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It’s Always Black History Month For Duchess Willow

Posted on March 2, 2020 by The Duchess

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Happy leap year yall. Black history month lasted an extra day this year, and I hope that you all have taken the initiative to learn and apply what you’ve learned about black women, and black people. Black History month lasts all year for me. And I’d like to share some things I’ve learned this month, and I have a special message for my fellow black sisters. The lessons black women learn from the world around us are often painful ones. We live in a world that is committed to misunderstanding us, and also very comfortable in their privilege. There is a hierarchy to privilege, and I’m going to break that down for you. And then we’ll get to the fun and sexy ebony femdom experience. There’s a lot to unpack, and I’m going to say some things that need to be said.

Trigger Warning: If anything I speak on, is triggering to you, please stop reading and go speak with a licensed and accredited therapist.

A Message To Black Women Everywhere From The Ebony Femdom

This is a tough one, I am going to ask “us” to let it go. I do not mean let go of our experiences and our history. I mean stop taking everything personally that people do. Here’s why we need to start doing this:

It’s essential for black women to heal. We cannot heal if we refuse to let go.
The people that are attacking us, behaving ill mannered toward us, being toxic and traumatizing us, are vibrating at a lower level, and of lower intelligence. There’s a hierarchy to intelligence, and you can always increase and improve your intelligence.
Your anger is valid, and if you keep vibrating on that anger it is going to make you sick. Hard truths are hard for a reason.

Privilege And Cognitive Dissonance

When I said there’s a hierarchy to privilege, the breakdown is simple. Black men have more privilege than black women and they have male privilege. Non-black poc have more privilege than black men and women. White women have more privilege than black men and black women. White men have more privilege than white women, non black poc and black men and women.

Be Strong And Firm In Your Boundaries And Speak Up For Yourself

This is slowly changing, and as it changes, it’s going to take certain groups out of their comfort zone of cognitive dissonant bliss. While it’s changing, and while there is so much happening in the world, black women still need the most healing and the most understanding, and it’s time for us to start looking inward, protecting our energy, and having integrity and taking care of our needs. And for us to start demanding that those needs be met, or closing off access to “us” for the people who refuse to respect our boundaries.

Purging Toxic People And Behavior

That means you may notice the volume of the people you start cutting off going up. There’s nothing wrong with you, and you are not responsible for other people’s lack of understanding. My advice to you is start grounding and start holding everyone around you accountable for their behavior. And also start holding yourself accountable for your own toxicity, projections, and any pain anger and negativity you feel.

Hold Everyone Accountable Including Yourself

If you ask someone to stop doing something that is triggering you, or toxic to you, and they continue to exhibit the same behavior, even after discussion, and they continue to display selective ignorance, selective deafness, selective illiteracy and show signs of being obtuse and hard of listening, cut them off. This goes for yourself and fellow sisters. I’m gonna say this and repeat it if I have to: You are not responsible for someone else’s healing, education, understanding, or self care. All these things are on an individual basis and if someone is triggering you or your mental health and you’ve asked them to stop, it’s time for them to go. If they’re hurt, that’s okay, their feelings once they’re cut off are none of your business. Your healing IS your business.

Emotional Labor And Black Women

I have a tendency to attract very clingy and needy people – if this triggers anyone in me speaking on this, please seek council with a professional – who require a lot of emotional support and constant coddling and reassurance, and it has gotten to the point where I have to check it as soon as it happens, as opposed to letting it slide because it affects my energy levels. Black women are – more than any other demographic – expected to take care of everybody, while neglecting our own needs, and being silent because nobody wants to hear us complain or speak out when something is wrong.

Speaking Up Vs. Being Silent

A lot of zen, new age spirituality teaches being silent and refraining from reacting. Many of these teachings while true, are rooted in privilege. Black women can’t afford to be silent. If we’re silent people will continue to take advantage of us. One of the things I’ve learned is that there is a time and place to speak the unspeakable, which means speaking up when something is wrong, even if the other party isn’t going to like what you have to say. Speak your truth, if it causes a blow up or the person doesn’t want to hear what you’re saying, let that person go.

Avoid Toxic Situationships

This is another experience many black women face. Staying in toxic or unhealthy relationships because you love the person; because you think maybe things will change; because you want to help them. You can’t help them; it is not going to get better, it’s going to get worse; men who are emotionally and verbally abusive are just as harmful as men who physically abuse women. Emotional and verbal abuse, and gaslighting is often more damaging because you can develop whole ass disorders. So heed my warning, if a motherfucker shows signs of being abusive, emotionally draining, ill behavior and gaslighting you and trying to downplay your concerns – get the whole fuck out of there. The block button is your friend, cyber harassment is a thing and you can report someone who is abusive, threatening, or attacking you.

Hold Men Accountable For Emotional Labor

I would love for yall to read the following tweet thread about emotional labor, and the link to what emotional labor is. Black women: If you’re with a man who neglects his physical and mental health, is prone to acting out and having emotional meltdowns, guilt tripping you, manipulative behavior, send his ass the fuck on. If you call him on his behavior and he makes excuses for it, tell him that’s a conversation he needs to have with a licensed therapist. If your man doesn’t have a doctor and refuses to get one, he belongs to the streets, boo. Let him go and you go heal. You are not responsible for anyone else’s mental or physical health.

YOU ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR ANYONE ELSE’S MENTAL AND PHYSICAL HEALTH

A little louder for the people in the back: YOU ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR ANYONE ELSE’S MENTAL AND PHYSICAL HEALTH. You are not responsible for someone else’s healing. Hold them accountable and if they refuse to respect your wishes give them their walking papers. And that’s on periodt and emotional labor and accountability.

Start Putting Everything Out On The Table And Tell People What You Need

A lot of men will be very surprised if you put expections on them from jump and make them adhere to your boundaries. Put it all out on the table from jump. Don’t be afraid to ask them if they are able and willing and accepting of your standards. There’s no time left to be afraid to have standards. Also be prepared to walk away from that table, if your needs are not met, and move on. Black women are Queens and deserving of love and respect that doesn’t traumatize us. If more of us speak out and demand respect and treatment owed, our voice will be amplified.

Blackfishing And Digital Blackface

Another warning: If this triggers you, talk to a licensed therapist please. And remember, only hit dogs holler.

If you are in the virtual world, there is currently a black history month exhibit. You can find it by searching for it in world. A couple of days ago I posted about this on flickr, about how appropriating black culture, and blackfishing, and digital blackface, is not only disgusting, and disrespectful, it’s racist. And I will call a spade a spade and anyone who has issues will have to deal with that on an individual basis. There is a level of cognitive dissonance with people in the virtual world, where they refuse to see how their behavior is harmful to black women, and while I am very understanding on many subjects, my hard limit is digital blackface. It is triggering to me and makes me very uncomfortable, being around people who are not black women, who insist on making black female presenting avatars, and use the excuse that it’s just a hobby for them.

Your Comfort Is Not My Problem

I refuse to stay silent to make ponc’s comfortable. The main reason many ignore racism in all its forms, is because if they acknowledge it, they have to acknowledge their privilege. If they acknowledge their privilege, they have to move from their comfort zone. Many ponc’s and non-black poc’s are unwilling to make that move.

My Blackness And My Culture Is Not A Hobby Or A Costume

Pardon my strong language here, my motherfucking blackness is not a motherfucking hobby. You do not get to choose what you’re offended by and what you turn a blind eye to, and then slap me in my face with disrespect. I mentioned this on Mistress Harper’s show, there is a disconnect with non black people (people of no color specifically), where because they have not experience the level of racism and hatred and abuse that black women are assaulted with, they fail to see how any of the aforementioned is a big deal. And I’m about tired of mouth breathers telling me what I’m allowed to be offended by or speak out on.

Selective Ignorance Selective Illiteracy Selective Deafness And Selective Memory Loss

If I mentioned to you that something bothers or offends me, that means you stop doing it. PERIODT. You refrain from disrespecting me with excuses and mansplainations of what your experience has been, if you are not black, and you are not a black woman, FULL STOP. Stand down. You have no voice here and we don’t need you to speak for us. I have a right to be angry as do all black women, when people want to blackfish and pretend to be a black woman “because it’s cute or pretty, or you love our skin coloring and black features.” Yes black women are pretty, cute, beautiful, and also exclusive. If black women can’t walk down the street or even exist without being harmed then you are not allowed to facilitate any behavior that harms black women, and that includes pretending to be a black woman or man. So my advice to black women is this: If you see something, say something. If it bothers you, speak up. You do not have to stay silent when you see something is wrong, and by doing so you’re allowing the perpetrators to get away with things they have no business doing.

Men Who Target Fetishize And Have A Parasitic Attachment To Black Women

Toxic masculinity as it pertains to black women is real. I have blogged about the need for diversity training and education on issues that affect black women specifically. I have noticed in addition to my attracting some very emotionally needy or unstable people, that there are unhealthy men that are toxic in a way that might be deceptive and traumatic, and unnoticeable to the naked eye unless you’re paying attention to the signs. Ladies do not be bamboozled by unhealthy men who are looking for a mammy. It caused me to do a lot of soul searching, and to do some serious internal review. If the word mammy is offensive to you, it is meant to be, and it’s how a lot of unhealthy men see “us.” Since I am no one’s mule, mother, teacher, or therapist, I will not take responsibility for men who won’t even take responsibility for themselves.

Virtual Gender Bending

While I don’t care who is what in the virtual world, I do care when it pertains to more personal interactions. There are many people in the virtual world who choose to portray a gender different from the one they are in real life. There’s nothing wrong with this, unless it is being used for deceptive purposes. An example of that, would be men who have female presenting avatars and use them to get close to women, or men who spend 90% of their free time as a female presenting individual, and target heterosexual women as companions. There’s simply not enough time for us to discuss how this could traumatize the women who are pursued by these men. To anyone who might question virtual culture, 3D online dating is akin to long distance relationships and there are many people who are looking for companionship within virtual.

My Message For Men

Stop wasting women’s time. Please make sure you are taking care of your emotional, mental, and physical health needs by talking to a doctor. And please stop traumatizing women by choosing to be selectively ignorant, concealing your intentions and needs, and dumping your issues on them. Targeting women to latch onto them for your emotional needs, without being forthcoming about those needs, is predatory and toxic. Using deceptive tactics to get close to women that you know wouldn’t talk to you otherwise, is toxic, trauma inducing, and predatory. If you’re confused about your sexuality or emotionally misguided, talk to a doctor. This is wholly your responsibility as a man. And you can choose to do better or continue to be trash. If you continue to be trash you will end up exactly where your behavior led you. The worst part of this, is that there is a chance that you will fail to get your needs met and you will traumatize women in the process. Or you will have your needs met for a time, until the women realize you have no intention of meeting theirs.

How Does All This Tie Into What I Said At The Beginning Of This Post?

In order for black women to let go, and heal, we need to be able to identify problems at their core. It doesn’t matter if it’s online, or in person, it needs to be called out. These are issues that affect me, and affect my interactions with everyone around me, and affect other black women. I am not the only black woman who has spoken out on white men cloning black female avatars (you think I’m lying? I’m deadass), or dating women to get closer to them so they could copy their avatars. These men are doing things online that they know damn good and well they’d be blasted for in real life, because they have that layer of protection being online and doing it.

Strange Male Behavior

Dudes on virtual be fuckin weirdos man. Not just predatory creepy but like… needing psychological help, headass weirdos. The worst on 3D is the gaslighting and manipulation. For this reason, I have chosen to stay far away from any man who spends 90% of his time on a female avi (and I’m about done with men period, right now). I am not referring to anyone who is non binary, and secure in their sexuality and secure in who they are. I’m referring to the sexually confused, unhealthy, effeminate men, who conceal their issues, force the hand and emotional labor of unsuspecting women, and refuse to get the help they need.

These Things Are Happening In Real Life

If you think virtual culture is wild? At least you have the option of blocking and moving on. Online dating opens up a lot of cowardly behavior, it does not stop it from happening in real life. You’re welcome to live your life as you choose. Please make sure you’re considerate of the people who care about you. It does not make it any less damaging, just easier for people to hide. White men fetishize black women in real life on a regular basis. I’ve said this before, there are men who either want to fuck us or be us. You cannot possibly understand how wild that is for someone to experience.

Why Am I Sharing This?

To save the pain and grief of not just black women, but any woman who needs to hear this. I want people to be aware of the low hanging fruit, and lower vibrational energy floating around. And then once you’re aware of it, take steps to protect yourself and take steps to make sure you avoid being equally toxic.

Black History Month – A Summary For Black Women

Focus on your healing and be kind to yourself. Be aware of those who would wish to rob your energy. It’s okay to be angry, sad, and speak your mind, avoid dwelling and festering that energy, because it will make you sick. Hold people accountable, know yourself and what you need and ask for what you need. Be prepared to walk away empty handed and start over. Check yourself. Speak up and use your voice. Blackfishing and digital blackface is racist. State your expectations of any man you interact with up front and hold men accountable. Men are 100% accountable for their behavior and equally accountable for emotional labor. If a man refuses to take care of himself or respect your boundaries let him go. Cut off anyone and anything that does not serve to heal, enrich, or uplift your life. Beware the signs of toxic male inauthenticity.

My Expectations Of Black Women And My Callers

Do better. Learn. Read. Research. Heal and take responsibility for your healing. For my callers I expect yall to learn how to be respectful in approaching and interacting with black women. I expect you to ask questions and state exactly what you need and want. I’m not nearly as scary or intimidating if you’re respectful. I like to have fun with my callers and give them an experience that will hopefully grow into something meaningful and fruitful for us both.

My Expectations Of Non-Black POC and PONC

Approach everything you are reading with maturity, and without crying and victimizing yourself (and really this goes for “us” too). I see right through that, so don’t even attempt it. If reading about a black woman’s experience is upsetting to you, please ask questions, instead of attempting to make everything about your own experience. I mock people who don’t read, by the way. You will be quizzed on this material.

We Care About Mental Health At LDW

Regardless of race, sexual orientation, or gender. We care so much that we’re having a special guest and accredited kink friendly therapist joining us on March 4th. So remember how, I keep telling yall that if you’re triggered or have issues you need to talk to a therapist right? Now you can. Tamara Powell will be talking with us live, Wednesday, March 4th at 7pm Eastern time. Peep the flyer for details.

And Now For The Sexy Ebony Femdom Stuff

Now that you’ve had your educational schooling, I require reimbursement for the time and energy I took to write all of this and keep you informed. I accept reimbursement and reparations in the form of ebony femdom phone sex calls, virtual sessions, wishlist gifts, and tributes. Tonight, as we bring in March 2020, I’m interested in making you my bitch, and hearing you moan. I also require a foot massage and ass worship. So get on it. The number you dial, is 1-800-601-6975 and you ask for Duchess Willow.

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Sissy Cruise – Ebony Nurse Willow

Posted on February 9, 2020February 9, 2020 by The Duchess

If you missed the sissy cruise welcome blog, you can start here with Miss Constance Welcome Aboard the Get Girlie Cruise

There was something unusual about ebony nurse Willow, yet sissy bella found herself in need of medical assistant, shortly after the sissy cruise ship set sail, and found herself in the medics quarters. Bella had a seat on the exam table, as the nurse excused herself to retrieve something from her office. When she re-emerged, Bella did a double take, and gulped. The nurse had returned wearing a very skimpy version of a nurse uniform. Her full breasts pushed up and jiggling with each step she took. Her curvy hips swaying, threatening to cause the hem of her already short dress, to ride up.

Sissy Cruise Ebony Nurse

“So what seems to be the problem, Bella?” Nurse Willow asked. Bella felt a shiver run up her spine at the mere sound of her voice, and as she answered, her own voice shaking. “Oh.. just a bit sea sick Miss. This is my first sissy cruise, I’ve never been on a boat before.” Nurse Willow smiled and stood before Bella, reaching out to hold a hand to her head. Her touch was warm, the faint scent of her perfume flooding Bella’s senses. “Well you don’t seem to have a fever. I do have something that will help with sea sickness, but it will make you drowsy, and you will need to lay down for a while. Once the drowsyness wears off, I assure you that you’ll be feeling much better.”

Ebony Nurse Trance

“Yes,” nodded Bella, “I’m sure that’s what I need.” Bella felt strange saying those words, like she was under some sort of mind control and her voice was not her own, even before nurse Willow gave her the motion sickness pill, and looked on as she swallowed with a glass of water. “There,” said the nurse, “it’s a fast acting drug, so don’t be alarmed if you start to feel a little out of sorts after a moment.”

No sooner had Nurse Willow said the words, than the sissy felt her head swimming. “Oooh, Miss Willow I feel very dizzy.. what’s in those pills?”

The nurse turned to Bella and smiled, “just relax, Bella, you just need to relax and let the effect take hold.” She walked over to Bella and helped her back onto the exam table. “Just lay down for a moment, and relax. You haven’t been getting enough sleep, with all the excitement of a sissy cruise.”

“And you just need some dick.”

Bella’s eyes fluttered and snapped open. “Wh-what?” Surely she hadn’t heard correctly. Yet the words echoed in Bella’s mind as her head continued to spin, and she found herself repeating them. “I just need some…. dick.”

Through her blurry vision, Bella could see nurse Willow standing by the exam table, and then she noticed that her skimpy dress was unbuttoned, exposing her chocolaty full breasts. As Bella’s eyes scanned downward, she saw what looked like a bulge, in the nurse’s lace panties. Her vision focused for a moment, and the smooth heavy balls peeking out from underneath caught her eye. Bella’s face grew hot, the heat traveling down between her legs and causing her sissy clit to tingle uncontrollably.

Big Black Dick – Ebony Nurse Surprise

Bella heard herself cry out, as the ebony nurse let her dress fall to the floor, and hooked her fingers into her lace bikini. The big black dick she had concealed, sprung free with a loud slap against her thighs. Bella cooed at the sight of it, as Nurse Willow stood at the edge of the exam table, and grabbed her hips, pulling her to the edge. “Like I said, sissy,” she purred, “you just need some dick.”

The Next Morning

Sissy Bella woke up in her cabin, not remembering ever leaving the nurse’s station, or how she got back to her room. Sitting up slowly, she felt the ache between her cheeks, as if something massive had plunged its way inside her and stretched her sissy walls. Just as the nurse had ensured, her motion sickness was gone, but her sissy clit and pussy were tingling with want. Then she notice the ache in her jaw and throat. Bella wondered what on earth had happened in the nurse’s office. Standing up and making her way to the sink, her eyes went wide when she saw her reflection. She was wearing a small pink satin teddy, that she didn’t remember putting on, and her sissy mouth, face, and tits were covered in semen. Without thinking, Bella swiped some of the cum off, on her finger, and slipped it into her mouth, moaning softly.

Whatever the nurse had done to her, as soon as she tasted the cum on her fingers, her nipples hardened, and her sissy clit stood up. Bella was even more flustered, knowing she had been used and fucked and couldn’t remember, and went back to the bedside table to call the nurse station. That’s when she saw the business card on the table. Nurse Willow, ext. 6969, lower deck 2. Somehow Bella knew, nurse Willow would be expecting her return. She wiggled her sissy ass back to the bathroom and stared once more at her reflection, overcome with the urge to see the nurse again.

Join Nurse Willow On The Sissy Cruise

This is only the beginning of our sissy cruise blog train. I am looking at the schedule and we have a lot of exciting cruise activities on the schedule. If you would like to book a session with ebony nurse Willow, call me, at 1-800-601-6975. Ask for Duchess Willow, the Ebony Femdom. I look forward to seeing you on the cruise. Up next, Mistress Brighton will meet you in the gym studio for a very special sissy work out.

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Black History Month With The Ebony Femdom

Posted on February 7, 2020 by The Duchess

Disclaimer: If any of the black history month subject matter is offensive to you or hurts your feelings, go throw that on a damn therapist.

Good day white bois and caucasitious beings. It’s February, you know what that means don’t you? It’s Black History Month. Reparations are due, and there are few ways you can pay for your sins and please The Duchess. For one, you can stop sniveling and whining about how you’re tired of hearing about racism. I know you have a disconnect where blackness is concerned, unless you’re blackfishing and appropriating our culture, I don’t give a damn. How you feel about it is none of my concern, and it’s only going to make your white boi training during black history month more severe. So let’s cut right to the chase: NONE of you will be cumming this month, and you will know the pain and discomfort of more than just orgasm denial.

Black History Month With The Ebony Femdom

For the people in the back complaining that caucasitious is not a word, yall bitches make sh*t up every day and claim you discovered it and no one ever questions you, so go sit on your mouth. We’re going to discuss why black history month with the ebony femdom is important. First of all, you need to understand that before you fetishize another black woman, you’re going to be well versed on who we are and why your behavior is racist. Notice I didn’t say – before you fetishize “a” black woman? Because I know you’ve already done it. Many of you fetishize black women on a daily basis. So why don’t we start with racism, a subject that makes many white people uncomfortable, because it demands them to acknowledge their behavior.

Racism And Fetishizing Black Women

To fetishize a black woman is simply to see her as a sex object instead of a human being. Many white men see black women as mammies or sex objects or loud and angry. All of these are wrong. For anyone who will argue about fetishizing women in general, you’re part of the problem. Here we are talking about black women and you feel the need to interject your unsolicited commentary and include all women. When a black woman is talking about being fetishized, here’s how to participate: 1. Shut the whole fuck up. 2. Listen.

Fetishizing Black Women Continued

Now as I was saying, the reason there is a difference between fetishizing all women and fetishizing black women – and there is a difference – is because even white and non black women of color get more respect than black women do. I have seen with my own eyes and ears and spirit, how mostly white men will take liberties with black women and say and do things in our presence they would never do or say toward non black women. The same sadly goes for some black men – but that’s a whole other conversation involving internalized racism and self hatred and misogynoire. Many men shift in both verbal and body language when around black women and feel “more comfortable” talking down to us or in front of us, because we’re seen as “less than.” It is the reason that those who fetishize black women do not see anything wrong with their behavior, and is based on stereotypes about black women.

Yes We Are Sexy And Beautiful.. And Also Smarter Than You

Black women are the furthest thing from stupid, and we live in a society where freedom to be sexual and express a woman’s sexuality, is reserved for the racially ambiguous and for non blacks. Black women are told to “have respect for ourselves and put our clothes back on” because “you know what people will think about you if they see you behaving or dressing like that.” I was raised in that sort of stifling and isolating upbringing. Where you’re told to focus on being a good girl and because of double standards, black women who dress and behave in a sultry and provocative way are seen as fast and uncouth.

Ebony Femdom Beginnings

Thankfully for me, I never listened to other people and their opinions, and I did as I pleased and became a sex worker and an ebony phone sex provider. Yet I still see around me, the glaring contrast in how white sex workers are treated, and even how they treat each other as opposed to how they respond to us. And I have touched on the need for diversity, and the toxic behavior on social media that is poisonous to black women. The point I’m making in all of this, is that I am really tired of seeing black women ridiculed for being sexy, for being attractive, for being sexual, and being feminine, in a world that expects us to be hard, strong, and coddling to everyone outside of us.

Black Women Embody Intelligence.. We Have To

And also expecting us to be stupid, as if we cannot be sexual, and sexy, and feminine and intelligent all at the same time. Regardless of education credentials. I’m not a college graduate, my intelligence and my wit have nothing to do with a piece of paper or a test. I can boldly say I have more sense in my head that most people who have masters degrees. And it has a lot to do with privilege, that thing that yall keep denying exists. Oh, and of course, there are those of you that think if you hear us using AAVE or slang, that we must be uneducated coons. Keep thinking that, because it will only allow me all the more power to destroy you.

Racism: Black People Cannot Be Racist

I said what I said. Racism is a system of oppression and is privilege based on skin color, therefore black people have no benefit from it. Can black people be prejudiced or discriminate against someone? Yes we can, that is where the difference lies. I know it makes you angry, you’re still wrong. So go sit in your little corner of wrongness and go do your research. The issue with having this conversation about race, is that there are people who solidly believe in their belief systems, and will not listen to anything outside of their belief system. What they’ve been taught and stand by. Those people aren’t the ones who interest me, they will end up gagging on their own ignorance. The rest of you I challenge to see outside of your little white bubble you’ve been living in, and for the women, I challenge you to understand what I’m saying without getting your white tears all over your computer screen.

The Correlation Is Simple

What does this have to do with the ebony femdom? We’re getting to that, you needed the life lesson first. The BDSM and kinky humiliation is coming next, for all those of you that are willing and able to be led by a black dominant. There is racism within the kink community too. Keep the following words out of your mouth at all times: “I am not attracted to black women” or “I don’t find black women appealing” congratulations, if you ever used these terms, you are very much racist. You’re also racist if you ever used the term “ghetto” to describe a person place or thing. And you’re hella racist if you thought the Kardashians invented cornrows and box braids.

You Are Racist Until You Educate Yourself On Why

And also understand that white people are inherently racist due to the society they’ve been raised in that taught them there’s a difference in how you treat people based on skin color. Yes, even you, and your having black friends are included in that group. And if you think sleeping with black women makes you not racist, you need your teeth kicked in. Because men will fuck a woman they can’t stand; men will fuck black women and still view them as animals. Men are disconnected from their erections, so fucking a black woman doesn’t mean a damn thing.

Racism In The Kink Community

In a world where black women are seen as strong, dominant, mouthy, having an attitude, hard and as mules that can take the weight on their backs, you’d think they’d be perfectly welcomed in the kink community. Sadly even there, black women are excluded from participation, and then invited to spend money when it’s convenient. Because of closed minded societal standards of beauty and attractiveness, here too, skin color plays a role. Slowly that is changing, however if you look around you, black dommes are the minority. They are just as experienced, and probably just as popular, but black women in femdom are also treated with less respect than their white counterparts. So what to do about this? Education is needed, and also, for black women’s voices to be heard and listened to.

Black History Month With The Ebony Femdom – Humility Is A Great Teacher

I talk a lot about diversity training, and a form of ebony cuckolding that does not involve your typical “black bull” if you will. I loathe the term “spade” because of what it stands for. Yes I’m aware of the fetish, yes I’m aware it is popular, and yes it’s racist as fuck. My style of cuckolding will have you respecting your black superiors. My style of white boi training involves me sometimes taking matters into my own hands. That includes the occasional strapon, and for those with a taste for tgirls – some erotic ebony shemale action. First though, I need to clarify. I do not use the terms shemale, or tranny, or faggot, unless someone specifically asks for those words, asks to be called those words, states that those words are part of their kink. Calling a tgirl a tranny or shemale is disrespectful and dismissive. Periodt.

Your Ebony Femdom Training

Consider everything discussed in this blog entry, part of your ebony femdom training. And since it is black history month, and my favorite thing to do with white bois is humiliate them, I have a special assignment for you. I’m going to love it, I really don’t give a damn whether or not you do.

Diversity Training Assignments For Black History Month

Go out and buy a pack of white undershirts. Make sure you have enough undershirts for every day of the week, and for every day of this month. Buy a pack of tighty whities too while you’re at it. Get a big black sharpie marker. I want you to write, in all capital letters: PROPERTY OF THE BLACK QUEEN WILLOW across the front of the undershirts, and wear them every day for the rest of the month. Write in all capital letters: WHITE APPROPRIATING COLONIZER IN SLAVE TRAINING across the back of the undershirts. On your tighty whities, on the front of that trash dick in all caps: WILLOW’S DICK on the back, in all caps: WILLOW’S ASS. Every day when you rise from slumber, I want you to stand in front of the mirror, slap yourself hard in the face 10 times, and say: I am a pathetic white dog, after each slap.

White Boi Humiliation Training

You will wear these every day for the rest of the month, as a reminder that you serve a Black Queen and that The Duchess controls you. If the marker fades in the wash, you will write over the lettering to keep it clear in your mind and in your heart, that you are my slave. Think of it as ebony femdom reparations. For the rest of your training, you need to pick up the damn phone and call me. The number is 1-800-601-6975 and the name is Duchess Willow. I also will accept Mistress Willow. You are allowed to send me pictures of you in your white, slave training attire, however for every picture you send, there had better be a virtual bouquet or an amazon gift card before hand. In addition to the disclaimer, if you’re offended by a black woman talking about racism, you can kiss my black ass. Until next time..

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Ebony Ass Worship – Kneel And Worship My Big Black Ass

Posted on January 19, 2020 by The Duchess

Are you getting a little tingly, pet? When you hear me say the words, “kneel and worship my luscious cheeks” you know I am referring to this juicy round black ass. Oral servitude proves you are aware of the importance of pleasing me, and ebony ass worship is where you begin the journey to servicing the black queen.

Ebony Ass Worship

How many ways can you think of, off the top of your head, that you can use your mouth for ebony ass worship? I can think of the very first, which is your tongue, in my crack. Licking up and down the valley of my ass cheeks, inhaling my scent, imprinting my essence into your subconscious. So deeply that even after you’re long gone, you can’t stop thinking about worshiping my ass, where your tongue has been, and whenever you think about me, you can still taste me. Recalling every crease, crevice and sensation.

Ebony Facesitting Worship

I like having multiple orgasms over a long period of time, which is why facesitting body worship is perfect. Think of seven positions in 70 minutes. Seven ways to lick, and kiss, and suck my ass and breathe in my scent until my ass becomes your world. Becoming deeply ingrained in your memory. Ebony facesittting let’s you be well versed in my cheeks, my crack, and my asshole, until ass worship becomes a second language for you. As in you will drop to your knees and beg to spell the alphabet with your face buried in my ass. And the best way to start, is with understanding: You under, and me standing, or sitting.. on your face, while you eat that ass.

Ebony Ass Obsession

Make no mistake, I want you to be obsessed with my ass, and anything that touches it. Like my favorite leggings, pulled all the way up my crack, defining those cheeks and capturing every drop of sweat as they jiggle and bounce during my workout. Or my little black g string, with the tiniest piece of fabric that rubs back and forth against my hole, absorbing my essence as it is stretched and pulled deep in my warm ass crack. So many of my leggings, and panties have gotten a workout just supporting my ass, and the ebony femdom wants to make sure you get worked out, too.

Do You Know Where That Ass Has Been?

Over the course of a day, that ass crack can get very warm, sweaty, and musty. The salty sweat of my body building up between those cheeks. But do you know what else happens to a well rounded ebony ass? Just imagine me, bouncing on a nice, hard, dick. Those cheeks sweating and clapping in unison, on a worthy phallus. As you would imagine, the scent of sex, and a woman’s intermingled musk, would be very intense after orgasms. So think of the taste of my ass, after I’ve been freshly fucked. My taste would be different, wouldn’t it? And you would eat it all up, like a good ebony cuckold, all that hot, sweaty after sex ass.

Ebony Ass Worship

Ebony Femdom Ass Worship

Does that make your dick throb? Knowing I’ve been fucking someone and riding dick with the same pussy and ass that you’ve been made to worship on numerous occasions? Or maybe just maybe, you’re dreaming of licking my asshole, during a nice sweaty session. Getting to watch me in the throes of passion with your tongue buried in that ass, and feeling every thrust, bump, and jiggle. It’s not proper worship without a little ebony humiliation.. or a lot of humiliation. Ebony ass worship is a good reminder to you beta bitches, that you’re pussy free for a reason, and the only pleasure you will get, is from pleasing me.

Worship Ass Royalty

Surely you are all hot and bothered now thinking about licking and sniffing my ass, so why don’t we do something about that? I will give you the opportunity to serve me, and service this juicy round ebony ass. And all you have to do, is call me for ebony ass worship, so we can discuss how many ways, and positions, you can worship my ass. It seems like you’re ready. Now don’t go all shy on me, the keys to the ass worship kingdom are in reach. All you have to do is ask permission, to eat my delicious brown ass. And you need to pick the phone up, and call Duchess Willow, to get ass eating privileges. The number to reach me is 1-800-601-6975, when you’re ready to eat the booty like groceries. I look forward to smothering you with all this ass. Until then.. stay blessed.

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Tickle Fetish Torment

Posted on January 3, 2020 by The Duchess

He walked into the room, not knowing what the night would hold, yet knowing whatever occurred, he needed to talk to H.E.R. Inching his way toward the bar where she sat, his heart raced. He knew she would be here. He’d been following her on social media long enough, to know she loved this bar, and came to prowl. Before he could finish settling himself, and signaling the bartender, she turned and looked at him, and smiled. “I knew you’d come.”

Tickle Fetish Torment Of A Stranger

It was more than sufficient to catch him off guard. “Uh, I’m..” he began. “Your name, I know it. And I know you came here in the hopes of winning my favor by buying me a drink. So I will allow you a moment to impress me, go on.. see if you can order a drink that will do just that.” Pausing for a moment and swallowing hard, he ordered the drink he’d seen mention of on her social media. The bartender nodded and began his work, the final result presented to the ebony femdom. He watched, and waited.

Pleasing The Duchess

She smiled before even taking the first sip. “Oh.. someone’s been keeping an eye on me hmm?” He half smiled, and nodded, wordlessly. Over the next hour they talked about how he came to find her, and had read all her stories and watched all of her content videos. “So then you know about my tickle fetish?” He nodded, licking his lips. “And you have your own tickle fetish, I’m guessing, from how quickly you responded, and how hard you just got.” Before he could respond, The Duchess rubbed the front of his slacks, and teased her fingertips over his throbbing bulge. That was enough to bring him so close to the edge, he would have soiled himself, if she had not pulled away.

Taking A Stranger Home

He could not remember much, between the first drink, and ending up in her home. But he remembered her mentioning a new device that she wanted to try on a willing tickle fetish participant. The stranger agreed to come home with her without much thought. Once inside, the ebony cock teasing Mistress ordered him to strip naked. She took his clothes and placed them in a sack, and locked them away in her armoire. And then, she pulled a lever on the wall, and the armoire, and the wall behind it, flipped around, to reveal a large machine. The machine had 8 mechanical arms, and in each hand was a feather. There were arm and leg and torso straps. The Duchess pulled them open and ordered him to step into the machine.

Tickle Fetish Torment Begins

Once secure, and looking around nervously, he wondered why he had been so at ease with her, yet terrified of what she would do to him. Yet this was his dream, and the reason he had pulled himself together to approach her. Naked and vulnerable, he watched as she turned the machine on, and the mechanical arms came to life. Stretching out, he watched as the hands twirled and the feathers moved closer and closer to his spread eagle body. They stopped within inches of his flesh, and then the one closest to his armpit moved forward, brushing upwards.

Tickle Fetish Screams

He shrieked as the feather tormented his left armpit. Squirming yet unable to move as he was held fast. Then he heard a giggle from across the room, and more voices. There were other women in The Duchess’ dungeon, and they were watching the machine tickle torment, with some amusement. “Alright ladies, let’s see which is worse for our tickle fetish subject.” She pulled out a bag of feathers, and the women stepped forward, each taking one. Even as he watched in horror, eyes wide, realizing what was about to happen, he grew rock hard, knowing these women were about to destroy him. One by one, they used their hands, the feathers, and their laughter, to drive him past the point of madness.

The Next Morning

The tickle subject awoke with a violent jerk. He was naked in his own bed, but didn’t remember ever leaving Willow’s home. He wondered if perhaps he dreamed it all, and then he saw the royal blue business card, with gold letters, that read: Duchess Willow. When he pulled back the covers, he was laying in a pile of feathers. The same ones that were used the night before.

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I hope you enjoyed the story of tickle fetish torment. If you have a tickle fetish fantasy of your own, I would like to speak with you about it. You can call the Ebony Femdom, at 1-800-601-6975. My name is Duchess Willow, and I cannot wait to torment you, personally.

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The Hive – Ebony Femdom Mind Control

Posted on December 9, 2019December 9, 2019 by The Duchess

Once you hear the sound of buzzing, it’s already too late. The Duchess has the power of ebony femdom mind control, and knows how to use it. You can resist if you wish, it’s of no consequence to me, because as you read these words, you’re already slipping under. You hear the faint lull, droning in your ear, slowly growing louder. Soon, it will be followed by the voice of your new Mistress, and your every desire.

H.E.R. Ebony Femdom Mind Control

For ebony femdom mind control to be successful, you need only one thing. That being access to your subconscious, bypassing your middle mind, and implanting my will. There are layers to erotic trance, and one by one they unfold, giving me access to control your every move, and turn you into my puppet. Pulling your invisible strings, and feeding your need to obey me. After all, you don’t really need to think. Thinking is for smart people, who are in control. You have given all control to me, and the more you try to think about anything less than me, things start to get fuzzy.

Easier And Easier To Succumb To Ebony Femdom Mind Control

You’re reading ebony femdom mind control, and I’m already inside your mind. I’ve already taken the reigns of your every thought and impulse. Inhale and breathe me in. Exhale and your mind empties. Inhale and obey, exhale any resistance or negative energy. Once I circumvent your consciousness, all I need to do is implant the idea in your head, and you won’t even notice. You will think, that you came up with the idea yourself. Oblivious to my control over you.

Bypassing Your Consciousness To Gain Control Of Your Mind

There are several ways to do this. Hive mind control works on a subliminal, bicameral level. You know that inner voice you hear inside your head? It’s mine. Yes that’s the one. It’s the reason you keep returning to my blog, awaiting my instructions. It is a deep compulsion to act upon my will. Your desires are the very thing that will make controlling you simple. Being controlled because you want to be, wanting to be because it feels good. Enjoying the feeling because I pulled the strings, and pushed a few buttons, and now you belong to me.

Mind Probing Ebony Femdom

Think of one thing that gives you bliss, and recall the last time you felt that bliss. What did it smell like, taste like, feel like? Where were you and what were you doing? Recall your last euphoria. That is all I need from you, to erase all else from your psyche. Because all I have to do, is convince you that you want it more than anything else. That you value being my mindless slave, more than you value your own pleasure. That being my mindless slave, is what makes your dick hard to begin with. Your pleasure own exists if I say it does.

Washing Machines Aren’t Just For Laundry

Your mind can be rinsed, scrubbed, agitated, cleansed, and reformatted. I can show you the way, to ebony femdom trance. If you’re ready to begin filling your mind palace with black royalty, pick up the phone. Dial this number: 1-800-601-6975. Ask for Duchess Willow. You may now return to your regularly scheduled and mundane life.

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It’s Raining Crackhead Sissies – Unicorn Meteor Shower

Posted on November 26, 2019 by The Duchess

The unicorn meteor shower proved to be an elusive one, but it did bring out one unexpected result: crackhead sissies. I was minding my own business late Friday night during our free phone sex promotion, when I got a call from Alyssa. Shortly afterward, a unicorn prancing bitch fell out of the sky and proved to be just as entertaining as a meteor shower, if not more.

Unicorn Meteor Shower Brings Gifts Of Crackhead Sissies

So this clown gets on the phone and the first words out of this little bitches mouth is “I’m a sissy and I’m wearing tie dye panties and smokin crack!” Well hallelujah on this day of our lord, it’s raining crackhead sissies. Next thing that happens, Alyssa sends me a picture of the sissy bent over wearing tie dye panties and ready to take the dick. Not just one dick though, sissy proved to be a big black dick loving DTF for “fagtivities” and was eager to bust that bussy wide open and take several for the team. You can’t get this type of entertainment on tv.

Crackhead Sissies Love To Eat My Black Ass

The night’s entertainment got even better when the slut dropped to his knees and begged for a fat dick down his thrussy, and then dropped it low to bounce his little fruit booty ass on the penis that was promised. While getting dicked down he very lustily requested to have me sit on his face so he could lick my ass. I don’t know about you, but if someone is down to worship my ebony ass, I am happy to oblige and smother them. The sissy proofed handy with the tongue skills even if he was high as fuck off his crazy crackhead behind.

Crackhead Sissies On Film

You might be wondering what Alyssa was doing during the unicorn freak show. She was recording the sissytivities to use later to embarrass the sissy, on not one but two phones, and then threatened to out him to his nearest and dearest so they could see him in all his tie dye glory servicing his black masters and doing the sissy harlem shake. In the realm of sissy humiliation, I give unicorn sissy two thumbs up. He was entertaining, and made myself and Miss Alyssa laugh at his sissified tie dyed nonsense.

You Don’t Have To Eat Peanut Butter And Crack Sandwiches

I know this blog post is all the way live, but you don’t have to be a crackhead to wear tie dye panties or suck dick while me and my sister mistresses laugh at you. If me making jokes about crackhead sissies offends you, you can do what he did, and kiss my black ass. You can also call the ebony femdom to be humiliated while wearing the latest in pussy boi dtf fashions. The number is 1-800-601-6975 and you ask for me, Duchess Willow, when you call in. And be nice to dispatch or I will kick your teeth in. Until then…

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Ebony Submissive – Misogynoire And Playing Safely

Posted on November 19, 2019 by The Duchess

My ebony submissive side and my femininity are interconnected. I like to nurture my feminine energy, because being in masculine mode – being a femdom – can drain and rob women of precious and sacred energy. There are times when I love hearing the words “get on your knees, princess,” from the right dominant. Therein lies the problem. Women who switch, have to be very careful who they switch with. There are men who really have no love for women whatsoever and will do us harm if given the opportunity. There are men who hate black women especially. Sure, they emulate us, fetishize us, and appropriate everything from our hair to how we talk, and simultaneously hate us. Misogynoire is very real, and if we’re not careful, being an ebony submissive can put us in danger. I am speaking from my perspective, because I am a black woman, and I do like switching when I am able to do so, but this applies to women as a whole: be careful who you submit to.

Ebony Submissive And Misogynoire

When I am tired and burned out from cracking the proverbial whip, I like to lay down my mantle and hand someone else the reigns. There is a liberation that goes along with not being in control, and with the right dominant, the experience puts me in an orgasmic, and very relaxed subspace. I have found that switches make great partners for that reason, but not all. If you are thinking about switching, I would ask you to make sure you have an important conversation with your potential dominant, about boundaries, safety, and seriously get in their head to find out if they are healthy enough mentally to take that role.

Wannabes And Fake Doms

There are men that target submissives specifically to harm them mentally, emotionally and sometimes physically if it gets that far. There are men that will project their insecurities onto women and seek to harm them. I will say that if a man flat out tells you he’s a misogynist, you need to run. If he even hints at dislike or disrespect for women, run. And if a man shows signs of misogynoire, do not pass go, get the hell out of there. If a man gaslights, talks over you, or doesn’t listen to you, that is not the type of man you want to submit to. And never trust any so called dom that sweet talks you in the beginning, and then starts to show signs that he is toxic. They are the worst of the worst, and they will break you down and stress you out and convince you that this is what you wanted. That’s not domination, that’s abuse. Unfortunately it is abuse I’ve experienced and was lucky enough to get the hell out of.

Sexual Exploitation Of An Ebony Submissive

These unhealthy men, are usually only looking for an ego boost, and some “thing” to nut in. And men do not have to like you, to fuck you. I would also like to include male subs in taking caution, because there are so called doms who prey on both sexes and for different reasons. Sexual desire, is not equivalent to sincere interest. A man can want you sexually, and not give a fuck about you other than that you are able to fulfill his surface needs, and as time passes, these men can become violent. They will also have no issue neglecting your emotional needs.

Ebony Femdom Style

If you take a look at my posts, I cater to what I call reverse raceplay. This might be light to extreme depending on the sub. It can be sensual and catering to satisfying my needs. One thing I will never do, is put another human being in harms way. I am here to educate you, train you, and give you the experience you desire, but I will not do anything that causes a person to harm themselves. I do.. believe in tough love, and I do NOT.. tolerate anyone’s bs. But where your fantasy is concerned, I will make you my bitch, and if it is your wish to be humiliated, that wish will be granted.

I want to be clear that I offer a service that is popular with white males, and cuckolds, that does not mean that I hate all men, or all white men. Some of my best friends are white.. isn’t that what some of yall white folks say when you don’t want to appear racist? In truth, I will converse with, and engage with anyone, regardless of what color you are. But if you want reverse raceplay, that’s what we’re going to do. And just in case you were unaware, reverse racism is not a thing, and does not exist. It only exists in fantasy.

Ebony Submissive Style

There is a myth, that black women are not submissive; incapable of being such. The reasons you don’t see many black women subs, isn’t because they don’t exist. It’s because of the environment in which black women have been placed, and the responsibilities placed on us, which leave many black women no time to nurture their feminine. Those of us who are rediscovering our feminine and submissive nature, have to be weary of men who benefit from us being in the opposite role, and who have no interest in taking care of us. If a man doesn’t want you to work, demands that you spend all of your time with him doing what he wants, but has not offered to provide for you emotionally or financially, I’m sorry ladies, that man means you harm.

Men are naturally providers, even submissive men will go out of their way to make sure their Domme is comfortable and pampered. A dominant man has the added responsibility of ensuring the submissives safety as well as being a provider. Toxic men will not care to make sure you are safe or comfortable, and will often put a sub in damaging situations where they are left cleaning up the mess. Black women do not often put themselves in submissive roles because many times we cannot afford to. Nor can we afford to be careless if we decide this is something we want to do.

As a submissive I prefer sensual domination and light bdsm. There are roads I would love to journey down, but have not, because trust is a priority. Mental health is a priority, and I cannot be submissive if I feel that myself or someone else is in danger, because when I’m not submissive I am a caregiver who is relied upon.

I don’t do raceplay when I’m submissive under any circumstances. That means I will not consent to anyone degrading me or calling me the n word. Not even if you paid me double, would I let a white person call me that. I also will not allow any non-black person to use that word in my presence. You don’t need to say it, or use it in any form, and if you see black people using the n word, your responsibility is to mind your business.

Misogynistic Men And Abuse

If any man is verbally abusive to you, and you haven’t discussed that being a part of your kink (some women do enjoy verbal humiliation), you need to get the fuck away from them. Because that verbal abuse can turn into emotional, and physical abuse. Submissives are the ones who have the real control, because submissives have to consent to what is agreed on. If a dominant male implies you have no rights, or tries to control you past what is realistic in order to function, you are dealing with a predator.

Vetting Dominant Men

I require a very lengthy vetting process for a dominant. In otherwords, I am not kneeling for some clown ass that I just met 2 minutes ago. Anyone who does not agree to get to know me and discuss my needs first is out. I don’t mind being open about my “ebony submissive” experiences. I met someone who – after a month of barely speaking, asked me to be their sub – I was blindsided and fell for the “sweet talk.” That relationship lasted two weeks. After the person increasingly became more demanding and verbally abusive when I would not comply, and kept complaining about my work getting in the way of him using me, yet made no attempt to provide for me. It wore on my mental health and I started having panic attacks. The final insult was having to cut off all communication with them. And even then they still tried to contact me.

Their initial reason for seeking me out, was because they were sexually attracted to me, and interested in objectifying me, regardless of my wellbeing. I am very cautious of men, because of this. Because of the men that only see black women as fuckable sex objects. I hope this sheds some light on why racism, misogyny, and being disrespected by any non-black person, is an important subject for me to educate people on. And why I am sensitive to that. There are some really fucked up men outchea, that wish to harm black women.

Submissive Roleplay

If you want to roleplay with me as the ebony submissive, I first need to know where you are going with it, before I agree to it. I like when people ask me questions instead of assuming they know what they’re doing. The best way to find out if we can play, is by calling me. 1-800-601-6975 is the number to call. Duchess Willow is who you ask for. Stay blessed.

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Diversity Training And Black Femdom Reparations For White Subs

Posted on November 12, 2019 by The Duchess

In my last post, I addressed something that occurred, and I want to clarify. Someone once gave me some powerful advice, and that was, to acknowledge even the little things, because if you have enough little things build up, they turn into bigger issues. I do not regret anything I said in that post, especially since it had happened before, and the last few times it happened I just ignored it.

And why should I? I refuse to apologize for standing my ground, on something that might seem small, but is not. I’m not interested in being cordial with people who think it’s okay to repeatedly be abrasive and disrespectful. I learned after entering the sex work arena, how a lot of white male dogs view black women, and if they aren’t going to apologize neither am I. A lot of what I have experienced, is the reason I believe there needs to be training for white bois, and that they need to be put in their place.

You can talk to me about whatever you want to talk about, as long as you are respectful. The minute you cross that line, you deserve whatever response you get from me. Let’s move onto the topic of this post, shall we? White boi training, and your much needed schooling. Below you will find out all you need to know, about what to expect during your forte into black femdom cock control.

I said what I said

Black Femdom Truths

I won’t tone down my language to make non-blacks feel comfortable. Your comfort is not my concern, and if you cannot stand in your truth without getting offended, then go talk to your therapist about it. White fragility is rooted in a privilege that black women do not have in this country. Yall get real uncomfortable when you’re privilege is brought up, yet its foundation is built on the backs of black men and women. That’s okay, because I have a solution for white male fragility. Diversity training and black femdom reparations. If you’re a white male, you automatically qualify for induction. And whatever you learn in my presence, you can teach your precious lily white ignorant women. Because I don’t care about their fragility either, nor will I tolerate white tears.

Diversity Training For The Ignorant

Black women are just as worthy of being respected, pampered, spoiled, catered to, and living a life of abundance. I have dated submissive white men before and they treated me like a Queen, because I am one. Knowing my worth is the reason I have zero tolerance for white males acting out to get attention. I address what needs to be addressed, and you will NEVER turn me against another woman. Sisterhood is something that is much more important to me, than your weak ass ego. So let me tell you what your training is going to entail.

Reparations Assignment For White Subs

You will be required to kneel at the feet of a black woman, and do as you’re told, which will include my version of reparations specifically for black women. You will be commanded to do many tasks including assignments in public humility. You will be given homework assignments that include reading and research. You will be required to write a 1000+ essay with proper grammar and spelling, on racism, intersectional feminism, and male white privilege. You will also be required to listen when black women are talking, and be silent.

Your First Assignment

The first diversity training assignment is easy… for me. If you don’t have twitter, get an account. Once you have an account follow @DuchessWillow_ After following me, you will tweet the following:

“I (insert name here:__________) an ignorant white male, would like to publicly apologize to all black Queens. I acknowledge my white privilege and will use it to educate my fellow ignorant white men, so that we may properly serve and respect black women.”

Oh you thought I was joking? No darling, I revel in your humility, and I enjoy it when bitch bois profess their undying love, devotion and servitude to black femdom rule.

As I said in my last post, I refuse to make myself small, to make anyone else comfortable. You will respect me, or you will be thrown in the dumpster. And you will pay for past and current transgressions.

Notice I didn’t say “all women” or “all women of color” or “all black people” now did I? I said Black Women, and I meant what I said. I have zero remorse for anyone who missteps outta their lane, just like I have zero remorse for my feelings. I am happy you’ve taken the first step to being on your knees and at the heel of a black woman which is where you belong.

Your diversity training begins when you pay for my time and not a second before. You do this by calling 1-800-601-6975 and requesting the femdom services of Duchess Willow. Until then, stay blessed. And don’t forget, every friday in november is free phone sex friday. Free 10 minute calls for existing customers as a thank you from LDW/Enchantrix Empire.

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Disgusting Behavior On Twitter

Posted on November 11, 2019 by The Duchess

Disclaimer: I had to think about whether or not I wanted to talk about this.

I want to be true to myself and acknowledge my truth and my boundaries. If I don’t speak up, I am allowing others to treat me any way they feel like. And I have to speak up, because I’m speaking up for every black woman who feels like they can’t, and who has ever been made to feel like their feelings aren’t valid. Right? Okay, let’s unpack… (It wouldn’t be mercury retrograde if I didn’t have to go off on at least one person)

I’m about to make some people real uncomfortable, by being an unapologetically black woman speaking her mind. Something happened tonight that really bothered me. And if you get to me congrats, mission accomplished. This also means you will never get another opportunity to do so. I was disrespected by someone who – in their quest to gain the attention of a fellow Mistress – decided they were going to blatantly disrespect and insult me to do so.

The turning point was that after disrespecting me and being told to apologize, they suddenly had nothing to say. That told me everything I needed to know about character. It also made it very easy for me to write this blog post.

It was really disgusting to watch someone go as far as they did for attention, and a complete turn off. I can’t even say I feel sad for this person because I don’t, I’m disgusted. And while it would behoove me to just ignore it and move along, far too often black women are told to be quiet, and not speak up when we are disrespected. That needs to stop starting right now. You cannot speak to me disrespectfully after I included you in a conversation, and expect me to turn the other cheek unless you’ve lost your damn mind.

I don’t even want an apology, because I really want nothing else to do with the gross individual. That’s right I said gross because that’s what it is. When you address me you address me with the same respect you would give any other Mistress. And this isn’t the first time it’s happened, and it ain’t the first person it’s happened with. I know that I was “councilled” to just let it go and not to give it energy, but with a lot of black women this is what we are taught. Under the umbrella of low key racism we are taught that our feelings and thoughts do not matter, and that we just need to suck it up because if we say anything we might make other people feel uncomfortable.

No one else is taught to do this. When non-black women start crying everyone suddenly races to their aid. When a black woman cries or has spoken out about ill treatment, we’re told to shut up, and stop being dramatic, or that we are overreacting and being too emotional. We are taught that everything and everyone outside of us is the prize, but no one ever tells us that we are the prize. We are told and taught differently and when we do anything outside of what’s expected we are told we are causing drama.

So… I guess this is me starting drama then. Because I refuse to be anyone’s fucking step stool to another dominant. This is me putting anyone who reads this on official notice: You treat me – A BLACK WOMAN – with respect, or you will be thrown out with the trash like the smelly repulsive parasite that you are. I’m keeping it 100% and saying that type of behavior turns my stomach, and that there is nothing special about people who behave this way, you are common and you are tired. And if no one else will check you, I will.

Unless you are a black woman, you have no clue how emotionally/mentally/spiritually exhausting it is dealing with ignorant attention whoring clowns like the one I had the misfortune of dealing with today. What’s worse, is that your behavior ruins it for other submissives and customers who not only know how to conduct themselves in the presence of Mistresses, but would never dare disrespect a dominant and make an ass of themselves all because they were a horny wanna be special snowflake who wanted attention.

Submissives who top from the bottom, don’t know their fucking place, and attempt to gain favor by trying to turn women against each other, are a poor excuse for a sub and a waste of oxygen. They treat themselves like they’re a prize to be won when the reality is WE are the ones doing you a favor by even so much as speaking to your lame ass. Not sorry.

This is a vent, because I have gone out of my way to be polite and inclusive to people who have continuously been disgusting and who don’t know when to fall the fuck back. Frankly I’m done being nice. This is me, a black woman, showing my anger, and displeasure at poor and disrespectful behavior. I really don’t care if you’re offended, because you’ve shown time and time again you don’t give a damn about “us.” And I’m tired of having to keep quiet while I watch black women be repeatedly disrespected by bitches who can crawl right back into the sewer they came from.

I will not tolerate being disrespected. You will not use me to put in the good word for any of my sister Mistresses, to gain favor, or to gain attention. And if you disagree with my sentiment, you can climb into the trash bag and see yourself out. I’m not sorry I had to say this, if you want attention so bad you’re willing to show your whole ass, it’s your funeral. Kick rocks.

Peace,

Duchess Willow

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