Ebony Femdom CFNM – Prove It To Me In The Nude

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Duchess Willow discusses Ebony Femdom CFNM 1-800-601-6975

The only person that is going to get the correlation between the second half of my blog title, and where its from, is me. I’ve made my peace with my vague references that nobody gets. Today however I’d like to discuss the spiritual act of being vulnerable as a man, when you venture into the depths of ebony femdom CFNM.

Disclaimer: I enjoy scaring my “potential” callers. Weeds out the men from the boys, and the bois. If you’re scared after reading this, just imagine what that fear boner is going to feel like, when you’re naked with my stiletto planted firmly on your skull.

Ebony Femdom CFNM – Domination Is Not A Joke To Me

I know that Ebony Femdom Phone Sex is a form of distance Domination. It is still very much real, and there are so many layers to Femdom. As such, I don’t take Femdom like it’s some fucking hobby. Most who call Enchantrix Empire already know this is a phone Femdom service. We have casual callers who just want the fantasy aspect of Femdom, and that’s fine, so long as you remember the point of female domination is not for you to top from the bottom and use us as fetish dispensers. Which is a pet peeve of mine: People who treat kink like it’s a joke, and want to “serve” us by doing what interests them. This is not service. When you’re catering to your own fantasy, you are only in service to yourself. I am the vessel in which brings that fantasy to life. You bust a fat nut, and carry on with your day. That’s not service, that’s us providing fantasy fulfillment you’d be otherwise resolved to complete with your left hand.

Serving Us Means Submitting To Us – Is Femdom A Service To You?

The short answer is yes. Don’t worry I’m getting to the CFNM bit.  A submissive chooses to submit, just as a Dominant can accept or refuse you as a submissive, and often after careful consideration. This is how I know who the real subs are, vs. the subs who just want to bust a nut and go back to the real world. There’s nothing wrong with fantasy, sexual roleplays, or Femdom porn. Just know, that the little world you create in your head, is not how real Femdom goes, and most real life Femdoms are not going to have sex with you unless it’s what “they” want. Being the dominant involves leading, teaching, guidance, and a lot of emotional labor. Which is why I demand payment for my time.  And even if you’re paying for my time, if at any point I feel unsafe playing with you, I can refuse you service, no matter how much you’re paying.  So let me give you a stern piece of advice: If you truly want to be in service, you’re going to have to release this unrealistic and male entitled expectation, that women have to do whatever you want them to, because you’re paying them. Don’t turn your ears off just because I said something you didn’t like. I’m getting to why CFNM is such a visceral experience.

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Duchess Willow is having a Mistress Day on April 12th and YOU get 10 free phone sex minutes 1-800-601-6975

Ebony Femdom CFNM Bares Your Soul

Think about it. You’re in the mind garden of your virtual femdom space, kneeling or standing before your Dominant, after being stripped of everything that gave you a false sense of power. You’re naked and vulnerable, you can lie with your tongue, but your body will tell your truth. When the only thing you’re wearing is shame and humility; when your dick is not the centerpiece of attention; when you realize that having a penis alone is not enough to please me; when you get that gut punch and your stomach drops while your hands are behind your head as you’re being inspected, smug grin gone because no matter how smart you think you are, Mistress is not pleased with your self righteous behavior. That’s when it becomes necessary to surrender. Your pride, your ego, your useless erection and my foot on your neck. Once you realize that with one move or one word I could destroy you, you will begin to see things my way.  How can you serve me? By listening and doing as I’ve told you to do, the first damn time I tell you.  Remember that pain can be mental and emotional, not just physical.

CFNM Subspace

When you’re naked, nervous, and out of control, the world spins differently. Some people drop so deeply, mentally, and emotionally, that pain becomes a reward. Anything to escape the uncomfortable sensation of being laid bare.  Just like with mind control techniques, once out of subspace, you may not remember everything that happened to you, only that – if done correctly – you will know you’ve done well for your Mistress. Think of BDSM as sensory perception play, for adults. I can’t take credit for that, check out Supernova on twitter.  Every inch of your body, being seen and scrutinized, in a space you cannot hide anything from, lying and fabricating and exaggerating are pointless. So is CFNM all about humility? No. Some of us enjoy seeing your naked body, especially when you’re in service to us and not in a sexual manner.

CFNM Is Not About Your Dick

Doubling back to what I previously said about fantasy. I know in your head you think “wow, she’s gonna be so turned on when she sees my penis” or “I bet I’m gonna get laid.” You do not, I am not, and you will not. Your naked body provides non-sexual pleasure, when you’re my personal servant, providing something that is needed, for me. Did you not learn anything from my himbo training and house husbands blogs? It’s okay if you get an erection knowing that I’m watching that ass, just don’t expect me to be interested in your erection, solely because you have one and think it’s important. I deflate egos without trying. Think of me as the Master, and you the apprentice. You want to learn from me, start by scrubbing the floors. Imagine being trained and housebroken by doing the furthest thing from focusing on your penis?

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Examples Of CFNM

A Femdom party or gathering where all the men are naked whilst the Dominas catch up with each other and have a good time. You’d be lucky if we so much as acknowledged your presence. Himbo house maids and naked butlers. Take my coat boi, but don’t you dare get your filthy man juice on it or I’ll have you tarred and feathered.  CFNM Forniphilia. Naked men spread out and contorted into various (uncomfortable) positions and used as home furnishings. I do admire the male form, especially when you’re busy serving and not talking.  Oh.. I can shut you up by sitting on your face? Of course I could, and I know you’d enjoy that, which is why facesitting is reserved for all the good bois who knew how to first follow directions.

Is The Ebony Femdom In Service To You?

Remember when I said I am a vessel by which your phone Femdom fantasies are fulfilled? That doesn’t mean I’m your goddamn doormat. The second you forget your place, or whose presence you’re in, I’m happy to remind you. You will need to use your brain AND your wallet, if you want to serve me. If you find that offensive, I will remind you that you have to pay to play with us, and that some of you have to pay just to have a woman speak to you. So if you’re not into CFNM humiliation, I’d suggest you think before speaking.

But Duchess What About My Femdom Phone Sex Fantasy?

Oh for hell’s sake, have you not been paying attention to everything I just said? Boooooo tomatoes tomatoes. If you’re worried you will get shot down for your kink, that won’t happen. So long as you are not harming me or yourself, we can discuss it. Speaking of harm and risky play, yes, we can talk about “those” fantasies, too. Roleplay exists so that when your dopamine levels drop and that post nut clarity slaps you in the balls, you don’t have to worry about a tarnished reputation or everyone at work giving you, “the look.” Your fantasies are done in confidence. So strip boi, get naked for me and show me what you’ve got.

What CFNM Means To Me

Men are better listeners when their pants are pulled down around their ankles and their little bitch stick is exposed.  They’re also more likely to tell the truth when naked and vulnerable. Now I love a man in a suit, but I love seeing what’s under the suit, and inspecting my property.  That’s what CFNM means to me. You are trusting me with your livelihood and your life, and you are trusting me when you’re at your most vulnerable. I take that seriously. As I do getting to tease and play with your naked body, and see what makes you jump, twitch, and squirm, and moan.

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In three days I have a featured Mistress day coming up. If you call me on Wednesday, April 12th, you get 10 free phone sex minutes to impress me.  In the event that you are reading this and not yet a customer, call me today and let’s fix that. The 10 free minutes are good 1, per person, per Mistress day. If you’ve already called the first 3 Mistresses, I’d suggest you call us all.  I would love to hear – in your own words – how you feel about this blog, and what CFNM means to you. I will point something else out about the free minutes:

You can do a two Mistress call and add a second Mistress for the 10 minutes. You will have to pay for the additional Mistress.

If you get the 10 free minutes you are welcome to add more paid time to your call.

Should the Mistress of the day be busy, ask the dispatcher to put you in the queue for a call back.

While you’re waiting for your callback, strip, get naked, and sit quietly until the phone rings. Or practice your writing as if you were on an CFNM ignore call.

If you would like to reach me before, during, and after my Mistress day, please dial 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow.  I look forward to hearing from you naked bois. Thanks for reading my non-linear tangent. Stay safe and stay blessed.

Duchess Willow

willow@enchantrixempire.com

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Ebony Femdom Mistress Of The Day – Free Phone Sex In April

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Ebony Femdom Mistress Of The Day – Free Phone Sex for you In April 1-800-601-6975

Back in November of last year, we had a Mistress of the day promo where everyone who called the Mistress of the day, got 10 minutes free, with that Mistress. Happy April Fool’s, but this is not a joke. We really are giving away free phone sex in April and you have 11 opportunities to get 10 minutes on the house, with each participating “Baddie.” Myself included. You can call me and redeem your free minutes, Wednesday, April 12th. Now hold on, there are a few conditions you must follow, to qualify.

Ebony Femdom Mistress Of The Day – Free Phone Sex April 12th

Now first of all, I know when you naughty bois and gurls get horny, you leave out pertinent details. So I’m going to help you out by detailing everything you must do, to get up to 110 free phone sex minutes, this month. First: You must pay attention to the calendar. Each Mistress has a specific date. You can only get those free minutes, with that Mistress, on that date. You cannot:

Save your call for another day with that Mistress

Save any unused minutes towards your next call

Use the free 10 with another Mistress

Call back again that same day and get another 10 free minutes.

The free minutes are only good with the scheduled Mistress of the day, and only one offer per person. If you don’t use them you lose them. Period.  You can schedule a callback if the MOTD is already on the phone, which is a possibility. You CAN add more time to your call if you want to talk longer than just the ten minutes.  Just let the dispatcher know you want to add paid minutes to your call.

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Duchess Willow is having a Mistress Day on April 12th and YOU get 10 free phone sex minutes 1-800-601-6975

How To Qualify For Free Phone Sex

If you’re not already an LDW customer, you will want to fix that by doing a paid call, as only returning customers are eligible for the free minute offer.  As little as 10 minutes of paid time will get you qualified. So if there’s a Mistress you’ve been eying for a session with, and they happen to have a Mistress day, give them a call now and you’ll be on the good bois and girls list.  If you’re already a customer of ours then you already know the run down and all you have to do is be on time. Speaking of on time, you will want to mark a few dates on the calendar.

Get free phone sex on featured Mistress Days in April. 1-800-601-6975

Participating Mistresses With Mistress Days This Month – Free Phone Sex Calendar

April 3rd, Mistress Erika
April 5th, Mistress Alina
April 7th, Mistress Delia
April 10th, Mistress Lena
April 12th, Duchess Willow
April 14th, Mistress Rachel
April 17th, Mistress Kay Marie
April 19th, Mistress Harper
April 21st, Mistress Jenna
April 24th, Mistress Claire
April 28th, Mistress Fiona

Ebony Femdom Mistress Of The Day Schedules And Making Appointments

It is advisable that you contact the Mistress you want to speak with, and find out when they will be on. This helps us, help you. Also please let us know if there’s a specific time that works for your call, since everyone’s schedule is not the same. You can email me for my availability at willow@enchantrixempire.com or just leave a message in my chat box. You know, the one that’s on this site? Yes that’s the one, click it, type your message, I get those to my device and will answer usually, unless I’m busy.  I’m on evenings, however on the day of my Mistress day I will probably be on a little earlier for your calls.

New To The Ebony Femdom? Introduce Yourself And Call Us All

You have nothing to lose, you get 10 free minutes with each of us, and if there’s someone you haven’t spoken to before, on the above list, this is an excellent time to to make a great first impression. If you’re new to calling me, I am going to reiterate something I mentioned before the last Mistress Days promotion: How to enjoy 10 minutes in heaven with The Ebony Femdom. Use your grown up words when talking to me. On more than one occasion, I have had callers clam up on the phone with me. Either because they believed I was going to eat them alive, or because they were playing games and being disrepectful, to me.

I Am A Femdom – Not A Mind Reader

As stated previously, I am not mean, I am blunt, and I do not tolerate nonsense from fake subs and members of the circus. Furthermore I exercise healthy boundaries, something many of you need to learn.  I enjoy meaningful conversations with people who want to talk, share their stories and experiences, and want to have a good time.  We can’t have a good time if you’re being dishonorable to yourself, and to me, and I’m not going to do the work of figuring out what you want and playing guessing games.

It’s Better When You Use Your Words

So open up your fucking mouth, say what you mean, and give me the information needed to make your toes curl. You know… the same respect you give other Dommes? I expect that from you. Are we clear?  And while I’m not a mind reader, I quite frequently refer callers to other Mistresses or vice versa, for instance when we do Multi-Mistress phone sex sessions, or need to select Mistresses for circuit training, which means the Mistresses do talk to each other.  Are you picking up what I’m putting down?

What Is A Phone Sex Session  Like With The Duchess

I am an experience. My regulars love me, and they love what I do to them. Many of them were brave and took the plunge and keep coming back for more. The only way to find out if I’m the right Mistress for you, is by calling and telling me what you need and what you’re looking for. This is where you’ll need to use your grown up words. Why do you want to serve me? What benefit will having you as my pet, bring?  I am just as curious about new callers and getting to know them, as you are curious and possibly terrified of what will happen when you call me. Which btw makes me laugh.

I Am Not Rude.. I’m Realistic

I have a colorful way of expressing myself; I am team “I said what I said;” and I touch on subjects that many people run screaming from, because these are things that affect my life and that I have experience in. That’s not going to change. That same colorful expression is how I describe details like how I want you to lick my boots, bounce on my strapon, or eat my ass. So if you want me inside you, you better talk nice to me.

Virtual Sessions With The Ebony Femdom

I would not advise trying out a virtual session on a 10 minute call, because there’s simply too much information to go over and you will need more than 10 minutes. Also virtual sessions go by very quickly. However once we’ve developed a rapport, I’d be happy to show you what it’s like gaming with me and the visual aspect of Virtual Femdom.

My Homework For You Before My Ebony Femdom Mistress Day – I’m Gonna Ask If You Read This

Read this blog. Check the links. Do your research. Impress me. People who do their research before calling me, impress me far more than the casual “so what are you gonna do to me” type callers, but you know.. it takes all kinds. If you want to be in service to me, you will be required to do heavy lifting in the form of the above. My expectations of you are that you come with an open mind, a willingness to learn, and the ability to communicate with intelligence. I have a lot of interests, so I’d love to see you put on your thinking cap and utilize the plethora of free information provided here. My good bois (and gurls) know what it takes to please me. Do you?

Ebony Femdom Phone Sex With The Duchess

Now that we got all of that out of the way, you can call me. New callers get those calls in before the Mistress day festivities begin so that you can be our phone playmates. Consider the free phone sex our gift to you. In the mean time, if you’d like to pre-game, call me at 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow. If you’re unable to call I am available for texting sessions on skype or discord, or my chat box. Our site of the month is Get Naked For Us and the theme is CFNM. So I’d prefer if you were naked, when you called.  Have a fabulous April, and make sure you call today for our very first Mistress of the day. Stay safe, and stay blessed.

Duchess Willow

willow@enchantrixempire.com

Spoil Me – Duchess Willow’s Wishlist

Ebony Femdom Phone Sex Podcast

Sexy Texting

Enchantrix Discord

Custom Audios

Phone Sex Audios

Ebony Femdom Dick Ratings

Email And Texting Package

Virtual Femdom Sessions (You must have a computer)