The unicorn meteor shower proved to be an elusive one, but it did bring out one unexpected result: crackhead sissies. I was minding my own business late Friday night during our free phone sex promotion, when I got a call from Alyssa. Shortly afterward, a unicorn prancing bitch fell out of the sky and proved to be just as entertaining as a meteor shower, if not more.
Unicorn Meteor Shower Brings Gifts Of Crackhead Sissies
So this clown gets on the phone and the first words out of this little bitches mouth is “I’m a sissy and I’m wearing tie dye panties and smokin crack!” Well hallelujah on this day of our lord, it’s raining crackhead sissies. Next thing that happens, Alyssa sends me a picture of the sissy bent over wearing tie dye panties and ready to take the dick. Not just one dick though, sissy proved to be a big black dick loving DTF for “fagtivities” and was eager to bust that bussy wide open and take several for the team. You can’t get this type of entertainment on tv.
Crackhead Sissies Love To Eat My Black Ass
The night’s entertainment got even better when the slut dropped to his knees and begged for a fat dick down his thrussy, and then dropped it low to bounce his little fruit booty ass on the penis that was promised. While getting dicked down he very lustily requested to have me sit on his face so he could lick my ass. I don’t know about you, but if someone is down to worship my ebony ass, I am happy to oblige and smother them. The sissy proofed handy with the tongue skills even if he was high as fuck off his crazy crackhead behind.
Crackhead Sissies On Film
You might be wondering what Alyssa was doing during the unicorn freak show. She was recording the sissytivities to use later to embarrass the sissy, on not one but two phones, and then threatened to out him to his nearest and dearest so they could see him in all his tie dye glory servicing his black masters and doing the sissy harlem shake. In the realm of sissy humiliation, I give unicorn sissy two thumbs up. He was entertaining, and made myself and Miss Alyssa laugh at his sissified tie dyed nonsense.
You Don’t Have To Eat Peanut Butter And Crack Sandwiches
I know this blog post is all the way live, but you don’t have to be a crackhead to wear tie dye panties or suck dick while me and my sister mistresses laugh at you. If me making jokes about crackhead sissies offends you, you can do what he did, and kiss my black ass. You can also call the ebony femdom to be humiliated while wearing the latest in pussy boi dtf fashions. The number is 1-800-601-6975 and you ask for me, Duchess Willow, when you call in. And be nice to dispatch or I will kick your teeth in. Until then…
My ebony submissive side and my femininity are interconnected. I like to nurture my feminine energy, because being in masculine mode – being a femdom – can drain and rob women of precious and sacred energy. There are times when I love hearing the words “get on your knees, princess,” from the right dominant. Therein lies the problem. Women who switch, have to be very careful who they switch with. There are men who really have no love for women whatsoever and will do us harm if given the opportunity. There are men who hate black women especially. Sure, they emulate us, fetishize us, and appropriate everything from our hair to how we talk, and simultaneously hate us. Misogynoire is very real, and if we’re not careful, being an ebony submissive can put us in danger. I am speaking from my perspective, because I am a black woman, and I do like switching when I am able to do so, but this applies to women as a whole: be careful who you submit to.
Ebony Submissive And Misogynoire
When I am tired and burned out from cracking the proverbial whip, I like to lay down my mantle and hand someone else the reigns. There is a liberation that goes along with not being in control, and with the right dominant, the experience puts me in an orgasmic, and very relaxed subspace. I have found that switches make great partners for that reason, but not all. If you are thinking about switching, I would ask you to make sure you have an important conversation with your potential dominant, about boundaries, safety, and seriously get in their head to find out if they are healthy enough mentally to take that role.
Wannabes And Fake Doms
There are men that target submissives specifically to harm them mentally, emotionally and sometimes physically if it gets that far. There are men that will project their insecurities onto women and seek to harm them. I will say that if a man flat out tells you he’s a misogynist, you need to run. If he even hints at dislike or disrespect for women, run. And if a man shows signs of misogynoire, do not pass go, get the hell out of there. If a man gaslights, talks over you, or doesn’t listen to you, that is not the type of man you want to submit to. And never trust any so called dom that sweet talks you in the beginning, and then starts to show signs that he is toxic. They are the worst of the worst, and they will break you down and stress you out and convince you that this is what you wanted. That’s not domination, that’s abuse. Unfortunately it is abuse I’ve experienced and was lucky enough to get the hell out of.
Sexual Exploitation Of An Ebony Submissive
These unhealthy men, are usually only looking for an ego boost, and some “thing” to nut in. And men do not have to like you, to fuck you. I would also like to include male subs in taking caution, because there are so called doms who prey on both sexes and for different reasons. Sexual desire, is not equivalent to sincere interest. A man can want you sexually, and not give a fuck about you other than that you are able to fulfill his surface needs, and as time passes, these men can become violent. They will also have no issue neglecting your emotional needs.
Ebony Femdom Style
If you take a look at my posts, I cater to what I call reverse raceplay. This might be light to extreme depending on the sub. It can be sensual and catering to satisfying my needs. One thing I will never do, is put another human being in harms way. I am here to educate you, train you, and give you the experience you desire, but I will not do anything that causes a person to harm themselves. I do.. believe in tough love, and I do NOT.. tolerate anyone’s bs. But where your fantasy is concerned, I will make you my bitch, and if it is your wish to be humiliated, that wish will be granted.
I want to be clear that I offer a service that is popular with white males, and cuckolds, that does not mean that I hate all men, or all white men. Some of my best friends are white.. isn’t that what some of yall white folks say when you don’t want to appear racist? In truth, I will converse with, and engage with anyone, regardless of what color you are. But if you want reverse raceplay, that’s what we’re going to do. And just in case you were unaware, reverse racism is not a thing, and does not exist. It only exists in fantasy.
Ebony Submissive Style
There is a myth, that black women are not submissive; incapable of being such. The reasons you don’t see many black women subs, isn’t because they don’t exist. It’s because of the environment in which black women have been placed, and the responsibilities placed on us, which leave many black women no time to nurture their feminine. Those of us who are rediscovering our feminine and submissive nature, have to be weary of men who benefit from us being in the opposite role, and who have no interest in taking care of us. If a man doesn’t want you to work, demands that you spend all of your time with him doing what he wants, but has not offered to provide for you emotionally or financially, I’m sorry ladies, that man means you harm.
Men are naturally providers, even submissive men will go out of their way to make sure their Domme is comfortable and pampered. A dominant man has the added responsibility of ensuring the submissives safety as well as being a provider. Toxic men will not care to make sure you are safe or comfortable, and will often put a sub in damaging situations where they are left cleaning up the mess. Black women do not often put themselves in submissive roles because many times we cannot afford to. Nor can we afford to be careless if we decide this is something we want to do.
As a submissive I prefer sensual domination and light bdsm. There are roads I would love to journey down, but have not, because trust is a priority. Mental health is a priority, and I cannot be submissive if I feel that myself or someone else is in danger, because when I’m not submissive I am a caregiver who is relied upon.
I don’t do raceplay when I’m submissive under any circumstances. That means I will not consent to anyone degrading me or calling me the n word. Not even if you paid me double, would I let a white person call me that. I also will not allow any non-black person to use that word in my presence. You don’t need to say it, or use it in any form, and if you see black people using the n word, your responsibility is to mind your business.
Misogynistic Men And Abuse
If any man is verbally abusive to you, and you haven’t discussed that being a part of your kink (some women do enjoy verbal humiliation), you need to get the fuck away from them. Because that verbal abuse can turn into emotional, and physical abuse. Submissives are the ones who have the real control, because submissives have to consent to what is agreed on. If a dominant male implies you have no rights, or tries to control you past what is realistic in order to function, you are dealing with a predator.
Vetting Dominant Men
I require a very lengthy vetting process for a dominant. In otherwords, I am not kneeling for some clown ass that I just met 2 minutes ago. Anyone who does not agree to get to know me and discuss my needs first is out. I don’t mind being open about my “ebony submissive” experiences. I met someone who – after a month of barely speaking, asked me to be their sub – I was blindsided and fell for the “sweet talk.” That relationship lasted two weeks. After the person increasingly became more demanding and verbally abusive when I would not comply, and kept complaining about my work getting in the way of him using me, yet made no attempt to provide for me. It wore on my mental health and I started having panic attacks. The final insult was having to cut off all communication with them. And even then they still tried to contact me.
Their initial reason for seeking me out, was because they were sexually attracted to me, and interested in objectifying me, regardless of my wellbeing. I am very cautious of men, because of this. Because of the men that only see black women as fuckable sex objects. I hope this sheds some light on why racism, misogyny, and being disrespected by any non-black person, is an important subject for me to educate people on. And why I am sensitive to that. There are some really fucked up men outchea, that wish to harm black women.
Submissive Roleplay
If you want to roleplay with me as the ebony submissive, I first need to know where you are going with it, before I agree to it. I like when people ask me questions instead of assuming they know what they’re doing. The best way to find out if we can play, is by calling me. 1-800-601-6975 is the number to call. Duchess Willow is who you ask for. Stay blessed.
In my last post, I addressed something that occurred, and I want to clarify. Someone once gave me some powerful advice, and that was, to acknowledge even the little things, because if you have enough little things build up, they turn into bigger issues. I do not regret anything I said in that post, especially since it had happened before, and the last few times it happened I just ignored it.
And why should I? I refuse to apologize for standing my ground, on something that might seem small, but is not. I’m not interested in being cordial with people who think it’s okay to repeatedly be abrasive and disrespectful. I learned after entering the sex work arena, how a lot of white male dogs view black women, and if they aren’t going to apologize neither am I. A lot of what I have experienced, is the reason I believe there needs to be training for white bois, and that they need to be put in their place.
You can talk to me about whatever you want to talk about, as long as you are respectful. The minute you cross that line, you deserve whatever response you get from me. Let’s move onto the topic of this post, shall we? White boi training, and your much needed schooling. Below you will find out all you need to know, about what to expect during your forte into black femdom cock control.
Black Femdom Truths
I won’t tone down my language to make non-blacks feel comfortable. Your comfort is not my concern, and if you cannot stand in your truth without getting offended, then go talk to your therapist about it. White fragility is rooted in a privilege that black women do not have in this country. Yall get real uncomfortable when you’re privilege is brought up, yet its foundation is built on the backs of black men and women. That’s okay, because I have a solution for white male fragility. Diversity training and black femdom reparations. If you’re a white male, you automatically qualify for induction. And whatever you learn in my presence, you can teach your precious lily white ignorant women. Because I don’t care about their fragility either, nor will I tolerate white tears.
Diversity Training For The Ignorant
Black women are just as worthy of being respected, pampered, spoiled, catered to, and living a life of abundance. I have dated submissive white men before and they treated me like a Queen, because I am one. Knowing my worth is the reason I have zero tolerance for white males acting out to get attention. I address what needs to be addressed, and you will NEVER turn me against another woman. Sisterhood is something that is much more important to me, than your weak ass ego. So let me tell you what your training is going to entail.
Reparations Assignment For White Subs
You will be required to kneel at the feet of a black woman, and do as you’re told, which will include my version of reparations specifically for black women. You will be commanded to do many tasks including assignments in public humility. You will be given homework assignments that include reading and research. You will be required to write a 1000+ essay with proper grammar and spelling, on racism, intersectional feminism, and male white privilege. You will also be required to listen when black women are talking, and be silent.
Your First Assignment
The first diversity training assignment is easy… for me. If you don’t have twitter, get an account. Once you have an account follow @DuchessWillow_ After following me, you will tweet the following:
“I (insert name here:__________) an ignorant white male, would like to publicly apologize to all black Queens. I acknowledge my white privilege and will use it to educate my fellow ignorant white men, so that we may properly serve and respect black women.”
Oh you thought I was joking? No darling, I revel in your humility, and I enjoy it when bitch bois profess their undying love, devotion and servitude to black femdom rule.
As I said in my last post, I refuse to make myself small, to make anyone else comfortable. You will respect me, or you will be thrown in the dumpster. And you will pay for past and current transgressions.
Notice I didn’t say “all women” or “all women of color” or “all black people” now did I? I said Black Women, and I meant what I said. I have zero remorse for anyone who missteps outta their lane, just like I have zero remorse for my feelings. I am happy you’ve taken the first step to being on your knees and at the heel of a black woman which is where you belong.
Your diversity training begins when you pay for my time and not a second before. You do this by calling 1-800-601-6975 and requesting the femdom services of Duchess Willow. Until then, stay blessed. And don’t forget, every friday in november is free phone sex friday. Free 10 minute calls for existing customers as a thank you from LDW/Enchantrix Empire.
Disclaimer: I had to think about whether or not I wanted to talk about this.
I want to be true to myself and acknowledge my truth and my boundaries. If I don’t speak up, I am allowing others to treat me any way they feel like. And I have to speak up, because I’m speaking up for every black woman who feels like they can’t, and who has ever been made to feel like their feelings aren’t valid. Right? Okay, let’s unpack… (It wouldn’t be mercury retrograde if I didn’t have to go off on at least one person)
I’m about to make some people real uncomfortable, by being an unapologetically black woman speaking her mind. Something happened tonight that really bothered me. And if you get to me congrats, mission accomplished. This also means you will never get another opportunity to do so. I was disrespected by someone who – in their quest to gain the attention of a fellow Mistress – decided they were going to blatantly disrespect and insult me to do so.
The turning point was that after disrespecting me and being told to apologize, they suddenly had nothing to say. That told me everything I needed to know about character. It also made it very easy for me to write this blog post.
It was really disgusting to watch someone go as far as they did for attention, and a complete turn off. I can’t even say I feel sad for this person because I don’t, I’m disgusted. And while it would behoove me to just ignore it and move along, far too often black women are told to be quiet, and not speak up when we are disrespected. That needs to stop starting right now. You cannot speak to me disrespectfully after I included you in a conversation, and expect me to turn the other cheek unless you’ve lost your damn mind.
I don’t even want an apology, because I really want nothing else to do with the gross individual. That’s right I said gross because that’s what it is. When you address me you address me with the same respect you would give any other Mistress. And this isn’t the first time it’s happened, and it ain’t the first person it’s happened with. I know that I was “councilled” to just let it go and not to give it energy, but with a lot of black women this is what we are taught. Under the umbrella of low key racism we are taught that our feelings and thoughts do not matter, and that we just need to suck it up because if we say anything we might make other people feel uncomfortable.
No one else is taught to do this. When non-black women start crying everyone suddenly races to their aid. When a black woman cries or has spoken out about ill treatment, we’re told to shut up, and stop being dramatic, or that we are overreacting and being too emotional. We are taught that everything and everyone outside of us is the prize, but no one ever tells us that we are the prize. We are told and taught differently and when we do anything outside of what’s expected we are told we are causing drama.
So… I guess this is me starting drama then. Because I refuse to be anyone’s fucking step stool to another dominant. This is me putting anyone who reads this on official notice: You treat me – A BLACK WOMAN – with respect, or you will be thrown out with the trash like the smelly repulsive parasite that you are. I’m keeping it 100% and saying that type of behavior turns my stomach, and that there is nothing special about people who behave this way, you are common and you are tired. And if no one else will check you, I will.
Unless you are a black woman, you have no clue how emotionally/mentally/spiritually exhausting it is dealing with ignorant attention whoring clowns like the one I had the misfortune of dealing with today. What’s worse, is that your behavior ruins it for other submissives and customers who not only know how to conduct themselves in the presence of Mistresses, but would never dare disrespect a dominant and make an ass of themselves all because they were a horny wanna be special snowflake who wanted attention.
Submissives who top from the bottom, don’t know their fucking place, and attempt to gain favor by trying to turn women against each other, are a poor excuse for a sub and a waste of oxygen. They treat themselves like they’re a prize to be won when the reality is WE are the ones doing you a favor by even so much as speaking to your lame ass. Not sorry.
This is a vent, because I have gone out of my way to be polite and inclusive to people who have continuously been disgusting and who don’t know when to fall the fuck back. Frankly I’m done being nice. This is me, a black woman, showing my anger, and displeasure at poor and disrespectful behavior. I really don’t care if you’re offended, because you’ve shown time and time again you don’t give a damn about “us.” And I’m tired of having to keep quiet while I watch black women be repeatedly disrespected by bitches who can crawl right back into the sewer they came from.
I will not tolerate being disrespected. You will not use me to put in the good word for any of my sister Mistresses, to gain favor, or to gain attention. And if you disagree with my sentiment, you can climb into the trash bag and see yourself out. I’m not sorry I had to say this, if you want attention so bad you’re willing to show your whole ass, it’s your funeral. Kick rocks.