Consensual Ebony Femdom – Take A Walk On The Dark Side

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If you are well versed in the BDSM community, and kink in general, you know there are consensual ebony femdom fetishes. Everyone has fantasies that they cannot discuss in the open, or might be afraid to. Now there are things that you can talk about during a phone sex roleplay, that cannot be ahm… printed if you know what I mean.  But we can allude to the naughty bits, because I know what you want, even if you’re afraid to admit it. You want that deliciously deviant – no… means yes, while still consenting to safe play.

Consensual Ebony Femdom – Consent Is Sexy

Consent, consent, consent. Consent is an essential part of every day life. You hear that word being spread across the universe until it’s coming out of your ears. When is consent necessary? It is necessary at all times, every time. It is necessary to ask for consent before talking about any topic, or imposing your wants and desires on others. Why? Because while you may think proceeding without asking is okay, you might be triggering someone, you may even be causing them mental and emotional harm, without realization or meaning. So consent, is always necessary. And especially so, in the adult world of sex, kink, and roleplay.

Please Remember To Always… Ask First

Before you unload your raceplay kink on a black woman, make sure she’s okay with discussing that sort of thing. I…. am not. At least not in the area of being demeaned or degraded. I don’t fuck with that at all. I have stated before, that if you want all that “submissive black girl with white master” foolishness, you will have to cough up a years salary, all of my living expenses, and pay for my therapy. And if you’re unwilling to pay the price, shut your fucking mouth. And I’m serious about the therapy. I…. am not… a goddamn…. therapist. I HAVE a therapist (whoo lawd did I need one), I don’t have a bachelors in psychology, nor do I get paid a license professional therapists wages for putting up with racist fantasies and bitchassness. Are we clear? Wonderful, I’m so glad, because now I want to talk about what YOU desire. Yes you, reading this right now, who likes a firm hand to grab them and fold them over a table, and take that ass…. without asking.

Consensual Ebony Femdom.. Non Consensual And Coerced?  When No Means Yes

I know, I know, because of the way of the world, it’s getting a little tricky to tap dance around that need that some submissives have, to be used, and toyed with, and mindfucked, without asking. Because in order for the D/s to take place, a conversation needs to happen. One where you tell your Domme, “hey, I really like being handled roughly and coerced to do things I don’t want to do, and I get off on dubcon and head games.” Pretty deep conversation if you ask me, and one… that MUST be had, if you want that kind of play.  If you’re unfamiliar with dubcon, it simply means dubious consent. Where consent is given under some – how can I put this – unsavory circumstances. It’s a very naughty, very popular kink, but because of that no no word that we’re not going to discuss, and the logistics of even embarking on such a fantasy, many people shy away from it, even if they do like it. Partially because of missing stairs in the community, who have less than the best interest of playmates. You must be extremely careful, and screen your partners, so that you do not end up dangling in a basement, or worse, in a brightly lit ER room answering a lot of questions.

Roleplaying Your Naughty Bits – With Consent

So lets say you’re The Duchess, who likes kinky hentai and getting your shirt ripped off and a couple of hands playing with your… now now, let’s not get off subject. My switch side is probably the only thing raunchier than my Dominant side, and I do not play with just anyone… because people are crazy, and fake ass male Doms (who are crazy) are notorious for being abusive pricks.  So, lets say you’re not The Duchess, you’re a complete submissive, and in the past you’ve had trouble finding what you want, because you were too timid to use your words. Try roleplay, and now is the time to use those words, boo.  So you have this wicked delightful fantasy, of being taken unaware by a powerful black woman. You don’t remember much, but you wake up in a strange room, and as the scene progresses, the more you say “oh.. no.. noo.. please stop…” the harder you get, the wetter you get, you’re panting and breathing heavy. I do hope, you get my meaning.  So pop quiz: What do you need to do before imposing your will on the Dominatrix or Dom that makes you all goo goo eyed and silly? You have to talk to them, and ask for what? Yes that’s right, consent.

Dominants Do Not Come In A Box

Speaking specifically for black Mistresses in community, we’re not fetish dispensers or barbie dolls. And most Pro-Dommes I know, don’t take charity cases. So the very first thing you’re going to need to do, is come out them pockets. If you can’t afford to do so, you’re going to more than likely be stuck entertaining yourself and diddling your hand, however you can perform acts of service to dominants, for free. I’ve had submissives come to me seeking a Domme in a box – for free, and well… I need not tell you how that went, boundaries are a thing, people.  In my free time I like to relax and be pampered and spoiled. Being in charge of subs is ANYTHING but relaxing. Fun, yes. Exciting, yes. Domme-y subspace, yes. Relaxing when you’re in charge of another human being and making sure they are safe? No.  Please remember that consent goes both ways, and that you as a sub can also say NO. Because a Dominant ain’t dominating a gyad damn thing unless they are allowed to do so. And in the other direction, you cannot demand someone dominate you and be a fucking puppet on strings while you top from the bottom. You can gtfoh.

 

This Consensual Ebony Femdom Tangent Does Have A Point

The Ebony Femdom loves taking control, and all of the naughty ways I can do that. I say all of this, to let you know, that I enjoy throwing a spiny sub up against the wall, pushing them down on their knees and ordering them to tongue fuck my ebony pussy. Among other things, like mind control and the like. So if you have a fantasy of being coerced into a basement and used as an unsuspecting fucktoy, there are ways to do just that, and roleplay is a good way to find out what you like, and indulge your “no means yes” fantasy.  How do you do all of this? You start with a phone call, or a text session, and… as a bonus, if you like the visual aides of 3D play, virtual sessions.

Consensual Ebony Femdom Phone Sex With The Duchess

So here’s the 411, hon. Sexy texting is our site of the month, and you can text with us, when you can’t call us. Yes we know, we’ve heard the “I really want to call, I just don’t have the privacy” before. Or the “I can’t talk because my wife/girlfriend/roomate/great stepgrandroach might hear me. Now I’m not going to speak for the other ladies, because this is my blog so I’m gonna promote my damn self. You have several texting options with me, one is RIGHT HERE on the site,  via my chat box. The other is skype. And yet another is discord. And I also have an email and phone texting package, yes.. from an actually phone. And… you have the option of virtual world sessions with text, if you have a computer with gaming capabilities. Whew… that’s a lot, right? So here’s what you do, you go to sexy texting, you place your order. You make sure I’m available by emailing me at willow@enchantrixempire.com because if you message me on skype, I probably won’t see it until several minutes or hours later.  If you’re quick, I might even have my chat box open and see your request. Email is the way to go, though.  And if you are able to phone sex it up, you can call me via cock control, at 1-800-601-6975 and ask dispatch for Duchess Willow. Have I overloaded your horny brain with information? You have the option of listening to this blog, as an erotic podcast, if it’s easier for you.  And the rest, we can discuss, in session. Be safe, and be blessed.

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