Short disclaimer: Ebony Femdom tangent ahead. Feel free to do the following: Roll your eyes, hit the x at the top right of the screen, sigh loudly, say “oh no, here this bitch goes again” or whatever it is you people do before reading my blogs… This is the only warning you’re going to get, before crossing over into “don’t give a fuck” territory. Now.. carry on.
Is Phone Sex Dead?
The short answer to: Is phone sex dead? Is no. Phone sex is very much thriving, though it has passed through many evolutions. And in a world where you now have e-girls, cam girls, content creators, only fans and clip sites, people still call for good old fashioned phone sex. Now before we go into why phone sex is still popular, first we need to take a little peek into the history of phone sex.
Is Phone Sex Dead? The History Of Phone Sex
How many of you – by a show of hands (that means you have to take your hand off your dick to answer this) – are old enough to remember 976 numbers? I guess that’s showing my age a little bit, and while I am old enough to remember 976 numbers and bill to phone services.. and 900 numbers, I was unaware of how the phone sex industry got started. So I went and did my own research and found a Gloria Leonard, and the year was 1977. So that is the first known existence of phone sex – at least, that I could find. If anyone has different information, feel free to chime in, in the comments.
Why Is Phone Sex So Popular?
My personal view of the popularity of phone sex, is the reason I got into the industry at all. Convenience, discretion, confidentiality, and anonymity. Phone sex is sex work, PERIODT. For anyone who might be confused. While it is sex work, it is probably one of the safer options for sex workers, because you get to control how much personal information you’re willing to share. While I can’t speak for other services, I can say for LDW that we do take precautions to ensure your safety and our safety. Then the fact that in fantasy you have more freedom and less logistical information to worry about. So if you want to wear pink draws, chant a cock mantra, and suck my big black ebony dick, when I magically grow a dick, you can do that. I can do that. WE can do that. Feel me?
Phone Sex Flexibility
What I’m trying to say is there are some voids that can be better filled by our imaginations. And that is the sole reason phone sex is so popular to this day. Because you, yes you, can roleplay your fantasy of the new black Madame VP, bending you over, while still wearing her navy blue pantsuit, and destroying your guts while you apologize to black people for your white ancestors transgressions. Oh… damn… I think that was my fantasy.. hmm.. not sorry. BTW… I know which states have the most searches for ebony porn. I see you.
Mutual Respect And Energy
Do I care about you having a good time with me? Hell yes. Do I value myself and my boundaries and beliefs? Hell yes. Will I reach through the phone and kick you in your throat for being disrespectful? Hell yes. While this is a fantasy phone sex service – that being female domination and Matriarchy, I expect you to behave like a true submissive, if you are expecting a submissive experience. Do your research and be transparent as to what you’re looking for. I need to know your boundaries and interests, just as you need to know mine.
Why I Love Ebony Femdom Phone Sex
Because I get to educate you silly ass white bois and make you do black history homework, and apologize for your ignorance and lack of emotional evolution. And I get to remind you that reverse racism is not a thing outside of fantasy, and the reason you fear black people so much, is because you’re afraid we’ll do to you, what you’ve done to us. And with that aside… I like the control and the power exchange. I just love putting men in their place, and marking you. And giving you a heaping helping of your own goddamn medicine. Men need guidance anyway, and women have repeatedly proven that we’re better than you will ever be. Phone sex is not just about sex, especially in relation to Femdom and BDSM. It’s a platform to learn about yourself, in a safe space… while getting told off, when applicable.
My Thoughts On Current Events That Everyone Else In Phone Sex Tiptoes Around
I have always been outspoken on my platform, in regard to racism and misogynoire and the answer to that, is fuck you, and fuck your feelings, bitch. If you really want to know what I think, you can pay me for them. If you read past blogs, you already know I went through some foolishness, and that I’ve been candid about it. Lest you forget, I just want you to remember who the fuck you’re talking to, so that the bitch in you doesn’t write a check that your ass can’t cash. And so long as you remember that, we can have a kinky good time.
I Understand This Is A Fantasy Phone Sex Service
You come to us to escape. Guess what beloved? So do I. It’s the reason I school people on their approach to cuckolding when their fantasy involves black men, and black men’s endowments. Black men are not floating penises dispensed to cater to your egotistical fantasies. Neither are black women, yet this is a conversation that is needed because white men lack guidance past which hand they stroke with. Why do you think I call it white boi training?
Switching Phone Sex With Black Women
Listen, yall can’t handle me as a submissive. Nor would I let the majority of you do so, because so many of you lack the skills required to cater to and pamper an Ebony Princess, who also has a bratty side. So until someone shows me that level of skill, you can remain on your knees and suck my man’s dick if I allow you to. Or you can bounce on my strapon, if you prefer. If you have a “The White Man’s Whore” fantasy, you have to pay all of my bills, for the next three months… IN ADVANCE. In addition to an initial healthy tribute to pay for my mental health and emotional labor.
Aww Dayum.. I’ve Gone Off On Another Tangent
Oops. The mind doth wander. Please refrain from ever expecting a journalistic approach to phone sex history, from me. Phone sex and the adult industry as a whole, has been dominated by whiteness. People tend to forget, and ignore, what doesn’t directly affect them. So here’s me, just giving you a black woman’s perspective. Do all black women share my views? Nah. We’re not a monolith, and are capable of making our own decisions and conclusions. What I’m sharing is based on my education and experience, which goes beyond academics and credentials. I don’t need a piece of paper, to tell you what it’s like being me. So now that the tangent is over. You still here? Still decided after reading this whole thing you want to have a phone sex experience with the Duchess? You’re either crazy or stupid. Either way, here’s how you can reach me.
Phone Sex Anniversary
LDW is celebrating it’s 18th year as a Femdom BDSM D/s provider. If you would like to join us in celebrating this month, go to Enchantrix Perks event page. While you are there, sign up for Enchantrix perks rewards program. My LDW phone sex anniversary is in December, I will post next month some specials just for you.
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Can you talk to me about “anything,” including… “those” fantasies involving BBC and cuckolding? Yes, just keep it respectful, please. If you can get through my bluntness and matter of factly tone, the number to reach me, is 1-800-601-6975 and my name, is Duchess Willow. If by chance anything I’ve said has enraged you or given you an intense erection, come on… use me… I can take it. I look forward to playing with you, slut. Stay safe, stay the fuck home, and be well. (blows you all a kiss)
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First, the history lesson is well researched and on point. Then, the rationale for why phone sex is still popular after all these years! And finally, the reminder that fantasy and reality can co-mingle, and you can have your BBC as long as it’s attached to a strong Black man, (and that no, you can’t in fact handle Duchess Willow as a submissive to you, because you are not All That.)
A+ excellence.
Thank you Miss Harper, I thought that the phone sex anniversary month would be a good time to discuss the history of phone sex, and, to remind people that I won’t run them off for liking BBC fantasies, just as long as they are respectful and remember there are people attached to the tumescence. Every so called dom so far that has attempted, has failed. 😈😎
Not only do I remember 976 numbers, they were how I FOUND OUT that phone sex existed. And also how I found out that calling santa claus got billed to my grams phone. 😂
I remember the 976 santa number too. I got in trouble for the 900 numbers 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣