Happy Pride, Happy Juneteenth, and Happy upcoming Ebony Femdom birthday to ME. Today we’re going to discuss the importance of communication. One of the things I’ve noticed in my tenure as a Distance Femdom, and erotic service provider, is the lack of communication skills many men have. Now I say men as a generalization, but I am referring to mostly people born with penises who may also be trans or gender fluid. And yes, biological women too have issues with communication, but for the sake of this blog I will be talking about the men. We can talk about women’s communication style later. But just know that I’m about to drag several people in this blog. DO BETTER.
Disclaimer: If your used to being given comfort you haven’t earned…. my tone, will be very uncomfortable for you. Sit with it, and get through it, for a little taste of what I offer, towards the end. Most importantly, read the whole thing or suffer 100 years bad luck that will extend to everything and everyone you come into contact with.
Ebony Femdom Birthdays And Communicating Effectively
Real fast, my birthday is June 29th. If you would like to send a gift you can send an amazon giftcard to willow@enchantrixempire.com or send a virtual bouquet when you: 1. pay for your call through dispatch or 2. pay for a custom audio. Now let’s get into communication skills and the lack thereof that is present with the lot of you. Sending an email with nothing but “hi” or a blank subject line, or grunting in caveman speak, and then expecting me to know what you want, is not going to work out for you. As a matter of fact it would behoove you to learn how to use your words.
You are not a caveman. You might act about as dumb as a box of rocks, but if you dialed that number and spoke to dispatch, I know, that you know, how to fucking talk. The fact is a lot of yall are fucking ch**dish. Then you throw a tantrum when you don’t get what you want. Listen, if you want to have a good time with me you’re going to either have to pay someone for life coaching and learning how to communicate, or go to therapy before you fucking call me because while I can be kind I can also be blunt.
I don’t do weaponized incompetence with grown ass men. I would like for you and for myself to have a good time in session, but if you want to waste 30-150 dollars being a dumbass that’s perfectly fine with me. At the end of the day, I am going to take your money; I am responsible on my end for delivering a quality call; I am not responsible for you wasting your own fucking time being a moron. Don’t worry, I’m going to give you the perfect template for how to approach me that does not involve one word answers or grunting like Fred Flintstone on crack.
How To Effectively Communicate And Not Sound Like An Idiot When Talking To Me
Let’s say you send an email. State your purpose. “Hi my name is _______________. My fetish is ____________. My roleplay request is _____________. I would like to know if it’s okay to send you something before our call.” That’s just a short example and it’s short for a fucking reason. I’m not a text wall reader, nor will I look at or watch any weird or suspicious looking files if you send them cold without so much as an introduction. They will get deleted and/or go directly to spam and I’ll never see them. Keep that in mind unless you want me to actually ignore you…. because I will. Get to the point, tell me what you’re looking for, say what you mean, and mean what you say.
If you wanna play games you can play them with your bitch ass m***a . Are we clear? How you handle me, how you approach me, and how you talk to me with determine what “side” of me you get. A sign of intelligence on your end, is helpful for you getting the good side that makes your toes curl. You can put “Dear Duchess Willow” in the subject of the emails you send. Now listen I know a lot of you don’t bother to read but that’s really not my fucking problem. Your ignorance of the rules does not excuse you from following them. Read a book and get out of my face with your entitlement issues.
Most people – yes I’m aware – are not anywhere near as direct as I’m going to be with you. If this doesn’t cater to your ego, you can skip your happy ass over to someone who will in fact coddle you for free. That person will not be me. Furthermore, being a jackass is unacceptable in my realm. Telling me “that’s just how I am and I’m not going to change” will get you put out with yesterdays trash. And the most important thing you need to know about me is this: I am aware you as a penis haver, have audacity in droves. I have audacity stockpiled in dark corners you wouldn’t dare touch. And I believe in reciprocation, and that men need to fear women way more than they do currently. If you’re not scared, you’re in danger. Remember that and watch how you talk to me.
There is that quote about not being as unhinged as I could be, and being grateful for that. Contrary to popular belief, being direct does not equal being mean. I’m not mean…. unless you deserve it. Oh.. lastly, so that you don’t think I’m just picking on men, women have horrid communication skills, too. Crying because you got corrected doesn’t make you a victim. And weaponized tears are a circus for fools. But I don’t teach for free.
I’m also aware people don’t like to listen to me for that “other” reason. And look where it got them? ((WINK)) Hubris is a motherfucker.
The Ebony Femdom Cancer Moon
So what do you know about Cancer moon zodiac signs? I’m sure you think we’re soft and we cry a lot….. wrong sign…. I do cry on occasion, right before I put the cement blocks on your ankles. If you enjoy Female led BDSM you’ll be happy to know that many water signs like myself, are sadists. Some are even masochists. I enjoy wearing stiletto tips and raking them across your bare skin. I like digging my heels into your flesh and making you squirm. I like the muffled sounds of your whimpering submission when I’m sitting on your face. I love the crack of a whip and the red marks they leave on your skin. I like picking grown men up and body slamming them. My favorite sounds, come from obedient subs that entered the dungeon terrified, and left a puddle of euphoric bliss, waddling and thanking me graciously for their beatings. I also like to see just how wide that hole of yours can get when I’m filling it with things I can’t even mention on this blog. And I like conversations, and the psychology of “why” people behave the way they do, up to a point.
All The Dirty Things I Want To Do To You
If you can get past the lecture on communication without crying like a lil bitch, you enter the pleasure palace where your wildest fantasies come to life, which benefits me. Because there are many things I want to do to you, and I do enjoy pounding man-flesh into something desirable. Until it squeaks, moans, and begs for more. How kinky I can get, depends on your manners. I’m well aware you have an “I want” “Make me” “Do me” list, and if you want me to care about YOUR wants, you will have to submit to mine. Deal? Deal. Now here’s the easy part.
Calls With The Ebony Femdom Birthday Girl
In summary, my communication structure is based on what works best for ME, and will help YOU, get what YOU, want…. So call me and let’s chat. There are things I’d love to explore with you. Dial 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow. Ask me about custom erotic audios and if you have a taste for gaming, ask me about virtual world Femdom sessions. I hope you’re having a wonderful Pride month. Stay safe and stay blessed.
Duchess Willow
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