunately, there are people in this world that – if they find out you’re cruising for the “gay” experience – will take measures to harm you, out of pure hatred and phobia.
Safe Spaces For LGBTQ+ In Kink
I am always going to suggest finding local groups to indulge in your kink, and finding safe spaces and safe people, to play with. With that in mind, I would definitely suggest you call the ladies at LDW, before you embark on any wild adventures. Why? Because sometimes your fantasy works better as a roleplay, than it does in terms of logistics. Especially if we’re talking about the more risque fetishes. There are a lot of things we can talk about, that are safer discussing, than they are doing.
Celebrating Pride And… Birthdays With The Ebony Femdom
Celebrate Pride Month with me and you’ll also be helping me celebrate another year of Ebony Femdom Phone Sex. My birthday is June 29th and I will be claiming the entire month – possibly part of next month – to party. I believe there’s a special raffle going around for our valued customers. Do a 60+ minute phone sex session, possibly win a prize if the odds are in your favor. If you’d like to spend a little time with me, you can do that by dialing 1-800-601-6975 and asking for Duchess Willow. And if you ask nicely, I’ll let you kiss my feet, since phone sex foot fetish is our site of the month. Stay safe, and stay blessed.
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