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How To Have Great Phone Sex In 2025: Explore Your Fantasies With The Ebony Femdom

Posted on January 31, 2025 by The Duchess

Happy New Year… Yes I am going to be that person who waits til the last day of January to say HNY, but it’s still valid because the 29th was the lunar new year. This is going to be a how to have great phone sex in 2025, with the changing world and uh… yeah you already know how it is. So listen I’m going to keep it 100 with you, great phone sex is self care.

How To Have Great Phone Sex In 2025

Sure, for some of you, you may notice no change to your daily life… maybe. For the rest of you, life is life-ing, right? So being able to sexually express yourself through phone sex and roleplays, is going to be a form of self care that will help you navigate a sometimes toxic world environment. First thing you will need to do if you want to have great phone sex, is read this blog by Mistress Harper, and sign up for feedly. This will help you stay in contact should you discover our blogs are a little more difficult to find. The second thing you can do, is subscribe to my rss feed. If you don’t want to use feedly, just grab the rss link and paste it into your reader of choice.

How To Have Great Phone Sex In 2025 With The Ebony Femdom

I like to chat about a broad range of fetishes and topics, and I love a good roleplay. So my number one tip for how to have great phone sex in 2025 is: Tell me what you want. Some of you penis havers, possess a knack for grunting like cave men, when you are horny and you want something specific, and then expect us to know what that something is. I’m much nicer, when you’re smarter.

Cave Man Speak Does Not The Duchess Get

“Me man, me horny, man, want phone sex.” Sounds very fucking ridiculous doesn’t it? Because okay, I know you want the sexy of the phone beloved, but the important question I need the answer to, is what kind of phone sex? Or are you looking more specifically for Distance Domination with a Phone Domme? It still falls under the phone sex umbrella, and I’m going to need you to use your grown up words and COMMUNICATE what it is you want and need.

Distance Domination And Phone Sex Services – The Luxury Of It All

Distance Domination and phone sex is a luxury service. Meaning after you pay all your bills on your house, your car note, your insurance, your groceries, this is the go to service you choose when you want to feel good, and have a good time. I know I’ve written in the past about things that make SOME people uncomfortable. That’s never going to change. But the people who come to me for great phone sex, guidance, or the phone Dominatrix experience that the Ebony Femdom dishes out, are coming to my realm because I offer them something paying their mortgage just doesn’t give them.

Responsibilities Will Never Be More Exciting Than The Duchess

Do your netherregions tingle when you pay your electric bill? No. Does your nether region tingle when Duchess Willow commands you to do something both humiliating and thrilling in her special Mean Mistress way? Just say yes. We both know the truth. So remember that you’re paying for my time, and as such it behooves you to use your mouth words when in and out of session with me so that we’re both happy. Now back to self care…

How To Have A Therapeutic Distance Domination Experience

There are things you can tell me that you can’t tell your best friend, your co-workers, or that fancy professional therapist you hired, because they won’t allow you to masturbate in the office. I however…. will also not allow you to masturbate while on the phone with me unless you ask my permission, but if you ask nicely and do all that I demand, I may allow you to touch yourself and do other lewd acts of service. So long as they please me, and lets face it, we’re in service to each other…. but I’m always in charge. And I say that to mean I want for you to leave my company satisfied with your experience and wanting more. And I also want you to feel good and get that dopamine flowing to regulate your nervous system.

The Space Between Phone Sex And Phone Domination – Where Do You Land?

Are you someone who is searching for the perfect form of limp penis instruction? Do me a favor and avoid being a fucking smartass. The majority of people who think they’re being clever in my presence well… I end up embarrassing them. I require clear, and direct communication. So if I’m confused on what you want you may end up with egg beater stuck somewhere it doesn’t belong. And a Dr and nurse asking you what your end game was for doing something so asinine. On the other hand, if you have something much less bawdy in mind for your phone sex fantasy, let me hear it, I might run with it – and you might scream my name several times – but we’re both going to be smiling in the end.

In Conclusion How To Have Good Phone With The Duchess Of Ebony Femdom

Clear communication, tell me what you want, we can discuss our expectations of each other in fantasy land or long term Distance Domination land. Don’t be an arrogant fucking twat. Have I made myself abundantly clear? My leash will be waiting for your neck. Call me at 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow. Have a wonderful new year, stay safe and stay blessed.

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Limp Penis CBT And How To Have Great Phone Sex

Posted on September 27, 2022 by The Duchess

Ebony Femdom Limp Penis CBT How to have great Phone Sex — The Duchess of Ebony Femdom has a new limp penis CBT audio out and some tips on how to have great phone sex. 1-800-601-6975

Contrary to whatever you weirdos think, I am very accommodating on phone sex calls. That’s because I want to be satisfied, and I want you to be satisfied, and very much addicted to me. So I am going to first tell you about my new limp penis CBT mp3, for sale now in the phone sex audios store. Then I’m going to share with you, one of the most important things you need to know, to have great phone sex with me, and have a memorable, mind blowing experience. Now for some of you crackers in the audience, I’m gonna need you to put on your big boi panties, because what I have to say to you is going to sting. And if you fuck with me, my words can be far worse than what I will do to you nuts with my steel toe boots. Disclaimer: From the immortal words of jasminesgarden on tiktok: “Your cognitive dissonance will deactivate your critical thinking when you’re triggered. So I’m not offending you, you are just upset.”

Limp Penis CBT With The Ebony Femdom

Another thing you must know before you call me, is that I have an excellent sense of humor. Which is why I laughed, several times while recording this limp penis CBT audio as I was editing it. I find the noises men make when they’re in self induced pain, hysterically funny. What you can expect when you press play on the audio after purchase, is a rather comedic rendition of what silly bitches sound like when they test my patience. It’s also a lesson in being careful what you wish for, because you will get it, if you ask for it. Where pain play is concerned, I enjoy beating the sh** out of the willing, begging, and masochistic souls that seek my firm backhand. If you don’t know what CBT means, it stands for cock and ball torment. Where your balls are concerned, I suspect there is only one reason you wouldn’t call me for CBT, and that’s because you’re a coward. No offense to the wonderfully intelligent and talented non-black Dommes I work with, but if you give me an inch (for some of you that’s all you have), you will belong to me, and that terrifies you while simultaneously making your pathetic dick twitch.

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Pain Play With A Sadistic Black Femdom

I don’t know about my readers, but I do follow on social media, some of the most talented and experienced Black Mistresses in the industry, and I’ve learned plenty from them. I’m also aware of the marginalization of Black Women in the sex work industry, which I’ve discussed several times before. And it is due to the stereotypes some of you morons have where black women are concerned. To which I say this: The same sh** you ask the non-black Femdoms to do to you, is the same exact thing I will do to you. So I’m going to need yall to leave your bs elsewhere and get over your silly estimations. Those who come to me willingly, and have excellent communication skills, are going to have a great time with me. And those who don’t……

How To Have Great Phone Sex With The Duchess

Here is the most important thing to remember, before you pick up that phone; before you are connected to me: When you get on the phone with me and I say hello, I expect you to behave like someone who came to serve a Dominant woman and have that experience. Or if you’re more on the vanilla side, be prepared to have a conversation about what you’re looking for, and what I offer, because I offer both. You’re not going to know that, if you get on the phone with me and go mute and start acting standoffish, and suddenly your whole demeanor changed because you’re talking to a black woman and you expect her to know what the fuck is going on in your head without you telling her. So first off: CUT THAT SH** OUT. Yes, I am very intuitive – more than you will ever know – and I can tell when someone is full of you know what. I’m blunt, get over it. Once you do, here’s my advice for having a great phone sex session.

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Ask For Exactly What You Want

What’s wild to me, in my years of experience working the phones, is how many men will call a line, sit there on the phone being a mouth breather, and expect the “experienced PSO” to know what they want. That’s not how that works. If you want to have a good phone sex session, you have to come to the table ready to have a conversation. You are also going to have to use your GROWN UP words and tell Mistress what you want. And at 2.99 a minute with a ten minute minimum, you’re just throwing money away if you can’t pull it together. So in short: OPEN UP YOUR FUCKING MOUTH.

Great Phone Sex Requires Communication And Conversation Same As Any D/s Relationship

Or for that matter any relationship at all. Phone sex relationships are no different. Society has gotten so brainwashed and mindfucked by using implied language that yall don’t even know how to properly say what you want without acting like a juvenile about it. I require a person to be direct with me, for a very simple reason: I don’t understand hints and tap dancing. So if you attempt to be clever and pull some foolishness, the only person wearing a clown getup is your dumb ass. And by the way, I do not answer the phone: “Who the fuck is this, bitch. Tell me what you want or get the fuck off my phone.”

Damn Duchess Willow That’s Really Rude

Could you imagine if I spoke to you like that, on the phone? A random stranger that I just met? Yeah, pretty wild. It’s equally wild when yall pay for sessions and then want someone to coddle and cajole you to speak your mind. I don’t do that in my realm, I expect you to act like an adult and have a conversation. I actually like having conversations with people who have something to say, and want to go off on an adventure with me. Would you go to a restaurant or fast food joint, and stand there with your arms folded, pouting, and tell the cashier that you don’t want to tell them what you want because they should just know? Lemme school you on that right quick….

Are You A Phone Sex Regular Of Mine?

If not, I’m gonna be the one to break the news to you, that you’re going to have to be a big boi and tell me what you’re looking for, so you can get the business. My regulars already knew this, and that’s why when they call me…. come closer, lemme whisper this in your ear….. They get. What. They want. Groundbreaking. If you wanna play games and act a natural ass fool, go play with something safe.

Unless You Paid For An Ignore Line Session

Listen, I’m more than happy to put the phone down and let you listen to me fart in your face (some of yall get down like that, especially the Ebony Giantess Femdom fans, I know.. nasty bois), eat, or let you listen to the sound of silence. Ignore line phone sex calls are a powerful and wonderful way to submit to a Dominant while being in their presence. Except of course you didn’t want an ignore call, you didn’t tell Mistress what you wanted, and now you’re frustrated with your lil limp dick in your hand, because you wanted to behave like a jackass.

I Am Sweet As Pie And Have Manners As Long As You Do

No. Really. I am. My bluntness is just the disclaimer than no one else is going to give you before calling me. So we can have: A sensual phone sex call; a sexy body worship or ass worship session; an entertaining CBT scene; whatever you can dream up (within limits obvs), so long as you remember that relationships and good communication take the energy of two. Now I’m pretty sure you call because you need to destress, and this is a luxury entertainment service. So if you want to take advantage that luxury, you’re gonna have to come up off your high horse when you talk to me. And so that you know, a black woman asserting herself and having autonomy, does not mean “she has an attitude.” However, I do match energies. Take that however you want.

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On A Positive Note – Thank You To My Callers

I want you to know that those of you who are regulars, I appreciate your kindness, your obedience, your understanding, and what you bring to our sessions. That’s what makes this job worthwhile. Additionally I enjoy how your filthy little minds work, especially when you tell me what you want, need, and what a dirty boi you’ve been. (wink)

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There are several ways to do sessions with me. Phone, text, virtual, email and text, and as of this past month or so, lovense chat. If you are unable to do sessions, you can buy my phone sex audios or order a custom audio. So in conclusion: Ask for what you want, be direct, be respectful, stop being weird. And of course go buy my limp penis CBT audio. Links to my services are below. If you find this blog and all posts helpful, subscribe and share. To call me, for CBT, to eat my ass from the back, or anything else, dial 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow. Email me at willow@enchantrixempire.com for appointments, custom audios, and text sessions, or if you have a question that can be answered quickly. Stay safe, and stay blessed.