Praise Kink – Let’s Talk About It

Let’s talk about praise kink. Do you have one? Call Duchess Willow 1-800-601-6975

Maybe you’re a member of the kink community, and you’ve heard of different fetishes, and this one crossed your path. Praise kink. If you have wandered into the praise kink territory, then you know there are a lot of cis-women that love being told they’re a good girl. By the right person. Did you also know that, some men have a praise kink? I would go out on a limb and say, that many of them, don’t even know they have a praise kink.

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That is until you’re grinding on top of him, he flips you over and starts giving you those good, deep thrusts you love… and suddenly you whisper, just loud enough for him to hear you, “good boy.” And he proceeds to lose his damn mind. Yep, congratulations, you have a praise kink. You like being told how well you’ve done; that you’re doing a good job. And especially so if the object of your servitude, is an Ebony Femdom, who is pleased with your performance.

What Is A Praise Kink

As I just demonstrated, the praise kink can be those simple two words that send you skyrocketing into the stratosphere of arousal. It’s from somewhere deep in your pleasure center, where you want to please people, and make them happy, and you succeeded in doing that, and they very vocally told you how well you’ve done. There are people who love praise and acknowledgment outside of the bedroom. If you’re at work, or in school, and the teacher or your boss tells you you’ve done a good job. Everyone is patting you on the back, it makes you stick your chest out a little more, puts a little strut in your stuff. At our core, we’re all just a little narcissistic. That tiny drop of pleasure hearing people speak positively about us, knowing we’ve done something right. Yes, it feels damn good, doesn’t it?

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Praise And People Pleasing

We don’t need to go into the origins and the deep psychology of having a praise kink, because you know where it comes from. Chances are you matured having that feeling of wanting to make a woman or a man happy, and somewhere down the line – if you have a praise kink – that developed into a sexual thing, for you. Feedback is important, after all, and in the D/s dynamic, it’s important to give your feedback, just as it is my job to tell you and guide you the right way to go. Submissives, are not doormats, and Dominants, are not bullies. Please know the difference. But back to the praise kink… man…. the look on a man’s face, when you unlock a hidden feature in the game playing. The way his eyes light up, his dick lights up, and then over the edge he goes. It’s always fun peeling back the layers, and finding out what makes you tick.

 

Women And Praise

I think that is a no brainer. Women want to know we’ve done well, and many women submissives will probably tell you they also have a praise kink. But does a Femdom have a praise kink? Hmm.. I’m going to go ahead and say yes, yes we do. We like knowing that the direction we lead you in, brings its desired effect. In Femdom you have to have a certain level of self esteem and confidence, otherwise this is not the job for you. So yes, we know we’re good at what we do… we just like hearing you say it. Or…. scream it. Crying is a good effect too, especially if you’re an Ebony Femdom, and you masturbate to men’s tears. You’re welcome.

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Sissies And Praise

Oh this, this is a no brainer. Sissies love attention, and praise, and being good sissy gurls, and showered with sensuality… or dick, or both. A sissy Mistress like me, knows how to turn a sissy into a little puddle of joy, just by saying the right combination of words. Purring in your ear what a naughty sissy slut you are, while my ebony strapon drills your backside. I could say more, however if I did, you would be a puddle reading this, and I charge 2.75 a minute for that privilege.

Exploring Your Praise Kink With The Ebony Femdom

We can of course go more into depth about your praise kink, paired with whatever else tickles your fancy. First, you have to pick the phone up and call me. You call 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow. I offer phone sex, texting, email and text packages, dick ratings, custom audios, and filthy phone sex audios. If you would prefer a sexy texting session, we can do that via skype, discord, or my blog chatroom. Email me at willow@enchantrixempire.com for custom audio (or virtual video) information. Stay safe, and stay blessed… and be a good boy, or girl. (wink)

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2 thoughts on “Praise Kink – Let’s Talk About It

  1. Mistress Erika says:

    Duchess,

    What an interesting post! Praise Kink! I’m going to have to think long and hard on this subject. I know what you speak of, very well. “Good boy” and their arousal and mindset zooms off the charts! I’ve always considered it a TRIGGER vs a kink. But it is so much fun thinking of it as a KINK vs Trigger!

    Most humans want to be accepted, liked, and wanted for being who they are, and praise affirms and fills our needs. Makes sense!

    Great job Duchess! YOU have given me lots to think about!

    • The Duchess says:

      It can be both a kink and a trigger. The two are not mutually exclusive though, however there are some who view it as part of their kink. 😈 And you are most welcome Miss Erika.

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