Loss of control kink might sound scary, and losing all control IS scary if it wasn’t on your bingo card. However some people crave the deep thrill of loss of control. But what does that specifically entail?
Loss Of Control Kink And What That Means For You
There are people who crave many forms of masochism that involve loss of control in extreme situations, some are milder. But what it does entail varies from person to person. Chastity is a loss of control kink that involves you being unable to access your dick. You can use traditional chastity or the newer remote locking chastity devices with all the bells and whistles – for Distance Domination play online. Many loss of control kinks involve money, yes…. the great drain – and all those naughty fantasies involving that fucking that “thing” you keep in your pants that is NOT your penis… If you get my meaning. Sound on for a treat, play the video….
Bondage Play And Loss Of Control Kink
Being tied up, cuffed, restrained, from just some simple ties to being mummified or encased in a rubber gimp suit, is yet another form of loss of control kink that many submissive enthusiasts enjoy. But do you know why people indulge in these kinks? The short answer is transference of power from you to something or someone outside of yourself. The thrill and fear of completely surrendering to another’s will. Not knowing what is going to happen next, because they’re not doing their thinking with your brain. And you don’t know what their thinking. So if you’re going to tap dance on the wild side of the unknown, it’s important to communicate about the scene and set boundaries. Boundaries are limits, and EVERYBODY has limits.
Boundaries In Kink And Exploring Your Fetishes Safely
So you decide you want it hard core. You want you want and you want, but can you articulate the ground rules associated with your wants? I know that you better be able to, if you want to get the most out of your play time. So you call Duchess Willow and you tell her you’re into everything and you want her to take control. Tread carefully, because I am going to ask you about your limits, and whether or not you like them pushed. I also do believe in safety, and I also believe in having teachable moments, where I – The Dominant – let you have it. Literally and figuratively. And I won’t stop until I break you.
The Teachable Moment
You said you had no limits. You told me you’re into “anything.” You begged and pleaded for me to take total control. So me being the sadistic menace that I am, I took control. There were no safe words, and suddenly you realized you do – in fact – have limits. When I finally released you – my mocking laughter would haunt you for as long as you live. Just imagine your worst nightmare. Hold that image in your mind and imagine me doing exactly what you begged for. Getting your sh** rocked with your cock in a trance.
Femdom Is A Luxury
Anyone who understands the dynamic of paying a Dominatrix to do what we do best, will understand that you cannot be a cheap bitch when it comes to your fantasy – you can – but do you really want that? Generosity is how you get blessed by the Ebony Femdom. So if you want to have a good time, yes… we can “almost” anything you have itching your brain and your balls that needs to be scratched… But this isn’t the bargain basement, and I’m not the help. If you want me to bring your fantasy to life…. Spoil me. Furthermore… learn how to goddamn read.
Distance Domination With The Ebony Femdom Duchess Willow
Avoid teachable moments by using your grownup words and dialing 1-800-601-6975 and asking for Duchess Willow. Leave a VB with dispatch when you call – yes that’s a thing you can do and it shows you have home training and appreciate the arts. Femdom… is an art after all. Gift cards are always encouraged as well. I can’t wait to fuck you out of your panties, pet. Do your best to impress me. Stay safe and stay blessed.
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