The Ebony Femdom Gets Featured In Hustler Magazine – Outdoor Sex

Outdoor Sex
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Yes it’s true, Duchess Willow was featured in a porno mag. Please, do not get too excited, I’m not one of the nude models…  But allow me the pleasure of a little squeeing. I had the opportunity to submit an answer to an article that is in the latest June 2022 issue of Hustler magazine. The topic, was outdoor sex, and your favorite places to “do it” in nature. A little later in the blog I will tell you where to find the article, because everyone reads Hustler for the articles don’t they? Unless you’re a chronic masturbator. (snickering)

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Outdoor sex can be just as spiritual as it is grounding. Fucking in nature with someone who matches your energy.  The thrill of being balls naked, thrusting and grunting and grinding, throwing your cares to the wind, is something I think the world needs right now. To go outside, touch grass, and fuck on it.  To find a lush willow tree, and get pinned and railed under the sun, or the stars. Maybe this is why some people enjoy getting back to nature, going to the beach, camping trips. And while I’m not too sure I’m up for camping, I certainly don’t mind frolicking on the beach, on some dick.

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Outdoor Sex With Hustler Mag

I have several memories of being in the great outdoors and getting a great fuck. Though because of ramona crimus I have not been able to go on trips like I did prior, I’m looking to change that just as soon as I possibly can. Outdoor sex is for those who dare to bare, and for those who crave doing natural things, while surrounded by nature. With that in mind I do have a list of places I would love to “get back to nature” in. I won’t share those here, but I will tell you that sex in water is a favorite. I’m a Caribbean woman with island roots (who enjoys being naked), after all.

Outdoor Sex – A How To

Depending on where you camp, sex in the woods can be nice if you prepare. One of the things many people love about camping is the secluded-ness of it, and being able to get the hell away from everything and everyone.  Something that – as a nature loving introvert – I am well versed in: Finding places to go where it’s quiet and there are no other people around. So the first thing you have to do is pick a spot. I’m not certain if there are adults only camping places, but there are for sure adults only beach resorts. So if you ever wanted to have sex on the beach, without scarring anyone for life, find a nude beach, or a hedonist’s paradise. Lay a blanket down and get to it. Or you can roll around on the sand and grass bare back if you don’t mind getting dirty.

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If I were going to go camping, I’d pick a lake or the mountains. Maybe not Camp Crystal Lake, though, because I hear people get bludgeoned there, and getting unalived isn’t my kink. Although I do have a fantasy of being an Ebony Nurse tending to one of the camp counselors… needs. (smirk)

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One of my other fantasies involves hiding a strapon under my clothes and then surprising my lover with an outdoor pegging party. Imagine taking a nice stroll in the park, walking through the forest, find a nice spot behind a tree (please make sure that people who cannot consent to adult play, are not nearby) and bending your boi toy over. How’s that for a strapon cocktease?

Where Did Duchess Willow Have A Moment In Nature?

So the question that John Blaylock (give him a follow on Twitter), of Hustler magazine asked, was your most memorable outdoor sexual experience. No, it was not on a beach. If you are able, I would advise you to purchase your copy of the June 2022 Hustler Magazine and hit page 15. And if you can’t get Hustler and you really really want to know just what I did and where, you can call me. Dial 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow.  Until then, stay safe and stay blessed.

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Mistress Managed Gooning

Goddess Rachel, for Mistress Managed Gooning! 1-800-356-6169Happy Masturbation May, everyone! I’d like to thank Duchess Willow for hosting My stop on Our sexy stroking blog train. She and I will be switching (pun only partially unintended–one of the few women I would “switch” for 😜) so if you missed Her post on My blog on the 17th, please be sure to visit. But here in My installment, let’s explore a question: What is Mistress managed gooning? Further, why might it be the best choice for those who’d like to explore?

You are by now familiar with orgasm edging, tease and denial, and other forms of Mistress controlled or directed masturbation. Some of you, however, may not be familiar with gooning. By the end of this post, I hope to have provided you with a working knowledge. Maybe it will be an experience you’ll want to pursue. More importantly, I hope to inform you such that if you do, you will be able to do so responsibly.

In short, gooning is basically edging on steroids. I’ll expand on that momentarily, but it’s always good to start with a general idea.

Some cock strokers goon mindlessly, without care or concern for how it affects the rest of their lives. They lube up, pop on some porn (many times on multiple screens), and become mesmerized by images and pleasure. Some can do this safely. Others might say that’s the entire point, to dive in without heed to where or how far it might go.

Is that true?

Given that My motto remains “safe, sane, and consensual”, I have to disagree. Keep reading, and I’ll explain further.

Who’s driving this train?

Gooning without any regard for the potential dangers can quickly turn into an addiction. And while W/e may use the phrase “addicted stroker” tongue-in-cheek around here, no one wants you to develop the kind of dependency on any substance or practice that brings you to a place where it’s not fun anymore, but you can’t stop doing it either.

I subscribe to certain kink ethics. I’ll never encourage something that endangers you physically, psychologically, emotionally, financially, or legally.

And yet, indulging yourself in the serotonin, endorphin, and adrenaline-soaked escape that it can be is an alluring prospect. I maintain that it can be done while maximizing safety.

Why is safety a concern?

What could be wrong with a place where:

  • your brain and your cock become one
  • the world and all its worries fall away for a period of time
  • all that remains is the pleasure in your cock that radiates into your whole body and mind

It’s an extremely powerful experience. It’s a power that you would be well-advised to respect.

So how do you chase, reach, and abide in that space without ending up in a place that’s not fun anymore?

Mistress managed gooning, that’s how.

But before W/e expand on what that entails exactly, lets make sure W/e’re all on the same page regarding the definition gooning itself, or what it’s supposed to be.

Gooning vs. Edging: What’s the difference?

In short, it’s the focus. Resisting orgasm versus reaching a physiological state and staying there for as long as possible. TheGoddess Rachel, for Mistress Managed Gooning! 1-800-356-6169 mastery of orgasm edging is the first step to gooning.

The usual context for edging is a Mistress’ masturbation instructions. She suggests techniques, decides how many times you will edge, or for how long. She decides whether you edge until you explode, achieve a ruined orgasm, or are denied outright (at least for that session).

With gooning, you endeavor to forget about orgasming altogether. What you’re chasing is not release, but a sort of tantric subspace just before it. I suppose it could also be called “riding the edge”. Ride the edge indefinitely, and you will hopefully reach a place called “goon space“.

Like edging, reaching goon space takes practice. But once you do, experienced gooners say you can sustain an orgasmic state for hours, without ejaculating. Some gooners get lucky enough that they can enter goon space without even touching themselves. Exposure to their trigger stimulus alone brings them there.

A few seconds of throbbing and squirting pales in comparison to that type of pleasure, doesn’t it?

Some gooners describe goon space as blissful and euphoric. An observer may see the gooner smiling or slack-jawed, eyes rolled back or closed, and perhaps their body will tremble uncontrollably. Some describe it as an animalistic complete loss of control: grunting, howling, convulsing or stiff as a board, maybe even drooling.

You won’t know how it will feel to you unless and until you get there.

Apparently, however, once you get there, you’ll know you’re there. I can often identify when a gooner pet has reached goon space by sight, but only you will know how it feels for you, when you feel it.

Sounds amazing, right? Not so fast.

Choosing the right inspiration

Gooning requires surrender. It’s hard to surrender when you can predict the next sensation because you’re the one conceiving of and administering it.

This may be why there are so many porn gooners. They need to externalize somehow to lose control. Losing themselves in visual stimulus allows them to relinquish control. And let’s face it, porn is engineered to be a straight shot to the brain and loins. There’s no need to do much more preparation or introspection than to find which images make your dick the hardest.

The problem with relying on porn to externalize is that it feels intimate, but it isn’t. There’s little opportunity for it to be otherwise. Further, the porn industry takes no responsibility, and little to no interest, in your overall wellbeing.

I’m not saying that the industry is inherently sociopathic. Rather, that it’s just not practical for it to concern itself with the effect that the unmoderated consumption of its product might have on the consumer.

Porn assumes a level of consent and responsibility on the part of those who watch it, but it’s hard to consent to something whose possible pitfalls you can’t predict. Especially when you’ve come to depend on it to reach a powerful euphoric state that in itself can be addictive.

Lastly, since porn relies on angles, lighting, makeup, and sometimes models who have had plastic surgery, to produce eye candy that’s well above what you can find or experience in the flesh, those who’ve lost control of their consumption won’t be able to find anything that generates that kind of excitement in the real world.

That’s fine if you never intend to have an intimate relationship with another human being in the same dimension as you are, but for most people that isn’t the intention. Or, they already have a relationship that will be damaged by the fact that their partner can’t compete with something that isn’t real to begin with.

The pursuit of goon space should be managed.

Goddess Rachel, for Mistress Managed Gooning! 1-800-356-6169Don’t get Me wrong; if you are an avowed porn addict and don’t see it as a problem, or as referenced above, don’t have any desire for relationship with actual human beings, or you don’t care whether you can achieve erection as long as it still feels good to rub your cock, by all means, go forth and fry those circuits to your heart’s delight. No one can tell you how to live your life.

But if you want to explore gooning while maximizing the chance that you will not permanently alter your sexual function and psychological well-being, I contend that your gooning journey needs a different stimulus than porn. Or it at least needs to be moderated by another one.

If you’re lucky enough to have a partner who wants to participate in your pursuit of the goon state, lying back and tuning into the sensations in your cock while they stroke you is ideal.

But if you don’t, forming a relationship with a Mistress, gooning to Her voice, instructions, and the images they conjure in your very own brain (with perhaps minimal visual inspiration and the assistance of a few toys), may be the best choice.

So how would that look, exactly? Read on.

Mistress Managed Gooning

The ideal masturbatrix-managed gooning would start with a conversation. I will want to know all about you: your body, your lifestyle, your personality, your sex life, your fantasies, your kinks, your turn-ons, your hang-ups, and of course, your current masturbation habits. Probably your masturbation history as well.

I will want to know what toys you have, if any, and how you’ve used them. I’ll want to know about all of your erogenous zones, or help you discover them if you haven’t ever really explored your body. For example, have you ever played with your ass while masturbating? To what extent? How about nipple play? And don’t discount the less-instinctive sensual zones of your body: your scalp, your feet, your skin in general?

Do you like pain play? A little discomfort like ball stretching? Physical restriction like a cock ring?

Then, W/e will begin to explore. If you’re already a compulsive masturbator, maybe W/e’ll want to re-sensitize that cock a bit with some chastity or abstinence, without a cage if you have any self-control left, with if you don’t.

W/e’ll have some guided masturbation sessions with edging, and then move on to those same sessions but with more and more edges. At first, you’ll be allowed to release at the end of every session, further and further away though that release might become. Then, W/e’ll practice those sessions with denial at the end. Perhaps every time, perhaps every other time.

The mind matters.

Keep in mind that your brain may need to be conditioned, not just your cock. I’ve read that those who have experience with some form of meditation or tantric sex tend to be more successful at reaching goon space, and that makes sense to Me. You will need to be able to both concentrate, and relax, at the same time. You will need to learn to sink into My voice, until My instructions become intuitive.

It will be best if you’re able to set aside predictable times for O/ur journeying. Scheduled sessions, rather than those on the fly, are more conducive to progress and ultimate success. So is a clean, comfortable space. Cluttered environments can distract you away from the sensations in your cock.

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I prefer that you appear on webcam, so that I can observe and get to know the physical changes you go through at different stages of arousal. Yes, I’m definitely a voyeur, and love to see you naked on cam during any session, but obviously there are deeper reasons in this context than simply My titillation. I don’t need to see your face (though that would be ideal), but I do want to be able to see as much of the rest of you as you feel comfortable putting on display. What your body looks like is irrelevant, but I understand that this takes a level of vulnerability whether you have a body-positive self-image or not. Please endeavor to be as vulnerable as possible.

Lastly, if you don’t read any of the other articles linked in this post, please do click on and read the article contained in the last paragraph. It will give you advice about the best setup for putting yourself on display.

Once all of this has been taken into account, W/e will chase down goon space together.

Gooning for Me, Gooning to Me

Imagine when you first experience goon space with Me. What a bonding experience! And of course, how fulfilling, how arousing it will be for Me to see such a beautiful display of pleasure, all while your cum stays safely housed in your balls.

It will be best if you become dependent on My voice to reach goon space, because unlike a collection of pixels, no matter how alluring, I can respond. I can care. It may be that once you master goon space, you will need My permission to go there. That’s another benefit to this type of masturbation management–you can’t let the rest of your responsibilities in life fall by the wayside if you need Mistress’ permission to indulge! Perhaps it can even be an inducement to greater productivity in your life, if you have to meet certain goals in order to earn the reward of some time spent in goon space, with My voice in your ear.

I know that this has been a long read, and I hope that its length can be seen as a testimony to how seriously I take this endeavor. I’m as serious about it as I am excited, and I look forward to entering the tantric cosmos with you soon!

To discuss and arrange for your personal gooning journey with Me, the first step is to contact Me via E-mail at Rachel@enchantrixempire.com.

Lastly, be sure to visit Princess Andi’s blog on May 21st, where Mistress Ryan will be sharing Her post.

 

To Goon Space and Beyond,

 

Mistress Rachel, Gooner Goddess.

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Couples Phone Sex – Guided Pegging And Sensual Domination

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Back in February, I had the pleasure of guiding a lovely black couple, through a pegging session. Now let it be said, before anyone asks, yes we do couples phone sex. However few and far between they are. This particular couple – I should say, the wife – found me after listening to one of the podcasts I was on. While they had explored strapon play before, they wanted to enhance their experience with a Black Femdom and a sensual Domination session.

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Whether or not you are aware, there are a lot of black people within the kink community who enjoy playing with others.  While I have done couples phone sessions before, I have never done a session with a black couple, and I was very excited and happy to have the opportunity. Couples phone sex is similar to any one on one phone sex session,  in the sense that you are discussing a scene or roleplaying, or having a guided sexual experience. Having a distance domination session via phone can be exciting for a couple who – maybe considered doing a session with a live Dominatrix. And it’s a good way to get your kinky feet wet.

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So what if you’re new to exploring kink with your partner, and both of you are interested in strapon play? Guided pegging with someone who understands your needs is key. We can discuss toys, and what you will need, and where to start when you are inexperienced and want to have an enjoyable adventure. One person exploring anal play is fun, but what if you and your partner want to try out D/s.. that’s where I come in. The first thing you need to discuss, is communication, and safety.

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Couples Phone Sex Safety While Pegging

Some things I may tell a couple, might sound redundant, but they are worth repeating. Like start small if you’ve never had a dildo up your behind. Make sure you don’t have a latex allergy, because you and your partner don’t want to harm each other, and end up with a bad reaction to your new strapon.  Hygeine, hygeine, hygeine. If your partner is interested in you dominating him or her, you want your “area” to be clean. Excellent opportunity to set the mood by taking a shower together and washing each other’s bodies. You may not make it out of the shower… But if you do….

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Lube Up Your Partner

Once you have hygeine, size, and any allergy concerns addressed, you will also need lube. Same as with latex, pick a lube that is in alignment with your body.  If you’re going to be pegging your husband for the first time, there’s no such thing as too much lube. If you’re embarking on your own pegging journey, these are just the basics for what you need. If you’re looking to add a third party via phone, you can call me and I will instruct your pegging excursion.

Submissive Couples Are Welcome

If both of you are submissive, and want to be instructed on what to do to each other, and how to utilize your strapon goodies, you’re welcome to call me for a couples phone sex session.  While I do not offer cam, we do allow our callers to give us a cam show if they want to and are comfortable doing so, via skype or discord.  To connect with me for couples phone sex, just dial 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow.  If you’re interested in custom instructional audios for couples, I encourage you to order a custom audio, from me. You can email me at willow@enchantrixempire.com for more information. Stay safe and stay blessed.

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Duchess’ Secret Cum Eating Fetish – Drowning In Cum

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My nosy housekeeper has discovered my secret: I have a cum eating fetish. And how did the little slut find out? He was being nosy going through my things again. You remember what happened last time I caught him wearing my panties don’t you?  Though this time, he may have gotten himself in more trouble than he anticipated.

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My porn history is one that could make Janet Jacme blush. But alas there is that one site I have saved. Cum Sluts Caught on film. Hours and hours of cum eating fetish clips. Women, men, trans, gender fluid. It didn’t matter, all I really wanted was to see each subby little cum dump, take load after load. And one day I left that tab open, browser up, and what does the nosy whore do? He clicks on my mouse and hits play. The playlist reel starts going, and once again my housekeeper finds himself in hot water. With me, standing behind him with my hands on my hips.

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“What the fuck are you doing on my computer,” I demanded, grabbing him by his collar and marching him out of my room, down the hall, and into the living room. “Explain yourself right now,” I barked. He blushed and stammered and apologized. I got bored and slapped him, hard. And then slapped him again. Suddenly, a raging tiny erection emerged in his pants, that was not there before. He cried out and dropped to his knees, kissing my feet and begging me not to fire him. “Get up you incompetent moron, and take off your clothes.”

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I’m Not Going To Fire You – I’m Going To Hire You

“You’re going to entertain my guests tonight,” I smiled, while collaring him and chaining him to some rings in the floor.  “I want you to take a load of cum, for me.”  He sobbed, red faced and begging and I slapped him again. “Shut up for god sakes you’re whimpering is disturbing my peace. You will stay there until you’ve completed your task.”  I know he was sitting there, sniveling, unable to think. And most likely wondering, what on earth I meant by, “take a load for me.” He would soon find out.

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An hour or so later, I sat in the living room ignoring my housekeeper and waiting for the guests. When they got there, and to his horror, all of them were men pets of mine that I’d invited to be part of the show. “Get the glass,” I commanded one of them. Now I know you must be thinking, a drinking glass for the housekeeper to take a load? Oh… it’s a drinking glass, alright.  A panel in the ceiling opened, and a glass cylinder slid down around his chained, naked body. “Well boys, the floor is yours, fill it up!”  One by one they took their position, standing at the rim of the glass, overhead, and began to stroke. When the housekeeper looked up, all he could see was a circle of dicks, getting ready to shower him with their love.

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The Duchess Cum Commander

Splat. The first man to the finish line shot his seed, splattering it onto the glass just inches from the housekeepers face. Another splat. And another. Soon it was cloudy with a chance of cumming, and all the penis owners were giving him a cum bath. One that I delighted in watching. Except it didn’t stop. the cylinder – leak proof from the bottom, began filling up with milky fluid. As the cum pooled around him, even my housekeeper couldn’t fathom where it all was coming from, and that it wasn’t stopping.

The Nosy Housekeeper Was Too Stunned To Speak

As the glass filled, higher and higher, he was horrified. Where on earth had The Ebony Femdom found enough cum to fill a man sized glass? I chuckled, and spoke to ease his suffering, or exacerbate it. “There’s only one way you can keep from drowning, dearest nosy house bitch.  The smell of cum filled his nostrils as the cum, kept on cumming, now up to his shoulders. He finally understood, what The Duchess meant, when she said, “take a load.” He knew sobbing would do him no good, as his salty white tears would only add to the spunk ocean he was now swimming in.  The nosy housekeeper succumbed to Duchess Willow’s desires, his head disapearring in a sea of jizz, as The Ebony Femdom busied herself on the couch, with one of her well endowed lovers.

Sink Or Swim

Now why on earth would I drop my man maid into a vat of sperm? Why not?!  He shouldn’t have been spying on me and going through my things. Nevertheless he won’t be able to get the taste and smell of cum out of his system for at least a month. That’s being generous, and I’m not the nicest person, after all. None of that matters, it’s cum eating season here at the Ebony Femdom phone sex lair. You will develop a taste for your own cum or someone else’s, if I have anything to do with it. You probably should call me so you can discover just how depraved you are, and how much you need me as your cum eating coach. Dial 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow. Oh and… Happy April Fool’s.

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Ethical Tattoos For Sissies – That Won’t Offend Black People

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Disclaimer: This blog is about sissies, and race, and mental health. And probably some other important things you need to know. In case you’re new to this blog, I am a very emotional and passionate person, who takes no sh** from non-black people.  I have always been up front about that, and if you are unversed with serving me, you might wanna read some of my older Black History Month posts on privilege and race before continuing with this blog. For all of you “oh god, not another blog about race” headasses, you can see yourself out.

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Now that we’re on the same page, I do adore obedient sissies, and cuckolds, and I know yall have a thing for black men. Specifically BLACK DICK. I know some of you ignorantly use spade symbols. I do like the idea of ethical tattoos for sissies. So we’re going to discuss that, and you are going to open up your listening ears. I have no issue with using BBC, big black cock, black dick only, black cock only, BBC sissy, etc. I promise you, that no matter how much this blog post offends you, you’re gonna love it here. And as an Ebony cuckold, you’re going to earn that BBC.

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There is so much more than I can do to you, to exploit your being a sissy and loving black men, and fetishizing black women, that gives me control over you, and gives you that pleasurable experience of being used and subjugated by Dominant black men and women. Of course, other white people would be disgusted by your behavior, except that’s exactly what I’m aiming for, when I turn your ass out.  I actually enjoy offending white people and calling them out on their nonsense. It’s one of my hobbies. You might even say white tears is my kink.

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Ethical Tattoos For Sissies – Please Research The History Of Spade Symbols And Other Dehumanizing Slurs Against Black People

Black people can use the spade symbol. You heard me. Just like we can use that word that some of you either use in the company of other white people, or when you think no one will catch you. I’m not going to explain why because you will never be invited to “that” table. No matter how down for the cause you think you are. Sissies – some sissies – have this obsession with using Qos and spade symbols and thinking the sh** is cute. Sadly there are some dominants who are also infected with this ignorance. TL;DR: There are plenty of ways to say you love black dick, without being a raging racist about it. And before anyone says it, reverse racism doesn’t exist. Yall are just not used to seeing black people living loud and proud and calling you out, devoid of your approval.

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Black privilege – arguably – doesn’t altogether exist, except in the area of what we can say to each other, and in the company of other black people. You’ll notice I don’t use people of color. I am not a people of color, please stop being weird. I’m a black women, unapologetically. And I’m well aware of what non-black people say behind our backs.  I have had an interesting introduction to being a black woman who does phone sex and Femdom. No, I’m not going to elaborate on that. Let’s just say that being a member of the kink community, bears the same challenges as the vanilla community. Ignorance.  So when I encounter sissies who are proud of themselves for parading around using spade symbols, it’s ultra cringe. Especially when some of you – I believe are not necessarily racist in real life,  I believe you are simply misguided. And the rest well…. you can’t help everyone.

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Yes, I am aware that there are submissive black men that like being called names, some of them call me. I love working with black subs, there is something very healing about it, that most will never understand. However I do not, nor will I ever (again), engage in subby race play with white men. Because yall don’t know how to act, and while I do switch from time to time, unless you’re willing to pay for a lifetime of my therapy, and up front for that matter, we’re not doing that.  I do not police every arena of D/s, I am specifically referring to how I play and who I will play with. Black sissies are adorable and fun. White BBC sissies are a whole lot of work. It’s the reason I also call myself the white boi trainer. And I am aware that I’m wordy and long winded, I’m getting to the point.

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If you want to explore using BBC only printed sissy attire, or getting sissy tattoos, there are respectful and entirely less offensive things to carve into your flesh. Obviously I don’t mind the use of Ebony, because I call myself that. So “Ebony owned” is acceptable. BBC only – WITHOUT the spade symbol – also acceptable. You want to write “I love black cock” all over your body, sissy? Go crazy with it. Want to wear a BBC only rhinestone collar with pink leather, while accompanying me to some event or vacation, or as a form of humiliation while being dog walked, also acceptable.  As a matter of fact, I am very pro-dog walking sissies and other submissives. Humiliation from me has the most delicious sting. You just have to be brave enough to take what I dish out.  My favorite tattoo for a sissy to display, is one that says you are owned by The Duchess, and something along the lines of “black women rule” because we do. Another good one that is non offensive and respectful, of black men: “Black Kings Only” or “Black Queens Only.” See how easy it is to be a respectful frilly bitch? And your reward is choking on black dick. Mine, or his. (wink)

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Speaking Of Ebony Dick And Sissies

I won’t have you thinking this whole blog is dedicated to scolding you lilly white sissies. I’d like to say thank you to those of you who know your fucking place, and stay in a sissies place at all times. And have manners that transcend your desires. Being pampered and spoiled by you, is how I stay in my feminine. However, I do have a thing for kinky sissy sluts, who want to ride my big black lady dick. And a special place at the end of it… right before you gag on that bish.  I very much enjoy your sissy getting turned out by a black Mistress, and your wild Ebony Tgirl fantasies. So just know, that even though I am a hard ass when it comes to the above subject, you are welcome to explore your fantasies, and ask questions, with me.

Mental Health And Being An Ebony Femdom

I believe in being transparent when it comes to mental health. There are things about me, which are boundaries and hard limits. And my mental health and wellbeing, is a priority even before the “customers” wants and needs. Because it is how I am able to continue doing this job and enjoying what I do.  I’ve had a therapist for the past two years, and it was one of the most needed, and healing forms of self care that I ever gave myself. Because this line of work, while rewarding, is also challenging, and is so in relation to being a minority in this country.  I don’t have the privilege of just ignoring skin color, or being blind to it. So please be cognizant of this, if I correct you on anything you say to me – or ask you to STOP saying or doing something, take the correction. And if I am kind enough to share with you, from an educational standpoint, please take the lesson. Part of being Dominant, is leading, and caring for the safety and wellbeing of those who serve you.  Take that however you want, just be respectful, when you approach me. This only ensures we will be able to continue playing together.

Now That We Have Established Where We All Stand – Back To Fun With Sissies

I’m aware that discussing these issues for some is off-putting, and if you read this whole blog I appreciate you doing so. There is never any good time to discuss these things, as I’ve discovered in the past…. Safe insane and consensual is my “fun” side. Educating the people that pay for my services, so that we can have an enjoyable experience, is my serious side. You need to be willing to accept and understand both. Sissies are a very good source of entertainment, once they have learned to conduct themselves in a manner that is consistent with obedience and respect, and adhering to boundaries, and following directions. In otherwords you need to be able to see past your lil dick. Dressing sissies, is something I enjoy. Fucking sissies is something that I enjoy. Pimping sissies out… something that I enjoy. And with that…

Calls With The Ebony Femdom

If you got through this whole blog without either A. Frothing at the mouth B. Crying and you’re ready to go for a wild ride on The Duchess Express, call me. Dial 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow. I hope you learned something, and have a better understanding of something outside of yourself. Stay safe, and stay blessed.

 

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Praise Kink – Let’s Talk About It

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Maybe you’re a member of the kink community, and you’ve heard of different fetishes, and this one crossed your path. Praise kink. If you have wandered into the praise kink territory, then you know there are a lot of cis-women that love being told they’re a good girl. By the right person. Did you also know that, some men have a praise kink? I would go out on a limb and say, that many of them, don’t even know they have a praise kink.

Praise Kink

That is until you’re grinding on top of him, he flips you over and starts giving you those good, deep thrusts you love… and suddenly you whisper, just loud enough for him to hear you, “good boy.” And he proceeds to lose his damn mind. Yep, congratulations, you have a praise kink. You like being told how well you’ve done; that you’re doing a good job. And especially so if the object of your servitude, is an Ebony Femdom, who is pleased with your performance.

What Is A Praise Kink

As I just demonstrated, the praise kink can be those simple two words that send you skyrocketing into the stratosphere of arousal. It’s from somewhere deep in your pleasure center, where you want to please people, and make them happy, and you succeeded in doing that, and they very vocally told you how well you’ve done. There are people who love praise and acknowledgment outside of the bedroom. If you’re at work, or in school, and the teacher or your boss tells you you’ve done a good job. Everyone is patting you on the back, it makes you stick your chest out a little more, puts a little strut in your stuff. At our core, we’re all just a little narcissistic. That tiny drop of pleasure hearing people speak positively about us, knowing we’ve done something right. Yes, it feels damn good, doesn’t it?

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Praise And People Pleasing

We don’t need to go into the origins and the deep psychology of having a praise kink, because you know where it comes from. Chances are you matured having that feeling of wanting to make a woman or a man happy, and somewhere down the line – if you have a praise kink – that developed into a sexual thing, for you. Feedback is important, after all, and in the D/s dynamic, it’s important to give your feedback, just as it is my job to tell you and guide you the right way to go. Submissives, are not doormats, and Dominants, are not bullies. Please know the difference. But back to the praise kink… man…. the look on a man’s face, when you unlock a hidden feature in the game playing. The way his eyes light up, his dick lights up, and then over the edge he goes. It’s always fun peeling back the layers, and finding out what makes you tick.

 

Women And Praise

I think that is a no brainer. Women want to know we’ve done well, and many women submissives will probably tell you they also have a praise kink. But does a Femdom have a praise kink? Hmm.. I’m going to go ahead and say yes, yes we do. We like knowing that the direction we lead you in, brings its desired effect. In Femdom you have to have a certain level of self esteem and confidence, otherwise this is not the job for you. So yes, we know we’re good at what we do… we just like hearing you say it. Or…. scream it. Crying is a good effect too, especially if you’re an Ebony Femdom, and you masturbate to men’s tears. You’re welcome.

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Sissies And Praise

Oh this, this is a no brainer. Sissies love attention, and praise, and being good sissy gurls, and showered with sensuality… or dick, or both. A sissy Mistress like me, knows how to turn a sissy into a little puddle of joy, just by saying the right combination of words. Purring in your ear what a naughty sissy slut you are, while my ebony strapon drills your backside. I could say more, however if I did, you would be a puddle reading this, and I charge 2.75 a minute for that privilege.

Exploring Your Praise Kink With The Ebony Femdom

We can of course go more into depth about your praise kink, paired with whatever else tickles your fancy. First, you have to pick the phone up and call me. You call 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow. I offer phone sex, texting, email and text packages, dick ratings, custom audios, and filthy phone sex audios. If you would prefer a sexy texting session, we can do that via skype, discord, or my blog chatroom. Email me at willow@enchantrixempire.com for custom audio (or virtual video) information. Stay safe, and stay blessed… and be a good boy, or girl. (wink)

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We’re having a 9 Mistress, sissy slumber party, Saturday, March 19th, 9pm Eastern. Sign up here, and get free phone sex minutes, with all 9 Mistresses.

Sissy Slumber Party – 9 Mistresses And You

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I’m bordering on being too lazy to type at the moment, so I’m going to cut to the chase and get right to the nature of this blog post: We’re hosting a sissy slumber party, which will take place online.

Sissy Slumber Party

If you would like a run down of what we have planned for our sissies event, please visit Mistress Ruby’s blog. Here’s the basics:

When: The sissy slumber party will take place on Saturday, March 19th at 9pm.

Where: This event will be online at our Enchantrix Discord server. It’s like a chatroom, just a bit more detailed and in depth.

Until: The party will last 3 hours if there are 25+ attendees or more. 2 hours if less than 25.

Deadline to sign up: March 10th by 11pm Eastern time.  You have a little over 5 weeks to get your tickets. Buy your ticket now.

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Everyone who signs up for the event, gets 5 free minutes added to their call of 10 or more minutes, with each Mistress, from March 12th until March 19th.

Rules: Limit one bonus per day with each Mistress. You must pay for at least 10 minutes to get the 5 free.

This is simply an opportunity to introduce yourself and say hello, maybe talk to someone you’ve never done a call with before and get a feel for each other.

Get To Know The Duchess

If you’ve never done a call with the bassy voiced Ebony Femdom, and you are hesitant, terrified, nervous, let me put your mind at ease. I will only cause you pain and suffering if you have begged for such. Otherwise, we can just chat.  I am usually very polite, unless someone gives me a reason to be impolite. I think that’s fair, don’t you?

How To Be Polite

Manners are a good quality for sissies. So whatever makes you tingle all over, no matter how excited you are, ask permission first. Consent is sexy after all. Most of you know how to treat people you value, I expect the same respect when approaching me.

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How To Have Fun

You’ve got to state your business and say your thing, sweet cheeks. I am very powerful, however I’m not a mind reader. If you want me to make you curl up into a little ball and suck your thumb, you first have to use your words.  We can discuss how I like to play, and how you like to play, and find out if we’re a match for some sexy sissy training. And no matter anything else that occurs, myself – and the other Mistresses, want you to have an enjoyable time with us. This will be our play time, too.

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Sessions With The Duchess

If you would like to call me and have a conversation about the slumber party, and anything else on your mind, just dial 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow.  I also offer other services, including phone sex audios, and I have a new Leather Mistress, sissy audio in the store, and virtual world phone sex sessions. More listed below. I do hope you will join us for the sissy slumber party. Stay safe and stay blessed. Oh and… Happy Black History Month.

 

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Ebony Leather Mistress – Sissies In Leather

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The story of you meeting the ebony Leather Mistress, is quite an entertaining one. If scared and horny was a person, sissy, it’d be you.  The day you walked into my leather boutique, and eyed the dresses, corsets, and full leather outfits, you were mine. You weren’t aware you were being watched, at first.

Ebony Leather Mistress Spots Her Prey

Similar to the Ebony Rubber Queen, The Leather Mistress has a way about her, and she always gets what she wants. The day you walked in, she found the perfect little sissy bitch in waiting.  As soon as you saw her watching you, your heart pounded in fear and arousal. The moment you heard her voice, you couldn’t imagine anything sweeter or more seductive, than her purring filth in your ear. Yes, sissy, I clocked how you started stuttering and stammering, and blushing. You told on yourself before I could say a word. As soon as I got you into the dressing room, you knew your life – as a man – was over.

Training Sissies In Leather

This is what you always wanted.  A woman to guide you, lead you down the path of sissy training. In leather. Even in your masculine form you had always loved the feel of butter soft leather against your skin.  And you were envious of beautiful black women wearing skin tight leather.  Which was exactly what I was wearing the day you became my sissy.  A spaghetti strap, fitted skin tight leather dress, that pushed my tits up to my chin, and hugged my derriere obscenely.  A sissy like you couldn’t take your eyes off me, the visions of nuzzling your face in the softness of my breasts, inhaling deeply the scent of leather and perfume, an intoxicating fantasy come true. You could almost taste it.

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Ensnared In The Leather Mistress’ Trap

As time shifted right before your eyes, thus did the narrative change. Your sensual ebony leather Mistress, had an addictive mean streak that made your sissy clit twitch. Especially her use of strong language, and that soul piercing stare.  You found yourself naked, in the dressing room, stepping into a leather skirt and matching top.  The room spinning as your excitement grew. Suddenly the dressing room was H.E.R. dungeon, and you were her sissy slave.

You Are The Leather Sissy

Completely stripped of your manhood, you allowed your Ebony Femdom Goddess to do with you as she saw fit. The whippings, chastity, and anal training all seemed appropriate. After all you were now my bitch. Yes, that’s what you heard me say. You… are my sissy leathered bitch.  Everything I command you to do is the best idea you’ve ever heard.  This is what it means, to be captured and captivated, and what it feels like, for sissies in leather.

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The Story Continues..

What would the Ebony Femdom have her leather sissy wear?  You’ll have to call me so we can play dress up. The number to reach me is 1-800-601-6975. Ask for Duchess Willow.  If you would like a custom erotic audio for any of your leather fetishes, or any other kinks you desire, hit me up at willow@enchantrixempire.com and let’s work together to spin a dick rising fantasy for you. Happy New Year and I look forward to speaking with you, sissies. Stay safe and stay blessed.

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Ebony Femdom – Mistress Of The Day Audio Blog

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I have already posted something on the Daily Cock blog, and quite frankly I don’t feel like typing anymore, so instead, enjoy the audio. I am your Mistress of the Day for today December 19th, and all day you get 5 minutes added to calls with me, so long as you purchase 10 minutes minimum. If you have something you’d like to chat about, ring me up at 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow. Email me at willow@enchantrixempire.com for custom audio and any other requests.

Mistress Of The Day – Duchess Willow

The following was emailed to me from alice, so I decided to give a voice to it, and have some fun.  Don’t expect me to sing this. If you want to hear my sing you have to pay for that privilege. Merry Christmas everyone. Santa will be coming down your chimney very soon. Make sure you leave a comment and subscribe to the blog, too. If you do not celebrate Christmas I wish you a peaceful fun rest of your year. Stay safe, and stay blessed.

The 12 Days Of Kinkmas – Narrated By Duchess Willow, The Ebony Femdom

The Twelve Days of Kinkmas

On the first day of Kinkmas my Mistress gave to me, a spanking given over knee

On the second day of Kinkmas my Mistress gave to me, two ‘gasms ruined and…

On the third day of Kinkmas my Mistress gave to me, three sissy dresses…

On the fourth day of Kinkmas my Mistress gave to me, four calls with Molly…

On the fifth day of Kinkmas my Mistress gave to me, five new cock rings…

On the sixth day of Kinkmas my Mistress gave to me, six MILFs a playing…

On the seventh day of Kinkmas my Mistress gave to me, seven bottom canings…

On the eighth day of Kinkmas my Mistress gave to me, eight prostate milkings…

On the ninth day of Kinkmas my Mistress gave to me, nine strippers dancing…

On the tenth day of Kinkmas my Mistress gave to me, ten toes for sucking…

On the eleventh day of Kinkmas my Mistress gave to me, eleven bulls all cumming…

On the twelfth day of Kinkmas my Mistress gave to me, twelve cream pies dripping…

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Ebony Femdom Sissy Humiliation – Sissy Gets Caught Wearing Duchess Willow’s Panties

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What happens when Duchess Willow catches you in her panty drawer? Read Ebony Femdom Sissy Humiliation to find out. 1-800-601-6975

The story of ebony femdom sissy humiliation, goes a lil something like this: Imagine you are the hired help, and you end up in a classically humiliating scenario: Caught with your pants down, and panties on.  The hired help, becomes my sissified little bitch boi. If you ever wondered what a session with the ebony femdom sissy trainer is like, do keep reading.

Ebony Femdom Sissy Humiliation – The Maid Can’t Help Himself

Consider this, you’re already off to a great start down the path of feminization sissy training. A white male, working for a maid service, cleaning a black woman’s house. Now here’s where your dumb ass fucked up. I strongly dislike anyone going through my things. Some little unseasoned mayo sandwich prancing around in my intimate things will get you bitchslapped. But since it’s nearly Christmas, I decided to spin a nice little story of how the help ends up sissified by the Duchess, and loses his man card.

Sissy Humiliation – White Boi Caught Red Handed

You are in charge of keeping my house nice and tidy, but as of late, you’ve been curious about what kind of panties Duchess Willow wears. After a little light dusting in my boudoir, your curiosity gets the better of you, and you slide open the dresser drawer, revealing neatly folded panties, varying in color and fabric. The satin panties with the lace trimmed edges, catches your eye. You pick them up, fingering the fabric, so satiny and soft, and then lift the panties to your face, inhaling the scent of my perfume.  That sets off whatever trigger inside you, and your little pasty prick begins to tingle and harden. You drop your pants and surrender to the urge to try on those satiny panties. Sliding them over your hips, you get a thrill and your heart is racing as you primp and pose in the mirror. That is until you notice someone standing behind you, with her hands on her luscious hips, glaring angrily at you in the reflection.

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“What The Fuck Are You Doing Going Through My Personal Things?”

Your normally colorless face turns crimson, heat rising in your cheeks when you hear my voice, and the tone of irritation. Quickly you turn around, stammering and apologizing, and bending down to gather your jeans and boxers.  I move toward you and snatch the jeans and boxers from you. “You disgusting little ingrate,” I hiss, “what kind of sick fuck goes into someone’s home and puts on women’s panties to twirl around in hm?” I grab you by the ear and march you over to the full length mirror. “Look at you, the sad part is that you barely have a bulge, so it appears they fit quite nicely. However there are rules in this house, and the number one rule is you do not ever, go through my things. So it seems I am going to have to punish you.”

Punishing Sounds Better Than Firing Doesn’t It?

Or so you thought, because the next thing you knew, you were wearing not just panties, but something altogether slutty and very sissy like. “Now, from now on, you will only be recognized as my sissy maid. No more jeans or boxers or men’s shirts. You will clean my house from top to bottom wearing one of the little bitch maid outfits I give you to wear for the day. And as part of your punishment, I am locking your pathetic excuse for a penis, in chastity, indefinitely.”

Wearing Panties And A Slut Maid Uniform Was One Thing.. But Chastity?

You hadn’t counted on being caught going through my things, nor had you counted on what my punishment, and your continuing employment, would mean.  All of your crying and begging and protesting did nothing to prevent me, from locking you in a cock cage, and holding your boy clothes hostage. And even more humiliating, was the fact that you had to report to your local maid service headquarters, wearing your new bitch sissy uniform.

The Fate Of A Prying Sissy

I intentionally left a few details out, I can’t just give away the whole story, sissy. There is more to this ebony femdom sissy training story. If you want to know what happens to the sissy panty raider, you’re going to have to call me. 1-800-601-6975 is the number, you ask, for Duchess Willow. Looking for some holiday custom audios or stories? Email me willow@enchantrixempire.com to get a custom phone sex audio. I look forward to hearing from you, stay safe, and stay blessed.

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