Here’s an opportunity to close your mouth and open your ears, and learn about proper submissive etiquette. I see a lot of so called subs loudly and often proclaiming what they want and demanding that any, and all femdoms give them what they want. I find that sort of drivel repulsive. What you need to comprehend, when approaching, and interacting with ANY dominant, is that first and foremost: You don’t tell us, what to do. And if you’re a true submissive, you already know this, and if you don’t know this, you will learn your place and proper etiquette soon enough, in any D/s misstep that you take. And with such, it is important to take the correction, if you want to keep your jewels intact, and I’m not talking about rubies or sapphires.
Submissive Etiquette – Real Femdom And Fantasy Femdom
As far as I’m concerned, real D/s lifestyle relationships are no different from the fantasy scenarios. If you’re requesting to be dominated by anyone, you need to approach with respect and manners, as opposed to your dick. With fantasy in mind, and since that’s what you’re calling for, the rules allow for a little wiggle room, however, whether in fantasy or not, respect comes before play. A submissive does not bark orders or call the shots with any Femdom. While you always have control in consenting to whom you play with, you do not have control over what your dominant chooses to have you do, once consent, and a conversation on rules and regulations is had. Once you hand over the reigns, you are no longer allowed to tell anyone what to do.
My Bluntness Is Kindness
I’m telling you this so you can avoid embarrassing yourself in front of any dominant you’re hoping to impress, because you will not only embarrass yourself, a real Domme won’t even acknowledge your presence if you’re disrespectful. So here’s some “do’s” for any submissive: Do your research. Do ask questions. Do conduct yourself in a manner that is consistent with a submissive, when you finally approach the dominant you wish to play with. Honestly, certain types of behavior would get you banished in some settings. Look up high protocol BDSM. With respect to LDW, we tend to be more lax in the protocol department, and each Mistress makes her own rules on how you can properly communicate with them. Where the Ebony Femdom is concerned, you will approach me with respect at all times, and you will follow my rules, or you don’t approach me at all.
Ebony Femdom Connection
I am happy to share a few things here with you, and this is another aspect of LDW that I love, that you can read our profiles and blogs, and find out all you need to know before your initial contact. I am a switch, however mostly dominant, unless I feel like subbing, and I am in the right company to do so. I will answer any question that has not already been answered in my Ebony Femdom FAQ. If the question has already been addressed, you will be curtly redirected to my blog. I have no tolerance for playing dumb, selective deafness, selective illiteracy, or straight up laziness. If you’re submissive and you’re too lazy to research me, then you’ve already disqualified yourself as a potential sub.
Submissive Etiquette: Results May Vary
Some Mistresses may not care if you researched them or not, everyone is different. When calling me, I’m happy to answer any questions you have in session. If it’s free time in emails or skype, if I have the time, I will say hello, if I don’t, I will direct you to the blog. If my demeanor is intimidating to you, I can only assure you, that my attitude towards you is fluid, based on your displayed intelligence. And with all due respect, I think that’s fair. I mean… I could be straight up rude gyal on you if I wanted to, and I’d be within my rights. With that said, now I’m going to tell you what the Duchess wants. Because if you’re reading this, that’s the most important thing you need to learn.
What Duchess Willow Wants
Submissive men who like to eat ass. White bois who wish to have their privilege and identity stripped while being appropriated and humiliated. Sissies pink BBC loving betas who enjoy being housebroken and serving their black Dominants. Full spectrum submissives who don’t care what is done to them so long as they are used. Mental submissives who enjoy a good mindfuck. Tiny men who love to worship the Ebony Giantess. Men who love submitting to, and spoiling a black woman and treating her like a Princess. Energized, respectful, and willing to learn, submissives. Submissives who love the sting of a black woman’s whip marking their skin. Submissives who enjoy being slapped, by my hand, or one or both of my titties. Submissives who enjoy being high risk lab rats. Submissives who enjoy black woman led cuckolding styles. Vanilla roleplays within respectful boundaries, that are pleasing and acceptable to both of us. I don’t mind discussing a variety of subjects, outside of Femdom, so long as you communicate this, with me.
Do You Comply? Submissive Etiquette Requirements
If this is in alignment with your subby spirit, and you’re interested in serving me like a good boi, you need only pick the phone up and call me. The number, is 1-800-601-6975. Ask for Duchess Willow. If you want an experience that will make you cry yourself to sleep, call me and Mistress Harper, for some two on one, two Mistress Femdom. You get 5 minutes added to your call, so long as you purchase a minimum of 10 minutes. This offer is good through the summer, or whenever outside opens up again. I will have an email package up this month, hopefully, where you can get an email engagement daily. Subscribe here, to receive updates. Until then, stay blessed.
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