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Ebony Femdom Himbo Training – Tips For Being An Attractive Sex Toy

Posted on September 25, 2025 by The Duchess

Let’s face it. If women held men to the same standards they hold women to, many of you would be pussy free. There’s a difference between serving hunky ken doll aesthetic, and looking like golum from lord of the rings in drag. Some of you are not going to make the cut even if you prayed to satan himself. However, caring for your appearance is just as important as pleasing a Femdom and following directions. So here’s a few tips from the Ebony Femdom himbo training handbook. Don’t worry, cave gremlins, there’s hope even for you.

Ebony Femdom Himbo Training – Tips For Being An Attractive Sex Toy

The key point here is that you want to turn your Dominant Ebony Femdom on, not send her screaming from the room or get rocks thrown at you. So let’s say you have in fact been hit by the ugly stick and the himbo gods didn’t bless you with the looks of say – a blonde scandinavian sex god, or a hunky brunette who looks good in and out of a loincloth. Don’t fret, my dear submissive dogling, even you can improve your appearance for a Goddess. The first order of business might sound like a page from anal training prep – because it requires good hygiene.

Ebony Femdom Himbo Training – Hygiene For Himbo Training

You obviously want to be clean and smell good. Pro-tip: Women love males who smell good and have fresh breath. So make sure for starters you are clean and tidy in the Ebony Femdom’s presence. Why would any Dominant woman want a servant around whose armpits smell like hot day old onions, and whose breath smells like raw sewage? Wash your ass, exfoliate for fuck’s sake, and brush your teeth. Also, sperm is not an appropriate mouthwash. Dick breath is only appropriate for you and whatever dick you’ve been sucking on that day. So make sure your breath doesn’t smell like your boyfriend’s musty ballsack. Especially if you have any intentions of getting pussy privileges.

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Himbo Training Fitness – Work That Body

Staying in shape so you can keep up with a Domme’s needs is mandatory. Get active, go for a run, walk, hit the gym, stretch, and keep that body-ody-ody in shape. You never know when your Goddess will need a strong back to sit on. It doesn’t matter what your face looks like if you are physically appealing. We can always put a paper bag on your head if I decide I don’t want to look at you and prefer to focus on your six pack or chiseled thighs.

Himbo House Husbands – Be The Maid Of Her Dreams

If you want a woman to sit on your face, or ride you into your next incarnation, you’re going to need to pick up a broom, a mop, and a vacuum among other things. Being a himbo maid might save your sex life. While you’re at it, pick up a cooking class. What a delight when Femdom head of household comes home to a sparkling clean house, spotless rugs, and a crystal clear porcelain throne scrubbed to flawless. You cook her a 5 course meal, pour her a glass of wine, and beloved, you won’t be able to walk the next day. Women are much more likely to want to fuck you if you’re self sufficient Himbo House Husband and behave as if you have some home training. Impress her by your actions, because men are already notorious for talking too much. Take hints, if she’s mentioned the walls need a fresh coat of paint, surprise her by taking care of the task. Home improvement is sexy. I do love a man who’s good with his hands….

Himbo Fashion – If You Have To Wear Clothes

If you’re clueless in the fashion department, get an expert to help you. I’m fully aware there will be time you have to wear more than a thong, apron and latex gimp suit. Bonus: Get a manicure and a pedicure to go with that fashion sense. You don’t have to be gay – contrary to popular belief – to be dressed well, same goes for ass washing remember? So get your look together so as not to be a public embarrassment. I’m not here to coddle you, beloved, I’m here to hurt your feelings and get you together.

Himbo Training With The Duchess

If you find my tone cutting, take a number and get in line. If you’d like to train with me directly to become a himbo house husband dream boat, you’re going to have to call me because I don’t cater to broke freeloaders. The number to call is 1-800-601-6975 ask for Duchess Willow. We do have texting services available if you’re unable to call. Make sure you read this whole blog post or I will ignore you. Or… you could call for an ignore session and pay for the privilege. Stay safe and stay blessed.

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Limp Penis CBT And How To Have Great Phone Sex

Posted on September 27, 2022 by The Duchess

Ebony Femdom Limp Penis CBT How to have great Phone Sex — The Duchess of Ebony Femdom has a new limp penis CBT audio out and some tips on how to have great phone sex. 1-800-601-6975

Contrary to whatever you weirdos think, I am very accommodating on phone sex calls. That’s because I want to be satisfied, and I want you to be satisfied, and very much addicted to me. So I am going to first tell you about my new limp penis CBT mp3, for sale now in the phone sex audios store. Then I’m going to share with you, one of the most important things you need to know, to have great phone sex with me, and have a memorable, mind blowing experience. Now for some of you crackers in the audience, I’m gonna need you to put on your big boi panties, because what I have to say to you is going to sting. And if you fuck with me, my words can be far worse than what I will do to you nuts with my steel toe boots. Disclaimer: From the immortal words of jasminesgarden on tiktok: “Your cognitive dissonance will deactivate your critical thinking when you’re triggered. So I’m not offending you, you are just upset.”

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Another thing you must know before you call me, is that I have an excellent sense of humor. Which is why I laughed, several times while recording this limp penis CBT audio as I was editing it. I find the noises men make when they’re in self induced pain, hysterically funny. What you can expect when you press play on the audio after purchase, is a rather comedic rendition of what silly bitches sound like when they test my patience. It’s also a lesson in being careful what you wish for, because you will get it, if you ask for it. Where pain play is concerned, I enjoy beating the sh** out of the willing, begging, and masochistic souls that seek my firm backhand. If you don’t know what CBT means, it stands for cock and ball torment. Where your balls are concerned, I suspect there is only one reason you wouldn’t call me for CBT, and that’s because you’re a coward. No offense to the wonderfully intelligent and talented non-black Dommes I work with, but if you give me an inch (for some of you that’s all you have), you will belong to me, and that terrifies you while simultaneously making your pathetic dick twitch.

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Pain Play With A Sadistic Black Femdom

I don’t know about my readers, but I do follow on social media, some of the most talented and experienced Black Mistresses in the industry, and I’ve learned plenty from them. I’m also aware of the marginalization of Black Women in the sex work industry, which I’ve discussed several times before. And it is due to the stereotypes some of you morons have where black women are concerned. To which I say this: The same sh** you ask the non-black Femdoms to do to you, is the same exact thing I will do to you. So I’m going to need yall to leave your bs elsewhere and get over your silly estimations. Those who come to me willingly, and have excellent communication skills, are going to have a great time with me. And those who don’t……

How To Have Great Phone Sex With The Duchess

Here is the most important thing to remember, before you pick up that phone; before you are connected to me: When you get on the phone with me and I say hello, I expect you to behave like someone who came to serve a Dominant woman and have that experience. Or if you’re more on the vanilla side, be prepared to have a conversation about what you’re looking for, and what I offer, because I offer both. You’re not going to know that, if you get on the phone with me and go mute and start acting standoffish, and suddenly your whole demeanor changed because you’re talking to a black woman and you expect her to know what the fuck is going on in your head without you telling her. So first off: CUT THAT SH** OUT. Yes, I am very intuitive – more than you will ever know – and I can tell when someone is full of you know what. I’m blunt, get over it. Once you do, here’s my advice for having a great phone sex session.

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Ask For Exactly What You Want

What’s wild to me, in my years of experience working the phones, is how many men will call a line, sit there on the phone being a mouth breather, and expect the “experienced PSO” to know what they want. That’s not how that works. If you want to have a good phone sex session, you have to come to the table ready to have a conversation. You are also going to have to use your GROWN UP words and tell Mistress what you want. And at 2.99 a minute with a ten minute minimum, you’re just throwing money away if you can’t pull it together. So in short: OPEN UP YOUR FUCKING MOUTH.

Great Phone Sex Requires Communication And Conversation Same As Any D/s Relationship

Or for that matter any relationship at all. Phone sex relationships are no different. Society has gotten so brainwashed and mindfucked by using implied language that yall don’t even know how to properly say what you want without acting like a juvenile about it. I require a person to be direct with me, for a very simple reason: I don’t understand hints and tap dancing. So if you attempt to be clever and pull some foolishness, the only person wearing a clown getup is your dumb ass. And by the way, I do not answer the phone: “Who the fuck is this, bitch. Tell me what you want or get the fuck off my phone.”

Damn Duchess Willow That’s Really Rude

Could you imagine if I spoke to you like that, on the phone? A random stranger that I just met? Yeah, pretty wild. It’s equally wild when yall pay for sessions and then want someone to coddle and cajole you to speak your mind. I don’t do that in my realm, I expect you to act like an adult and have a conversation. I actually like having conversations with people who have something to say, and want to go off on an adventure with me. Would you go to a restaurant or fast food joint, and stand there with your arms folded, pouting, and tell the cashier that you don’t want to tell them what you want because they should just know? Lemme school you on that right quick….

Are You A Phone Sex Regular Of Mine?

If not, I’m gonna be the one to break the news to you, that you’re going to have to be a big boi and tell me what you’re looking for, so you can get the business. My regulars already knew this, and that’s why when they call me…. come closer, lemme whisper this in your ear….. They get. What. They want. Groundbreaking. If you wanna play games and act a natural ass fool, go play with something safe.

Unless You Paid For An Ignore Line Session

Listen, I’m more than happy to put the phone down and let you listen to me fart in your face (some of yall get down like that, especially the Ebony Giantess Femdom fans, I know.. nasty bois), eat, or let you listen to the sound of silence. Ignore line phone sex calls are a powerful and wonderful way to submit to a Dominant while being in their presence. Except of course you didn’t want an ignore call, you didn’t tell Mistress what you wanted, and now you’re frustrated with your lil limp dick in your hand, because you wanted to behave like a jackass.

I Am Sweet As Pie And Have Manners As Long As You Do

No. Really. I am. My bluntness is just the disclaimer than no one else is going to give you before calling me. So we can have: A sensual phone sex call; a sexy body worship or ass worship session; an entertaining CBT scene; whatever you can dream up (within limits obvs), so long as you remember that relationships and good communication take the energy of two. Now I’m pretty sure you call because you need to destress, and this is a luxury entertainment service. So if you want to take advantage that luxury, you’re gonna have to come up off your high horse when you talk to me. And so that you know, a black woman asserting herself and having autonomy, does not mean “she has an attitude.” However, I do match energies. Take that however you want.

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On A Positive Note – Thank You To My Callers

I want you to know that those of you who are regulars, I appreciate your kindness, your obedience, your understanding, and what you bring to our sessions. That’s what makes this job worthwhile. Additionally I enjoy how your filthy little minds work, especially when you tell me what you want, need, and what a dirty boi you’ve been. (wink)

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There are several ways to do sessions with me. Phone, text, virtual, email and text, and as of this past month or so, lovense chat. If you are unable to do sessions, you can buy my phone sex audios or order a custom audio. So in conclusion: Ask for what you want, be direct, be respectful, stop being weird. And of course go buy my limp penis CBT audio. Links to my services are below. If you find this blog and all posts helpful, subscribe and share. To call me, for CBT, to eat my ass from the back, or anything else, dial 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow. Email me at willow@enchantrixempire.com for appointments, custom audios, and text sessions, or if you have a question that can be answered quickly. Stay safe, and stay blessed.