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Ebony Femdom Thoughts On Sissies, Birthdays, And Distance Domination

Posted on June 16, 2025 by The Duchess

First of all, Happy Pride Month Yall. And now for my Ebony Femdom Thoughts. You get out of it what you put into it. That goes for everything. That’s my answer for Distance Domination and life in general, if you want a quality experience use your words and state your business. Now that we got that out of the way I’d like to discuss my thoughts on sissies. Oh and… my birthday is at the end of the month.

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Ebony Femdom Thoughts On Sissies

If you are unaware Enchantrix Empire is hosting a sissy pageant next month, July 19th at 7pm. You will need to pay to enter. 30 minutes or more paid session gets you in. This is an annual event and if you click the link it will take you to the daily cock where you can find out what to do to get entered in addition to paying for your half hour session. My thoughts on sissies are simply this: Entertaining over draining. The term sissy comes with a lot of loaded meaning and opinions, and with that there are several transgender women who got their start in the sissy fetish, which…. happens more often than you may be aware. Since it’s pride month, this is your yearly reminder that you can call and chat with the Mistresses of sissy school without judgment on your life choices. However I do have one particular pet peeve in relation to sissies, that has nothing necessarily to do with those of you who are trans, and enjoy the sissy kink.

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And this is not solely directed at sissies. It’s directed at the hoover vacuuming energy suckers that want lots and lots of attention without having to pay for it. Those who balk at having to pay for our time and attention. Being respectful of our time is one quick way to earn a place at our feet. The other is refraining from expecting us to give you our undivided attention when we’re otherwise busy or even attending to other submissives and patrons who aren’t you. Go on, take a deep breath and get out all your “how dare I… who does she think she is… how dare you deny me what I want..” male centered mode of thinking tantrums. We are a “mostly” Femdom paid service. What we are not is Match dot com, or “find a wife/girlfriend.” We do also offer companionship, and a very kinky dominant form of counsel as I am aware sometimes you just need a voice on the other end so you don’t feel like you’re screaming into the void. Which is exactly what you’ll be doing if you’re stupid enough to disrespect me. Read Acts of Service. Really do it.

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Granted we can absolutely indulge that fantasy, however I find this expectation that a Femdom would allow you in close proximity let alone have sex with her, a bit strange. With that said, if you “expect” us to give you our attention, you also need to “expect” that you will be paying for it. If you’re new here and reading my blog for the first time and SHOCKED by what I just wrote: We offer phone, texting, virtual 3D Femdom gaming sessions, Femdom audios, custom audios, email and texting packages, dick ratings, and cater to not just the sissy fetish, but most under the realm of Femdom and BDSM. So…. why on earth would you think we do all that for free beloved??

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Before you get upset and your cognitive dissonance gets in the way of your critical thinking, lemme put you onto game real quick. Remember why you call us. Because you can’t talk to your doctor or therapist about how you want to be dressed up in lingerie, humiliated, put over my knee and spanked and then drilled with my strapon until your eyes roll all the way to Turkmenistan. What we offer is a form of sex therapy (minus the PhD), and therapy is something I’m a big advocate for: People having a safe space/outlet to express themselves. Doctors and therapists charge for their services…… Are you picking up what I’m putting down? Would you walk into a fast food chain and demand they give you a free cheeseburger just because you want it, and then proudly and loudly in said restaurant brag about how you don’t pay but you still want the food? Also, this blog your reading is free. So is my podcast.

Ebony Femdom Thoughts More On Sissies

Do I like sissies? Beloved, have you read sissy dick and dash? I’m more on the science fiction side of transforming men into house husbands and my girly little playthings. I also just wrote a blog about virtual forniphilia, which is another of my top Femdom fetishes. So turning men into furniture is right up there with the joys of toys. And in terms of toys I do not discriminate, nor do I care what’s between your legs, if I’m sitting on you and bending you over. Feminization can go in many different directions, the direction I steer sissies to, is being of good use in all ways. I know many of you are so up your own ass when you engage with us that you cannot see how your “male learned” self centered-ness is appalling. Femdom exists to pound you like wet clay and mold you into something that knows its place and who’s holding the leash. It’s called “sissy training” for a reason.

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Why So Serious? Let’s Talk About June Birthdays

Specifically mine. My birthday is a “no whining, no begging, no asking for free sh**” zone. So on June 29th I expect you to be on your best behavior and be quiet. Send a gift card if so inclined to willow@enchantrixempire.com Ignore sessions are ideal, but if you must speak, make sure you understand that I will put my foot in your ass if I deem necessary. And a good footing is only available in session, or whatever else tickles your fancy. I know those of you with an abundance of fragility, often conflate bluntness with being mean. I promise you there’s a difference. But the most important thing I expect on my birthday, is for you to entertain me. I already know how to make your toes curl and send you home sucking your thumb.

Ebony Femdom Thoughts Summary

TL;DR Sissy pageant is July 19th, you must pay to enter.

It’s pride month, celebrate being uniquely you. If you need someone to talk to, call us. That’s why we’re here.

Stop being weird and cheap. Pay for your porn. Pay for your Femdom fantasy. Pay for your fetish.

Take a class on critical thinking, and have some fucking class and be respectful.

Spoil Duchess Willow on her birthday.

BTW, since it’s my birthday coming up, and I have not yet had a wet and messy food fetish session yet, make that happen. Do a food fetish session and you can say happy birthday to me in the messiest way possible. If you’re lucky I might sit this ass on your head. Dial 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow. Peep the audio, I’m gonna ask if you listened to it. Stay safe and stay blessed. Oh one more thing, subscribe to the blog on feedly, I learned a new magic trick, click this link Ebony Femdom Phone Sex Feedly. Sign up for feedly, save that and just favorite/subscribe.

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Ebony Femdom – Training Black Sissies

Posted on September 13, 2022 by The Duchess

This blog about training black sissies, is going to be juicy, and it will probably trigger someone’s masculinity card. September is pass the penis month, and I’d like to discuss sissy training for black men. The answer to the question – Is training black sissies a real kink? – before you ask, is yes. Yes there are black male submissives, and there are black male sissies. That may seem odd to hear, for any cis white man who assumed all black men were dominant dick swinging bulls. Being an Ebony Femdom who trains you lily white masculinity lacking sissies is fun, but there’s a certain kind of eroticism and power play involved, when dealing with black sissies.

Training Black Sissies

Just like white men who enjoy being submissive; like those that enjoy the BNWO, being tattooed sissies serving black Femdoms; and the “crackhead” sissies that enjoy humiliation – there are black men who also enjoy giving up control, and have a feminization kink. For varying reasons there are fewer black men that would even admit they liked being pegged or coerced to wear women’s underwear and suck another man’s dick, but they exist. Mostly due to the stresses of racism, homophobia, and transphobia. However let me say this, there is no shame in black men embracing their submissive side, and their feminine side. And for black sissies, it can be very healing.

Do Black Sissies Serve Black Mistresses?

Without going on a tangent about racism in the kink community, yes, and no. If you’d like to know why I said that, it’s for the same reason some white bois are terrified of submitting to a black woman. No I’m not going to elaborate here, we can discuss all that and more in session. However the black sissies that do serve Black Dommes, do exist, and the black kink community is thriving, with more black men, women, trans, non binary people exploring BDSM and their Dominant and submissive sides. I should know, I’m a switch… for the right person.

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Black Men And Gender And Feminization

The term sissies was used formerly to describe gay men, and over time it has evolved to mean feminine men, or men who don’t fit the gender norms. Without getting into a huge debate, apparently there are some younger generation that don’t know anything about the sissy kink and find that and literally anything else, offensive. Don’t bring any of that bs over here, to me, a woman who is black, and knows black women have been called far worse. I don’t want to hear about how you think the word is harmful, when we have far worse things happening in the world. Let people have their feminization kink and be quiet. Everything within the BDSM umbrella CAN be problematic if misused, so do what you want with that information. I am a supporter of black men embracing their feminine side, and if they want to be coerced into wearing panties and have a Femdom call them bad words because it gets them off, who are you to criticize? For black men into sissification, their submissive kinks help them deal with a world that expects them to be super macho dick swinging studs.

If A Black Man Wants To Wear A Tutu… That’s His Business

I don’t expect people outside of the black community, to understand transphobia and homophobia in the black community, and how THAT is far more harmful than the word “sissy.” There is a very toxic environment within our community, and the most homophobic and transphobic, are not just cis black men. Some of the cis women are also hellishly phobic, and to be honest I don’t know if being bi or pansexual for a black man is worse than being gay, due to the fact that there’s this misconception that “bisexual” equals promiscuous, and black transwomen are sadly also the targets of attacks from cis men who are terrified of trans people. Lots to unpack, surely. So sissy training for black men involves having a safe space to play without judgement. I offer that to those interested, naturally. Same rules apply: Be respectful of me, and I won’t kick your teeth in.

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Sissification Is Not About Shaming Women

Some people get this part twisted. Often. So let me set the record straight: Being a woman is a privilege. PERIOD. Men enjoy the sissy fetish because the idea of having their masculinity stripped away makes their dicks hard. It’s not about shaming women, or saying that being a woman is redactive. It’s about that tickle of humiliation, many cis men feel, wearing stockings and bras instead of slacks and business suits. For others they are curious what it’s like to be a woman, albeit an exaggerated caricature of one. For instance, the whole “shemale” and bimbo fetish is quite a deep dive into the extreme end of sissification. Nevertheless for these men that embrace their kink, it starts with curiosity and gender bending. Sometimes that curiousity becomes a lifestyle; sometimes that curiosity becomes permanent.

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You need not worry about what I think of you as a black man, if you’re seeking sissification. If my man wanted to wear garters before blowing my back out, as long as he is laying the pipe right he can wear whatever he wants. The aforementioned does not only apply to black men, I date whomever I like, good dick is a requirement regardless of what color you are. But I digress, if you’re a black man wanting sissy training, do call me. Sissies have always been – to me – their own entity. Neither man, nor woman, just sissy, and fanning their sissy feathers in whatever way gets them off. So let’s discuss the sissy fetish, and who better to discuss sissies with, than a black woman who enjoys turning men the fuck out?

Call The Ebony Femdom For Sissy Training

So here’s your call to action. Read this whole damn thing, and then take the plunge into that delicious loss of masculinity, and dive into the sissy fetish. If you’re a younger gen and you are confused as to why anyone would laud this kink or why it’s so popular, or why you don’t know nearly enough about it, also… call me. I like talking to some of the younger adults that are just getting into kink and BDSM, and I’d also be happy to give you some tips on how to protect yourself and choose a Dominant to explore with.. because sometimes yall leap before you look, and being horny can get you in trouble now can’t it? For sissy training and everything else – including pass the penis games and pass the sissy, dial 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow. Until we speak, stay safe and stay blessed.