Disclaimer: This blog is about sissies, and race, and mental health. And probably some other important things you need to know. In case you’re new to this blog, I am a very emotional and passionate person, who takes no sh** from non-black people. I have always been up front about that, and if you are unversed with serving me, you might wanna read some of my older Black History Month posts on privilege and race before continuing with this blog. For all of you “oh god, not another blog about race” headasses, you can see yourself out.
Ethical Tattoos For Sissies
Now that we’re on the same page, I do adore obedient sissies, and cuckolds, and I know yall have a thing for black men. Specifically BLACK DICK. I know some of you ignorantly use spade symbols. I do like the idea of ethical tattoos for sissies. So we’re going to discuss that, and you are going to open up your listening ears. I have no issue with using BBC, big black cock, black dick only, black cock only, BBC sissy, etc. I promise you, that no matter how much this blog post offends you, you’re gonna love it here. And as an Ebony cuckold, you’re going to earn that BBC.
Big Meaty Black Dick Loving Sissy Exploitation
There is so much more than I can do to you, to exploit your being a sissy and loving black men, and fetishizing black women, that gives me control over you, and gives you that pleasurable experience of being used and subjugated by Dominant black men and women. Of course, other white people would be disgusted by your behavior, except that’s exactly what I’m aiming for, when I turn your ass out. I actually enjoy offending white people and calling them out on their nonsense. It’s one of my hobbies. You might even say white tears is my kink.
Ethical Tattoos For Sissies – Please Research The History Of Spade Symbols And Other Dehumanizing Slurs Against Black People
Black people can use the spade symbol. You heard me. Just like we can use that word that some of you either use in the company of other white people, or when you think no one will catch you. I’m not going to explain why because you will never be invited to “that” table. No matter how down for the cause you think you are. Sissies – some sissies – have this obsession with using Qos and spade symbols and thinking the sh** is cute. Sadly there are some dominants who are also infected with this ignorance. TL;DR: There are plenty of ways to say you love black dick, without being a raging racist about it. And before anyone says it, reverse racism doesn’t exist. Yall are just not used to seeing black people living loud and proud and calling you out, devoid of your approval.
Black Femdom BDSM And The D/s Culture Is Very Different For Us
Black privilege – arguably – doesn’t altogether exist, except in the area of what we can say to each other, and in the company of other black people. You’ll notice I don’t use people of color. I am not a people of color, please stop being weird. I’m a black women, unapologetically. And I’m well aware of what non-black people say behind our backs. I have had an interesting introduction to being a black woman who does phone sex and Femdom. No, I’m not going to elaborate on that. Let’s just say that being a member of the kink community, bears the same challenges as the vanilla community. Ignorance. So when I encounter sissies who are proud of themselves for parading around using spade symbols, it’s ultra cringe. Especially when some of you – I believe are not necessarily racist in real life, I believe you are simply misguided. And the rest well…. you can’t help everyone.
Raceplay Kink And Black Men Submissives
Yes, I am aware that there are submissive black men that like being called names, some of them call me. I love working with black subs, there is something very healing about it, that most will never understand. However I do not, nor will I ever (again), engage in subby race play with white men. Because yall don’t know how to act, and while I do switch from time to time, unless you’re willing to pay for a lifetime of my therapy, and up front for that matter, we’re not doing that. I do not police every arena of D/s, I am specifically referring to how I play and who I will play with. Black sissies are adorable and fun. White BBC sissies are a whole lot of work. It’s the reason I also call myself the white boi trainer. And I am aware that I’m wordy and long winded, I’m getting to the point.
Back To Ethical Tattoos For Sissies
If you want to explore using BBC only printed sissy attire, or getting sissy tattoos, there are respectful and entirely less offensive things to carve into your flesh. Obviously I don’t mind the use of Ebony, because I call myself that. So “Ebony owned” is acceptable. BBC only – WITHOUT the spade symbol – also acceptable. You want to write “I love black cock” all over your body, sissy? Go crazy with it. Want to wear a BBC only rhinestone collar with pink leather, while accompanying me to some event or vacation, or as a form of humiliation while being dog walked, also acceptable. As a matter of fact, I am very pro-dog walking sissies and other submissives. Humiliation from me has the most delicious sting. You just have to be brave enough to take what I dish out. My favorite tattoo for a sissy to display, is one that says you are owned by The Duchess, and something along the lines of “black women rule” because we do. Another good one that is non offensive and respectful, of black men: “Black Kings Only” or “Black Queens Only.” See how easy it is to be a respectful frilly bitch? And your reward is choking on black dick. Mine, or his. (wink)
Speaking Of Ebony Dick And Sissies
I won’t have you thinking this whole blog is dedicated to scolding you lilly white sissies. I’d like to say thank you to those of you who know your fucking place, and stay in a sissies place at all times. And have manners that transcend your desires. Being pampered and spoiled by you, is how I stay in my feminine. However, I do have a thing for kinky sissy sluts, who want to ride my big black lady dick. And a special place at the end of it… right before you gag on that bish. I very much enjoy your sissy getting turned out by a black Mistress, and your wild Ebony Tgirl fantasies. So just know, that even though I am a hard ass when it comes to the above subject, you are welcome to explore your fantasies, and ask questions, with me.
Mental Health And Being An Ebony Femdom
I believe in being transparent when it comes to mental health. There are things about me, which are boundaries and hard limits. And my mental health and wellbeing, is a priority even before the “customers” wants and needs. Because it is how I am able to continue doing this job and enjoying what I do. I’ve had a therapist for the past two years, and it was one of the most needed, and healing forms of self care that I ever gave myself. Because this line of work, while rewarding, is also challenging, and is so in relation to being a minority in this country. I don’t have the privilege of just ignoring skin color, or being blind to it. So please be cognizant of this, if I correct you on anything you say to me – or ask you to STOP saying or doing something, take the correction. And if I am kind enough to share with you, from an educational standpoint, please take the lesson. Part of being Dominant, is leading, and caring for the safety and wellbeing of those who serve you. Take that however you want, just be respectful, when you approach me. This only ensures we will be able to continue playing together.
Now That We Have Established Where We All Stand – Back To Fun With Sissies
I’m aware that discussing these issues for some is off-putting, and if you read this whole blog I appreciate you doing so. There is never any good time to discuss these things, as I’ve discovered in the past…. Safe insane and consensual is my “fun” side. Educating the people that pay for my services, so that we can have an enjoyable experience, is my serious side. You need to be willing to accept and understand both. Sissies are a very good source of entertainment, once they have learned to conduct themselves in a manner that is consistent with obedience and respect, and adhering to boundaries, and following directions. In otherwords you need to be able to see past your lil dick. Dressing sissies, is something I enjoy. Fucking sissies is something that I enjoy. Pimping sissies out… something that I enjoy. And with that…
Calls With The Ebony Femdom
If you got through this whole blog without either A. Frothing at the mouth B. Crying and you’re ready to go for a wild ride on The Duchess Express, call me. Dial 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow. I hope you learned something, and have a better understanding of something outside of yourself. Stay safe, and stay blessed.
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