Back in February, I had the pleasure of guiding a lovely black couple, through a pegging session. Now let it be said, before anyone asks, yes we do couples phone sex. However few and far between they are. This particular couple – I should say, the wife – found me after listening to one of the podcasts I was on. While they had explored strapon play before, they wanted to enhance their experience with a Black Femdom and a sensual Domination session.
Couples Phone Sex With The Ebony Femdom
Whether or not you are aware, there are a lot of black people within the kink community who enjoy playing with others. While I have done couples phone sessions before, I have never done a session with a black couple, and I was very excited and happy to have the opportunity. Couples phone sex is similar to any one on one phone sex session, in the sense that you are discussing a scene or roleplaying, or having a guided sexual experience. Having a distance domination session via phone can be exciting for a couple who – maybe considered doing a session with a live Dominatrix. And it’s a good way to get your kinky feet wet.
Guided Pegging And Sensual Domination
So what if you’re new to exploring kink with your partner, and both of you are interested in strapon play? Guided pegging with someone who understands your needs is key. We can discuss toys, and what you will need, and where to start when you are inexperienced and want to have an enjoyable adventure. One person exploring anal play is fun, but what if you and your partner want to try out D/s.. that’s where I come in. The first thing you need to discuss, is communication, and safety.
Couples Phone Sex Safety While Pegging
Some things I may tell a couple, might sound redundant, but they are worth repeating. Like start small if you’ve never had a dildo up your behind. Make sure you don’t have a latex allergy, because you and your partner don’t want to harm each other, and end up with a bad reaction to your new strapon. Hygeine, hygeine, hygeine. If your partner is interested in you dominating him or her, you want your “area” to be clean. Excellent opportunity to set the mood by taking a shower together and washing each other’s bodies. You may not make it out of the shower… But if you do….
Lube Up Your Partner
Once you have hygeine, size, and any allergy concerns addressed, you will also need lube. Same as with latex, pick a lube that is in alignment with your body. If you’re going to be pegging your husband for the first time, there’s no such thing as too much lube. If you’re embarking on your own pegging journey, these are just the basics for what you need. If you’re looking to add a third party via phone, you can call me and I will instruct your pegging excursion.
Submissive Couples Are Welcome
If both of you are submissive, and want to be instructed on what to do to each other, and how to utilize your strapon goodies, you’re welcome to call me for a couples phone sex session. While I do not offer cam, we do allow our callers to give us a cam show if they want to and are comfortable doing so, via skype or discord. To connect with me for couples phone sex, just dial 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow. If you’re interested in custom instructional audios for couples, I encourage you to order a custom audio, from me. You can email me at willow@enchantrixempire.com for more information. Stay safe and stay blessed.
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What a fantastic blog! You are right couples PS sessions are far and few between, what a lucky couple to have you guide their first PEG! Your advice is SPOT ON, no wonder you are so popular!
See you around the Empire, sexy! 💋
Thank you Erika, I hope that more couples will call us for guided fun. 🥰
Pegging is something I have always gravited to, even before it became a thing. Im a sub black male that havent been to fortuuate in terms of penis size(i measure 4 1/2 inches). I think partly as a result of my small penis, sex seems to go towards a dominate woman pegging me, total role reversal.
I’ve heard this before from other black men that are sub and on the smaller side. Though I have talked to men who are well endowed and enjoy pegging. Thanks for the comment.