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Loss Of Control Kink And What That Means For You

Posted on July 27, 2026 by The Duchess

Loss of control kink might sound scary, and losing all control IS scary if it wasn’t on your bingo card. However some people crave the deep thrill of loss of control. But what does that specifically entail?

Loss Of Control Kink And What That Means For You

There are people who crave many forms of masochism that involve loss of control in extreme situations, some are milder. But what it does entail varies from person to person. Chastity is a loss of control kink that involves you being unable to access your dick. You can use traditional chastity or the newer remote locking chastity devices with all the bells and whistles – for Distance Domination play online. Many loss of control kinks involve money, yes…. the great drain – and all those naughty fantasies involving that fucking that “thing” you keep in your pants that is NOT your penis… If you get my meaning. Sound on for a treat, play the video….

Bondage Play And Loss Of Control Kink

Being tied up, cuffed, restrained, from just some simple ties to being mummified or encased in a rubber gimp suit, is yet another form of loss of control kink that many submissive enthusiasts enjoy. But do you know why people indulge in these kinks? The short answer is transference of power from you to something or someone outside of yourself. The thrill and fear of completely surrendering to another’s will. Not knowing what is going to happen next, because they’re not doing their thinking with your brain. And you don’t know what their thinking. So if you’re going to tap dance on the wild side of the unknown, it’s important to communicate about the scene and set boundaries. Boundaries are limits, and EVERYBODY has limits.

Boundaries In Kink And Exploring Your Fetishes Safely

So you decide you want it hard core. You want you want and you want, but can you articulate the ground rules associated with your wants? I know that you better be able to, if you want to get the most out of your play time. So you call Duchess Willow and you tell her you’re into everything and you want her to take control. Tread carefully, because I am going to ask you about your limits, and whether or not you like them pushed. I also do believe in safety, and I also believe in having teachable moments, where I – The Dominant – let you have it. Literally and figuratively. And I won’t stop until I break you.

The Teachable Moment

You said you had no limits. You told me you’re into “anything.” You begged and pleaded for me to take total control. So me being the sadistic menace that I am, I took control. There were no safe words, and suddenly you realized you do – in fact – have limits. When I finally released you – my mocking laughter would haunt you for as long as you live. Just imagine your worst nightmare. Hold that image in your mind and imagine me doing exactly what you begged for. Getting your sh** rocked with your cock in a trance.

Femdom Is A Luxury

Anyone who understands the dynamic of paying a Dominatrix to do what we do best, will understand that you cannot be a cheap bitch when it comes to your fantasy – you can – but do you really want that? Generosity is how you get blessed by the Ebony Femdom. So if you want to have a good time, yes… we can “almost” anything you have itching your brain and your balls that needs to be scratched… But this isn’t the bargain basement, and I’m not the help. If you want me to bring your fantasy to life…. Spoil me. Furthermore… learn how to goddamn read.

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Avoid teachable moments by using your grownup words and dialing 1-800-601-6975 and asking for Duchess Willow. Leave a VB with dispatch when you call – yes that’s a thing you can do and it shows you have home training and appreciate the arts. Femdom… is an art after all. Gift cards are always encouraged as well. I can’t wait to fuck you out of your panties, pet. Do your best to impress me. Stay safe and stay blessed.

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Ebony Femdom Birthdays And Communicating Effectively

Posted on June 20, 2026 by The Duchess

Happy Pride, Happy Juneteenth, and Happy upcoming Ebony Femdom birthday to ME. Today we’re going to discuss the importance of communication. One of the things I’ve noticed in my tenure as a Distance Femdom, and erotic service provider, is the lack of communication skills many men have. Now I say men as a generalization, but I am referring to mostly people born with penises who may also be trans or gender fluid. And yes, biological women too have issues with communication, but for the sake of this blog I will be talking about the men. We can talk about women’s communication style later. But just know that I’m about to drag several people in this blog. DO BETTER.

Disclaimer: If your used to being given comfort you haven’t earned…. my tone, will be very uncomfortable for you. Sit with it, and get through it, for a little taste of what I offer, towards the end. Most importantly, read the whole thing or suffer 100 years bad luck that will extend to everything and everyone you come into contact with.

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Ebony Femdom Birthdays And Communicating Effectively

Real fast, my birthday is June 29th. If you would like to send a gift you can send an amazon giftcard to willow@enchantrixempire.com or send a virtual bouquet when you: 1. pay for your call through dispatch or 2. pay for a custom audio. Now let’s get into communication skills and the lack thereof that is present with the lot of you. Sending an email with nothing but “hi” or a blank subject line, or grunting in caveman speak, and then expecting me to know what you want, is not going to work out for you. As a matter of fact it would behoove you to learn how to use your words.

You are not a caveman. You might act about as dumb as a box of rocks, but if you dialed that number and spoke to dispatch, I know, that you know, how to fucking talk. The fact is a lot of yall are fucking ch**dish. Then you throw a tantrum when you don’t get what you want. Listen, if you want to have a good time with me you’re going to either have to pay someone for life coaching and learning how to communicate, or go to therapy before you fucking call me because while I can be kind I can also be blunt.

I don’t do weaponized incompetence with grown ass men. I would like for you and for myself to have a good time in session, but if you want to waste 30-150 dollars being a dumbass that’s perfectly fine with me. At the end of the day, I am going to take your money; I am responsible on my end for delivering a quality call; I am not responsible for you wasting your own fucking time being a moron. Don’t worry, I’m going to give you the perfect template for how to approach me that does not involve one word answers or grunting like Fred Flintstone on crack.

How To Effectively Communicate And Not Sound Like An Idiot When Talking To Me

Let’s say you send an email. State your purpose. “Hi my name is _______________. My fetish is ____________. My roleplay request is _____________. I would like to know if it’s okay to send you something before our call.” That’s just a short example and it’s short for a fucking reason. I’m not a text wall reader, nor will I look at or watch any weird or suspicious looking files if you send them cold without so much as an introduction. They will get deleted and/or go directly to spam and I’ll never see them. Keep that in mind unless you want me to actually ignore you…. because I will. Get to the point, tell me what you’re looking for, say what you mean, and mean what you say.

If you wanna play games you can play them with your bitch ass m***a . Are we clear? How you handle me, how you approach me, and how you talk to me with determine what “side” of me you get. A sign of intelligence on your end, is helpful for you getting the good side that makes your toes curl. You can put “Dear Duchess Willow” in the subject of the emails you send. Now listen I know a lot of you don’t bother to read but that’s really not my fucking problem. Your ignorance of the rules does not excuse you from following them. Read a book and get out of my face with your entitlement issues.

Most people – yes I’m aware – are not anywhere near as direct as I’m going to be with you. If this doesn’t cater to your ego, you can skip your happy ass over to someone who will in fact coddle you for free. That person will not be me. Furthermore, being a jackass is unacceptable in my realm. Telling me “that’s just how I am and I’m not going to change” will get you put out with yesterdays trash. And the most important thing you need to know about me is this: I am aware you as a penis haver, have audacity in droves. I have audacity stockpiled in dark corners you wouldn’t dare touch. And I believe in reciprocation, and that men need to fear women way more than they do currently. If you’re not scared, you’re in danger. Remember that and watch how you talk to me.

There is that quote about not being as unhinged as I could be, and being grateful for that. Contrary to popular belief, being direct does not equal being mean. I’m not mean…. unless you deserve it. Oh.. lastly, so that you don’t think I’m just picking on men, women have horrid communication skills, too. Crying because you got corrected doesn’t make you a victim. And weaponized tears are a circus for fools. But I don’t teach for free.

I’m also aware people don’t like to listen to me for that “other” reason. And look where it got them? ((WINK)) Hubris is a motherfucker.

The Ebony Femdom Cancer Moon

So what do you know about Cancer moon zodiac signs? I’m sure you think we’re soft and we cry a lot….. wrong sign…. I do cry on occasion, right before I put the cement blocks on your ankles. If you enjoy Female led BDSM you’ll be happy to know that many water signs like myself, are sadists. Some are even masochists. I enjoy wearing stiletto tips and raking them across your bare skin. I like digging my heels into your flesh and making you squirm. I like the muffled sounds of your whimpering submission when I’m sitting on your face. I love the crack of a whip and the red marks they leave on your skin. I like picking grown men up and body slamming them. My favorite sounds, come from obedient subs that entered the dungeon terrified, and left a puddle of euphoric bliss, waddling and thanking me graciously for their beatings. I also like to see just how wide that hole of yours can get when I’m filling it with things I can’t even mention on this blog. And I like conversations, and the psychology of “why” people behave the way they do, up to a point.

All The Dirty Things I Want To Do To You

If you can get past the lecture on communication without crying like a lil bitch, you enter the pleasure palace where your wildest fantasies come to life, which benefits me. Because there are many things I want to do to you, and I do enjoy pounding man-flesh into something desirable. Until it squeaks, moans, and begs for more. How kinky I can get, depends on your manners. I’m well aware you have an “I want” “Make me” “Do me” list, and if you want me to care about YOUR wants, you will have to submit to mine. Deal? Deal. Now here’s the easy part.

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In summary, my communication structure is based on what works best for ME, and will help YOU, get what YOU, want…. So call me and let’s chat. There are things I’d love to explore with you. Dial 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow. Ask me about custom erotic audios and if you have a taste for gaming, ask me about virtual world Femdom sessions. I hope you’re having a wonderful Pride month. Stay safe and stay blessed.

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Ebony Femdom Updates: What’s Coming In June

Posted on May 31, 2026 by The Duchess

Miss me? Good, because absence makes the beatings stronger. Just kidding, I have had a lot on my plate which is why I haven’t blogged. This is just a quick update that next month is hot Domme summer, or Ebony Femdom summer, and I have a birthday coming up at the tail end of the coming month. Not much to say here at the moment, just a few reminders of the services I offer.

Ebony Femdom Updates: What’s Coming In June

My birthday is June 29th. If you’d like to gift me something you can send amazon gift cards to willow@enchantrixempire.com to say happy birthday. For those who are new I offer phone, text sessions, custom audios, erotic audios in the store, dick ratings, email packages, and virtual sessions. All that information will be in my signature.

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Custom Audios And Ebony Femdom Erotica

If you enjoy written erotica I also offer storytelling made to order, email me for pricing. You can buy my audios 24/7 in the phone sex audios store. And for custom audios use my email and pricing is on the site, listed below. Reading is a requirement to serve me. We don’t support dummies, here. If you’d like a sample of what’s in the store…. keep reading.

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Ebony Femdom Erotic Audio Store

For a refresher please check out my Ebony Femdom Audios and Services post. There are voice samples for all my audio offerings and additionally I would suggest you subscribe to my podcast. I hope you’ve enjoyed this Ebony Femdom updates blog. I look forward to spending some quality time with you in the month of June. Hopefully your masturbation may has been enjoyable. Now be a good toy and read the signature. Stay safe and stay blessed.

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Ebony Femdom Ass Sniffing Fetish – You Are An Anal Aroma Addict

Posted on April 26, 2026 by The Duchess

This one’s for all the filthy good bois and gurls who love ass. Specifically smelling it, worshiping it, licking it, being under it. You get the idea. Now I have written about Ebony Femdom ass worship before, but I wanted to specifically hone in on the ass sniffing fetish. Because for some ass sniffing fetishists, scent play is a huge part of your ass worship. Because you love that anal aroma, and you are addicted to the smell of a woman’s ass.

Ebony Femdom Ass Sniffing Fetish

I am no stranger to the ass worship fetish, as over the years I’ve blogged about ass worship, and ass sniffing, facesitting and every other variety of worshiping my buttocks, including a historical blog about the history of ass fetishes you can find on the cock control blog. I’m all for smothering a sub just so A. I don’t have to talk to him/her and B. facesitting makes a great ignore session. But obviously you are calling to discuss your ass slut fetish, or roleplay your deepest most depraved ass crack fantasy.

Ebony Femdom Giantess Ass Worship

Needless to say this extends to the Ebony Giantess asscrack crowd. Close your eyes and envision a world entirely made up of tinies and Giantess Femdoms. Then you see her, the glistening brown skin, thunder thighs and a big ole ebony ass jiggling with every step she takes… with the ground shaking as she moves across the island… Giantess Island that is. Now imagine she’s not walking alone, because upon closer inspection, you notice a tiny man securely strapped between her buttcheeks by a white thong bikini. The heat grows in your cheeks, and in your shorts with envy wishing it was you who could catch a glorious whiff of her ass for yourself.

Ebony Ass White Boi Accessories… Face To Ass Harness

Or maybe you’re following me on twitter X and you’ve seen the image of a black woman walking through her kitchen wearing a very peculiar accessory: A white boi on his hands and knees, crawling behind her unable to see, with his face strapped to her asscheeks by a special harness attached to her thong. She makes her meal and sips her coffee, him inhaling deeply. If he’s lucky… he might get a warm, rippling reward…. Now I’ve heard men admit they wanted to….. Wait just a moment.

Ebony Ass Worship – The Fart Fetish

Yes, there are men in this world that like smelling your farts. I don’t bother asking why, because for the right price I will happily let one rip right in your face. If it is your wish to have your final moments smelling my ass gas, and waking up staring at the ceiling, who am I to judge? Pay for the privilege, shorty. My farts cost just like everything else in life.

Ass Sniffing Phone Sex With The Ebony Femdom

Alright you filthy bitch, now’s your chance to serve black Femdom royalty in all the ways that both of us desire, ass worship and ass sniffing. Call me at 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow. If you desire my voice in your ear for custom aural delights, visit my audio erotica store and purchase a custom audio. Read the signature… I like good bois and gurls who read. Until next time, stay safe and stay blessed.

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Ebony Femdom SPH – Your Little Dick Is Good For One Thing

Posted on March 9, 2026 by The Duchess

Imagine leaving your house wearing a tshirt that reads: “MY DICK IS SO SMALL I WON A CONTEST FOR IT!” And the looks of judgment, shame, amusement, disgust and horror coming from every woman you pass who reads the shirt. Congratulations darling, here’s your chance to be relevant in the food chain. The small penis contest is live in the assignment store. And that’s in addition to Ebony Femdom SPH.

Ebony Femdom SPH – Your Little Dick Is Good For One Thing

Real quick: Did you know a black man created what we now know as the dildo? Women and men alike need to thank Gosnell Duncan for inventing silicon dildos for disabled people to have sex with their partners. And while it’s now March, Black History Month is every month for the Ebony Femdom, so you are going to learn something when you come over here. Now back to the Ebony Femdom SPH experience, and the smallest dick in the Empire contest.

If you want women to look at what’s between your legs and be enthusiastic about it, you’re going to have to pay for the privilege. Buy your ticket now for the small penis contest and submit your entries before March 20th to qualify. Read and follow directions, there is a link to the daily cock blog in the above paragraph with all the information. In addition to the small penis contest, you can get an Ebony Femdom Dick Rating any time of the year by purchasing from my assignment store.

The Big Day: Small Penis Contest Is March 27th

You have less than two weeks to enter, buy your ticket, get your submissions in on time, and less than three weeks until the small penis contest on Friday, March 27th, when we announce the winners. This is your chance to humblebrag that your dick was so small you actually won something and entertained women laughing at you in the process.

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Did You Miss Valentine’s Day? No You Didn’t….

Last month I posted The Lost Art of Love Letters on Valentine’s Day, and I know the men were in hiding because they didn’t want to get in trouble with their wives….. so I’m going to teach you good bois how to spoil me year round and not just on hallmark holidays. Number one: Gift cards. I have a wishlist on etsy, they have etsy giftcards. So does amazon. You go on the site, you type in my email: willow@enchantrixempire.com in the send to, section. Viola, you just sent me a gift.

Additionally if you order a custom audio, you can send a virtual bouquet WITH your order. And you can VB me when you call me, just ask the dispatcher to send a virtual bouquet to Duchess Willow. Also: IF YOU WANTED TO YOU WOULD. A gift is not just a gift. It is a reflection of your obedience, appreciation, loyalty and gratitude outside of sessions. It’s a way to say Thank you Mistress, for everything I do.

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Here’s To Finally Not Being A Disappointment: Call The Ebony Femdom For SPH

If you wanna pregame with me for some Ebony Femdom SPH just dial 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow. Enjoy Melanin March, and good luck, tiny dick wonder. Stay safe and stay blessed.

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The Lost Art Of Love Letters

Posted on February 14, 2026February 14, 2026 by The Duchess

Happy Valentine’s Day from The Ebony Femdom. I grew up partially in an era without the technology we have today, back when people had to send snail mail, record mix tapes, and write love letters. At a time when if you wanted to order something, there was no online store, there were mail order catalogs with the option to use toll free numbers and wait 4-6 weeks for delivery. The world has sped up, but the lovers and hopeless romantics of the world know, that there is something slow and sensual about expressing your thoughts in prose.

The Lost Art Of Love Letters

My challenge for you today, is to write me a love letter, a love note, some sonnets. I posted about this on my social media, that people used to write love letters. Slow down and put that pen to paper. One of the things writing does, is forces you to focus and pay attention to your thoughts and what you want to say. Writing is an excellent hobby for the AuDhd types who struggle with verbal communication, or simply need that extra process to be clear. I love writing. I have never used AI to write any of my blogs, and that’s my big brag – because my brain operating system is far more creative and intelligent than ai could ever hope to be.

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The Halloween Blog Train For Example

All of my Halloween blog train stories are written by me. There was no chatgpt when I was growing up, and schools used to focus on creative writing, penmanship, writing cursive, the arts, cooking, shop classes where you made things with your hands, not a 3D printer. My honest opinion of AI and technology? I personally see the usefulness of AI, however I also see where it can do damage if misused. Special caution is needed now, as ai is integrated into damn near everything. So getting back to making things with your hands, and writing with a pen and paper not just on Valentine’s Day – can prevent literal brain rot.

I see people struggling to do basic sh** and running to ai tools like grok and chatgpt to answer questions that a simple web search and self governed research could have answered for them. I see people making fun of someone for looking up words he didn’t understand and using a dictionary, when that is the very thing you need to be doing. People use grammerly and brag about using these tools and still can’t spell properly. Literacy is an issue and education has been so diluted it’s no wonder the younger generation cannot or is unable to comprehend. So start with writing, get a notepad, get a journal, and tell the pen and paper how you’re feeling.

Social Media As A Shared Ebony Femdom Dear Diary

I post daily on my Twitter profile, and have recently shared my thoughts on human behavior. You should know by now I’m not afraid to speak my mind. While my tongue can be sharp as a blade, there is the psychological side of me that wishes to understand why people behave the way they do, and most of my posts? They are record keeping for myself. If they help people process, my work is done. With that said, I have an understanding that putting things in writing is terrifying (and damning) to people because of how visceral it is. You’ve heard people say that erotica is so explicit, because your fantasies are filthier in print, on paper, than they would be verbally.

Porn and the visual it provides is very explicit, but writing about body parts, body fluids, and the intermingling of such, can get your motor running in ways porn cannot, because it requires you to visualize in your mind what’s happening in the story. If you suffer from aphantasia and are unable to visualize things, a graphic description of a sexual encounter, can help you “get there.”

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Write A Love Letter To The Ebony Femdom

I promise you that if you have read anything I write here, or on social media, I am only scary to people who have tried to fuck with me or disrespect me. So if you’re respectful and we have a good time chatting, you can excuse yourself from my rants and sh*tposting, as I was not talking to you. Go ahead and put it in writing for Valentine’s Day and tell me how you really feel. You can send your love letter with a Valentine today and you can also call me, if you’d like to read me your love notes. Bonus points if you write it on paper, scan and upload it, and email it to me along with a Mistress Valentine. You can also read my pretty gooners blog and buy my new Gooning phone sex audio from the store as well. If you’re in the mood for Ebony Femdom romance, dial 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow. Have a lovely Valentine’s Day. Stay safe and stay blessed.

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Pretty Gooners For Ebony Femdom February

Posted on February 8, 2026 by The Duchess

Hello all you pretty gooners and happy Black History Month. Yes I’m talking to you. Really quick, I’ve got a brand spanking new audio for sale in the phone sex audios store titled: You’re So Pretty When You Goon For Duchess Willow. And it’s for all the gooners, goonettes, jerkoff junkies and pump drones. For your aural and visual stimulation. You’re going to want to stick around for the preview trailer… keep reading bois and gurls.

Pretty Gooners For Ebony Femdom February

As you may be aware, I love gooning masturbation. The sweet bliss that takes over your whole entire body, without cumming. The full body orgasm, before the climax. The throbbing, eager needyness that consumes you and drops you deep into subspace making it impossible to think. I do love an empty head. This audio is for you to explore the depths of pleasure without release. And I want YOU to enjoy yourself. The video is two parts, and approximately 11 minutes long. Put your earbuds in, watch the screen, and enjoy the drop.

Black History Month With The Ebony Femdom

I know I have a tendency to get very passionate and emotional about black history month and race. That’s not going to change so if you’re one of “them people” I’m probably not going to be a good fit for you. However if you delight in learning past your privilege, I am someone I would strongly suggest talking to about your race play fetishes in terms of why you enjoy the BNWO fetish, what that means for you, and whether or not it makes you a terrible person. I specialize in many things and the full spectrum of the Ebony Femdom, BDSM, and fetish. So if BNWO triggers your bits, come see me. With one very gentle note….

Race Play With White Femdoms Is Not BNWO

If you’re a BBC loving white boi or sissy who serves a white Femdom, that has no affiliation with BNWO, which is an acronym for “Black New World Order.” Not… “I love talking to white women about how much I love black cock.” I don’t know why you would ever confuse the two, or think that your BBC fetish is a qualifier solely by itself. Furthermore, if I’ve said it once I’ll say it 50 times: It’s a fantasy, not real life… UNLESS you serve a Black woman dominant in real life. Reverse racism is not a thing. You as a white person are not oppressed by black people. Don’t be weird.

Like I said… call me. Because I’d really hate for you to embarrass yourself – unless I get to watch and laugh. I am a sadist who takes pleasure in others discomfort when deserved or begged for. Now back to gooning. I would love more gooning calls honestly, and if you have a gooning custom, email me at willow@enchantrixempire.com and we can get that set up.

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Valentine’s Day – Send Duchess Willow A Valentine

If you’d like to show your Ebony Femdom appreciation this month, you can purchase a Valentine for me from the assignment store. You can purchase more than one as well, say – if you wanted to give me more than one, or get a “heart” for myself and other lovely Mistresses at the Empire. Just go to “Buy Your Mistress A Valentine” select “Willow” from the drop down list and click pay. Easy peasy. Now… Turn your sound on, for the gooning video preview below.

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If you need a deeper drop, more gooning with the porn guardian, or a longer session, call or text me. Dial 1-800-601-6975 or pay online for phone, and ask for Duchess Willow. For texting/discord sessions please review my signature and go to sexy texting. I hope you have a wonderful Femdom February. Stay safe and stay blessed.

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Are You A Cuckold Or Just A Closeted Cocksucker? Take The Test

Posted on January 27, 2026 by The Duchess

Are You A Cuckold Or Just A Closeted Cocksucker? Let’s say you are consumed with the topic of ebony cuckolding, if you will. You tingle in your nethers with the mere thought of watching your partners ecstasy.. just not with you. But, lately you’ve been getting into the more extreme side of cuckolding, which involves not just watching, but participating. You start to question your sexuality: Do I have “the gay?” Take the test, by reading this blog and find out if you are in fact, a closeted cocksucker.

Are You A Cuckold Or Just A Closeted Cocksucker? Take The Test

Question number one: When you watch cuckolding porn, are you focused on the scene as a whole, the woman and the man’s pleasure as the cuckold looks on filled with longing. Or, are you more focused on the cuckold lovers penis?

Question number two: When you search for cum eating cuckolding erotica, is your search based on things like, a cuckold husband watching his wife get fucked by a well endowed cuckold bull? Does race, play a part in which erotica you choose?

Question number three: Do you put yourself in the scene, as 1. the man getting the action 2. the woman getting fucked 3. the cuckold wishing to play cock fluffing dick bandit?

Question number four: Which is more important to you. The attractiveness of the woman, the appeal of a handsome hung stud, whether or not the husband in the scene gets face fucked?

Question number five: Does it get your hard looking at another man’s penis, more so than the woman? Bonus: Do you become aroused imagining that YOU are the woman?

Question number six: Do you get aroused watching the “cuckold” suck cock, than you do watching the wife and lover go at it?

Oh No… Does My Cock Curiousity Mean I’m A Closet Dick-O-Sexual???

If that man brain of yours is screaming, “DICK. BIG HARD THROBBING COCK. I NEED COCK IN MY MOUTH.” The congratulations, you might be a closeted cocksucker. Now… why closeted? Let’s get into that shall we? Many men who consider themselves heterosexual, would never admit to having cock curiosities. They also would deny they ever looked at other men’s penises. But for these same men, they do believe that with cuckolding, when a woman is present, it’s okay to look at dicks. And so long as it’s cuckolding with a woman present, it’s even okay to have a dick in your mouth, because you can use the excuse, “oh I just did it because it’s what she wanted.”

However arousal and brain signals don’t lie. I don’t have specifics for you, but many men who claim to be straight, watch a lot of: cuckold porn, gang bangs, cock sucking, and even gay porn when they think no one is looking. And my personal opinion is, that it’s okay to look at dicks if you’re straight, nor will it automatically make you “the gay.” It’s only a cause for alarm if you can’t get aroused for your wife, without another man present, or… you would rather just get hot and heavy with some dick in and around your face hole.

In short, if your little swimmer (or big swimmer), salutes for dick and dick alone, and you find it harder and harder to “get it up” for a woman – you might have some pussy free in your future, and a whole lotta deeeeyooock! You may very well have suppressed your urges for penis early on, and rediscovered you really get riled up for a sausage fest, through the conduit of cuckold erotica. Now here are my thoughts regarding: “Using women to discover your true sexuality.”

If you’d rather not end up in a situation, where you’ve now pissed off your wife, because she found out the man she thought she married doesn’t exist – I suggest getting to know yourself a little better, and possibly – and this is only if you feel you’re not ready to cartwheel out of the closet – look into a lavender marriage and exercise discretion. I would also advise you do not marry a straight woman who likes fucking her husband if you know what I mean. As someone who “accidentally” ended up in a very sexless and underwhelming dating scenario – and as someone who loves dick – women like myself do not take kindly to pretendians. This is why communication and therapy are important.

With that said, if you suddenly discover that you’re more of a meat log man, than a pussy whisperer, then go get you some dick. Do it safely, get tested, use condoms, and just know, that for some men like yourself, cuckolding is how they found out they preferred dick in the first damn place.

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This blog is specifically for you lot that found out you love the cock, and are tired of living the big cuckold lie, and hiding your sexuality behind women. So if you need someone to talk to about your strong desire to take a foot long to the face, call me. Grab your phone from the closet, and dial 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow. Maybe one of these days we’ll have a discussion about the time I “accidentally” dated a sissy, who was more interested in wearing my clothes, than he was pleasing me sexually (on top of being inadequate in the meat department). (shaking my head) Until then… stay safe, and stay blessed.

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Posted on January 11, 2026 by The Duchess

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If you don’t see something you’re looking for, ask. Closed mouths don’t get fed and I’m not a mind reader, nor will I guess what you want. All the above are PAID services. What you get for free are this blog, my podcast, audio samples on all the sites (there are several), clean chat on our Discord server, free posts on social media. If you have any expectations past that you will have to pay for them. I enjoy being able to eat and pay my rent, and I’m sure you do too.

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You will discover very quickly what my style is once you approach properly. If you want the chance to please me – and to have your needs met which is WHY you’re calling, it would be wise to remember that you are never in charge, and I reserve the right to throat chop you. I will walk you around in circles until your knees fall off, should you forget. If that frightens you, do not worry, you have to actually DO SOMETHING STUPID, to earn my ire.

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If you read all this and you still are ready to have a good time, call me. Dial 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow. Happy New Year and have a great 2026. Stay safe and stay blessed.

Duchess Willow

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