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Foot Forniphilia With The Ebony Femdom

Posted on July 1, 2023 by The Duchess

Ebony Femdom Foot Forniphilia goes beyond worshiping The Duchess 1-800-601-6975

Forniphilia is in my top ten of kinks, right up there with turning men into my little bitchasses, and making a toy bounce on my strapon. Let’s keep the focus on feet though. So if forniphilia is the objectification of a human being, then obviously foot forniphilia is the specific involvement of feet. Buckle up because things are about to get very strange…. for the sake of a phone sex foot fetish.

Foot Forniphilia With The Ebony Femdom

If I find out you have a foot fetish, your days on this earth as a normal man, are numbered. I tend to prey on the corruptible submissive man, because I envision a certain type of man, getting corrupted in such a way that he can no longer complete even the simplest of tasks without thinking about my feet. The scent of them, the taste of them, the feel of them. I’m gonna own you with my feet, and you’re going to love it.

Feetishism And Fetishism – Foot Forniphilia As Art

If you asked Freud, he’d tell you foot fetishes have to do with the lack of a phallic genitalia, which I think is way off. And then there is Mattoso’s feetishism, worshiping the feet of the hardworking people. Well I am hard working, yes, and deserving of a man who submits to my every whim and worships my feet – the lowest part of my body – in every way possible. So for me, this means you will not pass your days with mundane activities. Everything you do, your entire existence, will revolve around my feet.

As Above, So Below Foot Boi

So when I’m not using you as a Femdom footstool, or draping my body across yours while my feet are planted across your face, my feet will be a part of your life in every way. Do you smoke? Now you will only smoke with my feet as a cigarette holder. But you better be careful when you’re taking a drag. Because not a single ash or ember is allowed to touch… me. Are you parched? Certainly you should drink a glass of water, after I’ve dipped my feet in your refreshment. Hungry? Fix yourself the most delicious plate, and then set it on the floor. You won’t need salt or pepper, you will have my feet to season your food, and then before you eat, you will lick them clean.

Footjobs For The Foot Fetish

Your dick will never been as important to me, as it is to you. So just know, that if I allow you to fuck my feet, you will prepare that foot pussy for your cock… by giving me toejobs and licking every wrinkle on my soles until I’m satisfied. Then and only then, will you be allowed to get your dick wet, in my fabulous arch. So am I saying that I will permit YOU to objectify MY feet? Yes, for my personal pleasure, because it appeals to me, to see men having to smoke, eat, and drink, with my feet as the star of the show.

Foot Dildo Fucking

Now while I enjoy laying back and letting the men put in work, I did see the most delightful picture of a woman wearing stiletto boots with a dildo attached like a foot strapon, and that got me to thinking. What if I fucked you with my foot dildo, when you were in need of penetration? I can just sit back, stick my foot out, and you can ride the foot fuck express. Hell I could do that while ignoring you while you have a bounce session on my strapon.

Ebony Femdom Foot Forniphilia

Yes this was posted late, that doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy a bit of teasing this month while objectifying my feet. So here’s the deal, I have some homework for you, go leave a comment on this blog after reading, with your thoughts in prose about foot worship, and then call me. Dial 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow. I hope you had a wonderful Pride Month and thank you for all the birthday wishes. If you missed my birthday, Cancer season lasts until the middle of this month, gifts are appreciated. Stay tuned for two more blogs very soon. Stay safe and stay blessed. Oh and I know Twitter is capped right now… so follow me on Tumblr EnchantrixWillow cuz I’m about to resurrect that bitch.

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The Ebony Femdom Interviews The Virtual Vixen

Posted on June 27, 2023June 27, 2023 by The Duchess

The Ebony Femdom interviews Mamia Orio and talks to the Virtual Vixen about online sex work and gamer girl things. — The Ebony Femdom interviews The Virtual Vixen, Mamia Orio and discusses gamer girls and virtual adult entertainment.

I had the pleasure of speaking with Virtual Vixen, Mamia Orio and we chatted about sex work in the virtual world, and our experiences as virtual sex workers. Obviously online sex work is technically virtual sex work, too, but we’re specifically discussing the adult industry as it pertains to people who use 3D avatars and digital sex workers.

The Ebony Femdom Interviews The Virtual Vixen Mamia Orio

While virtual sex work is not necessarily a new concept, The Virtual Vixen gained recognition for being an only fans content model, after making over 100K using solely her avatar, on the popular platform (you can also find her on Playboy’s subscription site. She offers the same services that many “real” content models offer, and since this is something I have knowledge of myself, I instantly became a supporter of hers. Now with the uncharted territory of offering something that no one else is offering at the time, you’re gonna have haters. Especially people who aren’t part of the gaming community and are ignorant to the fact that men will pay for many different forms of kink artistry.. especially when they’re horny.

The Virtual Vixen And The Ebony Femdom Discuss The “Haters”

Yep. When I first started at Enchantrix I was only a virtual Ebony Femdom and you could only do sessions with me via the metaverse. So guess what happened when I joined the sites using an avatar? Oh yes, everything from naysayers to men asking silly questions about whether or not I was a real person. There was also the occasional backlash on twitter, from people who were ignorant of who I was and what I was offering. Mamia did share that she had content models talking trash about her, and the cattiness of the industry we’re in. Basically people were acting real weird because we’re doing something different that they don’t fully understand. But here’s the positive take away.

Getting To Know The Virtual Gamer Girls

Most of our society thrives on mediocrity and fitting in. So imagine you’re offering a new service, doing something no one has done before, and people looking at you like you’ve sprouted an extra head and horns. As I’ve mentioned before, talking to me vs. assuming sh** is always going to be a completely different ball game. And once men did sessions with me and got to know me, they realized what I offered and the personable experience I provided. Mamia also mentioned that people are completely different when you talk to them and get to know them in private, which is definitely FACTS. So what did we learn, bois? That’s right: Just because it’s different, doesn’t mean it’s wrong.

The Allure Of Virtual Adult Entertainment

In case you didn’t know, there are virtual strippers, dance troupes, burlesque acts, escorts, and even virtual brothels, as one of my close friends owns an AFK sim, where you can pay to perform simulated sex acts with a persons avatar. There is also a very big BDSM and kink community online, and there are many real life Femdoms, who have virtual world avatars and offer services online. And just like with real BDSM sessions, you can roleplay Femdom scenes and fantasies. There’s a market for virtual sex work, but the key factor is that it IS real work. You have to promote yourself, you have to have customer service skills, and really being a sex worker requires a skillset that most of the vanilla world simply doesn’t have, mostly because they don’t have to. And just like in the real world, you’re going to have pushback and negativity to overcome.

Protecting Your Energy Online

One of the things we talked about on the podcast, was how important protecting your energy – both spiritually and emotionally – is, and how frustrating it is to find out that you have to do that online, and in virtual, as well. We all know how crazy real life can be. Add the virtual world into the mix and it basically removes certain boundaries like distance and face to face communication, and that world gets even crazier. Because unfortunately while you have a lot of freedom in the virtual world, that freedom also leaves the gate wide open for toxic behavior such as poor etiquette, and digital harassment. I did ask Mamia about her experiences with roleplaying and while she doesn’t roleplay anymore, she did say she used to enjoy it… until people started taking things to heart, like the virtual soap operas that unfold on the grid because of hurt feelings. Now here’s my personal feelings on roleplaying.

Roleplaying As A Hobby Vs. Roleplaying For Money

There are several virtual roleplaying communities online for people who enjoy them, and I’m no stranger to roleplaying, as I used to do it years ago, in addition to my erotic writing. Personally my social battery now is way too short to take roleplaying as a hobby, because for me personally it’s draining, and only because I also do this for work. However if you like rp’s, the virtual world is the place to go. With a warning: Just like with anywhere else online, sometimes you get to know people and feelings get involved. It’s a good idea to have healthy boundaries and voice your expectations, because the virtual can turn into wackadoodle land, REAL FAST.

Remembering That There Are Real People Behind The Virtual Personas

My advice to anyone who doesn’t understand the gamer girl kink, or the interest in virtual hotties, is to remember that these are real people, with real lives, that are tapping into a market that caters to offering versatility and accessibility. There are a myriad of reasons why people enjoy playing virtual personas, and I’m not here to judge those and neither should you. I have pet peeves specific to the fetishization of black people, and I am also aware of the entirely different set of challenges black female creators encounter, so I fully support virtual work and black virtual content creators. And thankfully this is slowly changing.

The Many Reasons People Choose Virtual

For one you can express yourself in many different ways. You can literally be a unicorn or a fairy in world without judgement. Many people who are sex workers choose not to show their faces for privacy reasons, and having a virtual model gives you a level of privacy that you might not have if you used your own real life content. There are other virtual platforms such as IMVU, that other metaverse where the avatars only have a torso… (I discussed the running joke about the other metaverse, on the podcast), GTA which is also very popular, and there are content creators that use the sims for their work and roleplays. Harassment is yet another reason sex workers choose to remain anonymous. I have personally heard horror stories and experienced some of my own from when I used to work in a real life strip club. It’s important to remember that some people cannot separate fantasy from reality, and have unhealthy obsessions with the women they project onto. Privacy is important to us for our loved ones and friends also.

Tips For Breaking Into Virtual Content

Research. Research. Research. Learn how to market yourself, and remember that sex workers have to do much more because we’re promoting ourselves. It’s not going to happen overnight, but you can make a name for yourself if you do the work. I will tell you right now, this is not a job for lazy people, or for people that think a real job means working a 9-5. And if you’re a patron of virtual sex workers, remember that this is a job for us, and treat us with respect.

Sessions And Content

If you’d like to know more about Mamia Orio, hit that link and go to her website. And if you want to know more about the Ebony Femdom, you’re in the right place. Email me willow@enchantrixempire.com for custom inquiries and text sessions. Sidenote: Because people have been abusing the system, my attention on Skype will be extremely limited or non existent. So if you want a texting sesssion, you can pay on the sexy texting site, and then email me to confirm your payment. Also watch this space, because we have a lot going on in July. For calls with me just dial 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow. I would like to send a special shout out to Mamia Orio for taking the time to speak with me, it was a pleasure having her on the podcast. If you’re interested in being on my podcast or have an idea for an episode, hit that email. Stay safe, and stay blessed.

Duchess Willow

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Ebony Femdom Juneteenth Request – Humiliating Foot Worship

Posted on June 18, 2023 by The Duchess

Duchess Willow Ebony Femdom Juneteenth - Humiliating Foot Worship — Celebrate Ebony Femdom Juneteenth with humiliating foot worship. Serve Duchess Willow 1-800-601-6975

Disclaimer: If you’re fragile and looking for a soft Domme do not read this blog. It will hurt your feelings. I won’t care if it does.

I hope you didn’t think just because it’s Pride Month, that we were just gonna sliiiiiiiide past it being Juneteenth on Monday, and you weren’t gonna hear my mouth. (Laughs… HARD) Your favorite unhinged black Femdom has something to say, about all of that. So sit down, shutup, and read my Ebony Femdom Juneteenth. It involves humiliating foot worship, and you being a pathetic disappointment and degrading yourself for my delight.

Ebony Femdom Juneteenth

To be frank, I really dislike discussing certain things, like politics and religion. However where this (fake ass) holiday is concerned, I will say that I am rather disappointed but not surprised that “massa” tried to placate us with making this a holiday. This country has a rich history of well…. let’s not go there. Anyway what I need you white bois to do for Juneteenth, is actually really easy to do. Pay me and STFU. In my line of work, I will tell you, that I love being paid to tell white people to shut the fuck up. If you have to be in my presence on Monday, you will need to be even less annoying than you normally would need to be. So on Monday, I’m welcoming – really I welcome them any time – ignore calls, where you sit on the phone and be quiet.

No Emotional Labor On Ebony Femdom Juneteenth And Lots Of Humiliation

Before I tell you exactly what I have planned for Monday, I’m gonna tell you right now don’t ask me to explain sh** to you. You better have a friend in Jesus and Google and pray that both of them can help you. If you don’t know something, look it up. While you’re at it write a 500 word essay on Juneteenth. Now that we’ve gotten that out of the way, let’s talk about humiliation foot worship.

Ebony Femdom Humiliating Foot Worship

My life is always made easier when men pamper me. I always get what I want. Remember those two things and to refrain from whining to me about “what you want” if you call me on Monday. Monday is pay black women and be ignored while I use you as a doormat, day. And to all of you risk takers out there, who love being pummeled into submission, but have fantasies about being dominated by black women: MY holiday is the perfect day, to be my bitch, and make me comfortable. My feet will be the only part of my body you are allowed to look at, worship, and touch. And you can only touch my feet, with your face and mouth.

What Happened To A Kinder Gentler Duchess Willow?

She’s taking the day off. Bitch. If you need something else to read while I’m ignoring you, peep my things to do on an ignore call, for starters. The rest I’m not going to tell you until you call me. That means be ready to do whatever I tell you to do, and if you cry about it I’m going to laugh at you. I expect you to be able to follow explicit instructions and do exactly as you’re told. This is a test to see how well you handle being my toy for a day. Many of you claim to want a woman to take control, but you don’t really mean that. You mean YOU want your Domme to follow the script you’ve envisioned every time you pump your lube filled cock sleeve. Guess what love? I’m not your cock sleeve.

The Aftermath Of Ebony Femdom Juneteenth

Suffer my wrath and maybe the “nice” Duchess Willow will come back and want to talk to you on Tuesday. The “nice” Duchess Willow will spank you and tell you you’re a naughty boi and make all your dreams come true. The dark side of a Cancer moon woman is your worst nightmare. People have this misconception about cancer women, yes we’re emotional, no… I don’t sit around crying. I’d rather make you cry instead.

Ebony Femdom Black Supremacy – Is It Real?

I know some of you are familiar with a black supremacy fetish called BNWO which is basically a form of fantasy “reverse racism.” So lemme put you on real quick: Real reverse racism doesn’t exist. I know it’s upsetting when you discover that all of your privilege does not leave room for you to be oppressed, but since everyone else is delusional then I’m going to join you in the wackadoodle party. If it was a thing, you wouldn’t last 5 seconds. Since it’s not, the only way you can experience it, is through a fetish roleplay fantasy. I’m here to help you reach your delusional best. Just remember one simple thing: BNWO means you serve black Dominants…… not white Dommes who fuck black men. So leave your Qos nonsense the fuck out of it. That is not a service, to us.

What Kind Of Callers Does The Ebony Femdom Get?

Everything from sensual foot worship, to the nastiest little crackhead sissies (literally) want to serve me. Basically…. come closer….. (whispering) I do everything the white Dommes do. With a few exceptions obviously, which I’m sure you bitches know, what not to say to me if you want to keep your teeth. Figuratively speaking of course. I like indulging my fantasies just as much as you do, which is why I’m going to rub my delicious feet all over your face and make a pretty mess of you.

Foot Worship With The Ebony Femdom

Pick your jaw up off the floor and get used to a Dominant woman actually speaking her mind. I make these informative posts deliberately, because it takes a certain pedigree of submissive, to satisfy my needs. If you want to call me tonight, or tomorrow, for diversity training, you’re welcome to. If you don’t want to be ignored, I’d suggest you have something interesting and respectful to say or I swear I’ll put the phone down and play bejeweled while you talk to yourself. If you can’t call read acts of service and share this blog around. Dial 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow. You’re welcome to pay reparations in the form of virtual bouquets, when you connect with dispatch. Have the day you deserve.

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Pride Month And Diversity In Phone Sex With The Ebony Femdom (And Birthdays Too)

Posted on June 7, 2023 by The Duchess

Pride Month With The Ebony Femdom And Diversity In Phone Sex — Party with Duchess Willow for her birthday and celebrate Pride Month and diversity in phone sex 1-800-601-6975

I cannot for the life of me understand, why people are so fragile while simultaneously trying to micromanage other people’s lives……. I’m working on this kinder, gentler vibe, just know, that sometimes you have to be blunt with people, because they don’t understand kindness. With that said, it’s pride month, and we’re going to talk about diversity in phone sex, ebony femdom thoughts how to have a happy pride, and why you can always talk to us, and explore your sexuality, with us.

Pride Month And Diversity In Phone Sex

It seems within our diverse society, most of the opinionated mouth breathers, have a lot to say and no knowledge to back it up. If you don’t have experience as a business manager, would you tell a manager how to do their job? Don’t answer that, I know some of the Karen’s and Steve’s are reading this. Stop telling people how to live their lives especially if you are not fucking them, and their identity does not in any way impact who you choose to invite to your bedroom, who you stick your dick into, and whom you spread your fucking legs for.

Pride Month – Be Authentically You

That’s about as politely as I am going to say that, as someone who has gay, trans, bisexual loved ones, and… sadly, some very homophobic, transphobic relatives, who have let a man made book dictate their programming. The same way I can’t tell a trans person how to live their life, is how I feel about most things I have experience with, that others, do not. So no matter what your background, you’re welcome to discuss your sexuality, and kink fantasies with us, so long as you respect everyone’s boundaries. Now that.. hmm… seems to be a very difficult thing.. for some people. Which is why I’m writing this blog.

Boundaries And Identity As A Part Of The LGBTQ+

Doesn’t matter what gender or sexual orientation you identify with, we can all stand to have better manners. For instance, I’m heteroflexible. That means I’ve had experiences with the same sex, and my preference is masculine men. If someone walked up to me and said, “oh you only like men because you’ve never tried being with a woman” or any variation of that, I’d probably kick them in the teeth. So I think it’s very strange when team “pray the gay away” starts their foolishness. Same goes for your fantasies. Be mindful that your fantasy is just that, and what may turn you on – such as your trans cocksucking fantasy, with those “words” you definitely should not say to a trans person – might be offensive to someone else. (Looks at the sissies sternly) Speaking of sissies… Let’s have a little chat about that.

Is The Sissy Lifestyle Problematic Or “Harmful” To Trans People?

Since this is a fetish we cater to, it’s important to understand and acknowledge, that outside of the BDSM/Kink community, there are many people who find the sissy fetish, offensive and harmful to transgender people. My umbrella answer to that question, is that all kinks are problematic. Qos is hella racist, and yet some black men are okay with it. Notice I didn’t mention what non-black person was okay with it, because yall don’t have a say in what’s offensive, to black people. Many cis men are into the sissy fetish and also the qos fantasy – as discussed in ethical tattoos for sissies, as are some white women. I don’t police all black men, I’m just gonna tell you that you should tread lightly, and mind your manners when approaching black men. Show them the same respect you expect to be shown in your privileged, professional lives.

More On The Sissy Kink In Relation To LGBTQ+

The sissy terminology has evolved from being used as a slur against gay men, to being a term for men who are into feminization as a form of Domination. Not all crossdressers are sissies, not all sissies are crossdressers, and not all trans people are “sissies” and some may find being called a sissy, offensive. However you will come across trans women who indulge in the sissy fetish, and call themselves sissies, and are not offended by it. So as a general rule: Don’t assume. Ask.

Being Safe When Indulging Your Kinks

This one is for the men, who throw caution and their own safety to the wind, when they have an erection. Be careful approaching men when you’re looking for a cock to suck, or to get fucked by. Because while I know there’s plenty of men who will take you up on the offer to get a blow job, there’s also plenty of men who might take offense to being approached by you, in your time of need. And I promise you your horniness is not more important than ending up in the ER, or needing your teeth rearranged. Unfortunately, there are people in this world that – if they find out you’re cruising for the “gay” experience – will take measures to harm you, out of pure hatred and phobia.

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Safe Spaces For LGBTQ+ In Kink

I am always going to suggest finding local groups to indulge in your kink, and finding safe spaces and safe people, to play with. With that in mind, I would definitely suggest you call the ladies at LDW, before you embark on any wild adventures. Why? Because sometimes your fantasy works better as a roleplay, than it does in terms of logistics. Especially if we’re talking about the more risque fetishes. There are a lot of things we can talk about, that are safer discussing, than they are doing.

Celebrating Pride And… Birthdays With The Ebony Femdom

Celebrate Pride Month with me and you’ll also be helping me celebrate another year of Ebony Femdom Phone Sex. My birthday is June 29th and I will be claiming the entire month – possibly part of next month – to party. I believe there’s a special raffle going around for our valued customers. Do a 60+ minute phone sex session, possibly win a prize if the odds are in your favor. If you’d like to spend a little time with me, you can do that by dialing 1-800-601-6975 and asking for Duchess Willow. And if you ask nicely, I’ll let you kiss my feet, since phone sex foot fetish is our site of the month. Stay safe, and stay blessed.

Duchess Willow

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Two Mistress Cock Control is Twice the Fun! By Mistress Harper

Posted on May 16, 2023 by The Duchess

You already know that letting one of the Ladies of the Empire control you and your pathetic cock is a lot of fun. You get to obey our commands as you stroke and jerk off for us, and at the end, if you’re good, you might even get to cum! In all the permutations of cock control out there, there’s one that you might not have considered: two Mistress cock control! If you’ve tried chastity games, and tease and delay edging games, and maybe even a ruined orgasm or two, but haven’t taken the step into multiple Mistress fun, you’re missing out! You should arrange a session with Mistress Willow and I today, just to see what you’re missing.

Imagine how much more fun your Jerk Off Instructions are with two Mistresses directing you!

Edging your cock can be a fun way to build up your stamina, and if you ask for extreme edging you can bet that you’re going to be put through the wringer. I love raising the ante every time you call me, so if you start off with just a couple edged orgasms in an hour, by the time you’ve called a few times I’ll have you up to several nice edges per minute! Ok, I know, you’ll probably take a while to reach that level of edging acumen, but the part about the endless raising of the stakes is true, and in a two mistress edging session it’s even more accurate! Two Mistresses doesn’t just raise the stakes in a linear fashion, it’s logarithmic. You’re going to wind up stroking yourself for us and edging so often that your brain may very well melt out your ears.

Don’t believe that two Mistresses are better than one?

Two Mistresses that work well together can really intensify your session. Mistress Willow and I work incredibly well together because we have similar outlooks on dominance and submission, and compatible attitudes on social justice issues. She and I both agree that white men are on the bottom of the sexual desirability ladder, and therefore teasing them until they cry is just plain fun! Also, bonus points for me, if you cry, I actually get turned on. Chastity games wind up so much more intense when you’ve got a pair of Mistresses cooperating to make your experience even more impactful, and as for edging and humiliation games? Please do call us both, you won’t regret it!

Two Mistress cock control sessions are amazing!

I know you’ve probably enjoyed some cock control, and may have even dipped your toes into the ruined orgasm game. I’m an aficionado of the ruined orgasm, and Mistress Willow is also an extremely talented cock tease and ruiner of orgasmic bliss. Put the two of us in one session and we might turn you multi-orgasmic! (But only if we get to ruin all of your many, many orgasms.) The synthesis that happens between two smart, talented, creative women is something you need to experience to believe. But once you’ve experienced it, you’ll always think back to what we paired up and did to you when you’re jerking off afterward. Memories to last you until your next session, and a full body buzz that can’t be replicated any other way!

You need to arrange a two Mistress cock control session now.

For the month of May in 2023 we’re offering 20% off all multiple Mistress sessions! You’re in luck, you can talk to the both of us and enjoy the wonder and joy that comes from a session between Harper and Willow, and you get a discount! You lucky loser you, you should call right now and set up your fun in the sun with us. No matter what sort of a session you like best, you’ll have fun with us, and that’s an actual guarantee, money back and all! Remember: just because I really love to ruin your orgasm doesn’t mean that’s what we’re going to do to you! Consent is key, after all, so if you don’t consent, you don’t get it. Your loss, but if you’re not ready for that level of submission and ecstasy, that’s fine. You don’t have to have a ruined orgasm with us anyway.

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Do You Want Real Cock Control Or Just The Fantasy?

Posted on May 8, 2023 by The Duchess

As in real servitude, real cock control, real submission. Or are you just a casual connoisseur? When you call our cock control phone sex lines, you’re paying for a quality Pro-Domme, distance Domination service. Which means simply this: Yes we will cater to your fantasy; and yes we will also own that ass if it is your wish. But that means you need to know the difference between fantasy Femdom and real cock control Femdom.

Real Cock Control – Ebony Femdom

I touched on this subject in my ebony femdom cfnm blog, and we’re going to go over it again. There is significant importance to knowing the difference between being a casual phone companion, and a true submissive. There are people who are lifestyle submissives, lifestyle sissies, and lifestyle cuckolds. When you call for a fantasy roleplay, we certainly aren’t expecting you to surrender your whole life for a few minutes. However what I do expect is that you surrender yourself to me for however long you may be in my presence. I expect respect and obedience while you are under my care, and I offer the same. Remember: Submission cannot be taken, it is earned. Likewise my being your Domina is not a title you can just toss around because it sounds good. I too, choose whether or not you will be my plaything.

Real Cock Control – Chastity And Guided Masturbation

Even if you’re a casual submissive, you will be required to – at times – close your mouth and open your ears. You’re not going to have the real cock control experience you want if you can’t put your dick down long enough to take direction. So it’s important for you to state what you’re looking for… and men have this strange little dance they do over the phone at times. You know the one, you don’t want to tell me what you’re looking for; you want me to guess or you’re waiting for me to say your trigger before you dive in. That is quite possibly the silliest waste of 2.99 per minute I’ve ever seen and heard in my life. Not to mention boring, and you do not want to bore me I assure you. Boi open your damn mouth and stop your hopes and dreams foolishness. I promise you both of us will have a better time if you do.

My Style Of Ebony Femdom Phone Sex

For those of you who have never done a call with me, there may be the misconception that you can’t have fun with me. Hello dearest, I am not only a Dominant, but I spend a lot of time exploring the virtual grid, and there is a lot of fun to be had. Furthermore outside of gaming I enjoy being entertained and having a laugh. So if your personality is as dry as stale bread, we probably won’t be a good fit for each other. Make me laugh, be interesting, be entertaining. Also, I offer quite literally some of the same kinks and services as the other Mistresses. Just because I don’t put up with certain types of behavior, doesn’t mean we can’t have fun. Speaking of fun… let’s talk about cock control with lovense.

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Real Cock Control – Jerk Off Karaoke With Lovense

I’m pretty sure I invited you all this month to bring your big boi toys and see how long you could handle some long distance cock teasing. My jerk off karaoke blog was your invite to the party. Follow the instructions on that blog because I’m not going to repeat myself. You bring the tunes, and sing your little heart out while I tease your cock. Pretty straightforward.

Little Note About The Kinks I Write About On My Blog – You Don’t Have To Like Everything

((Loud sigh)) Just because I write about ignore calls and pain play doesn’t mean I’m going to hurt you and ignore you, if that’s not your kink. Now I know you bois have brains in your heads, because on occasion you use them and when you do it is delightful. My precious, precious darling summer slut: Just because a Mistress writes about a kink, that does not mean you have to engage in that kink. This is a full service, pro phone sex Fem Dommes platform.

Real Cock Control Femdom Styles

Everyone has a different style of domination they bring to the table. Our blogs give you a feel for our personalities and btw these blogs are a free service, TO YOU. You do understand that you do not pay for the blogs you read, right? We do this for you. As a service… to you. So when I mention acts of service for submissives and things you can do, for free, it is only because I get a little frustrated with – alright I’m going to be blunt here – the silly fucking games some of you play on Queen Charlotte’s internet… that I have no tolerance for. In otherwords if you want to get your money’s worth, it would behoove you to use your big boi words and tell us what you’re looking for in order to have great phone sex. Also feedback is important to us. So when you do enjoy your call we like to hear from you. And I can be just as nice as I can be blunt, just fyi.

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I’m not here to be a housewife, and while GFE is something I offer, even that has limits. I’m here to dominate you and have a good time. We can spend our phone or text time any way you want to, as long as both of us are happy with the path in which it’s going. With that said, the only real way to know me, is to call me. Dial 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow. Reminder: Multi-Mistress phone sex is 20% off this month. If you want dick ratings, custom audios, or any other content, links are below. Stay safe and stay blessed.

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Ebony Femdom Jerk Off Karaoke For Masturbation May

Posted on May 2, 2023May 2, 2023 by The Duchess

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Sing me a song, and I might give you a release. May is finally here and I am ready to be entertained, by you. I’m fully aware that I cannot jack your dumb ass off through the phone, but there are other devices, and I like to be entertained. So you’re going to do remote jerk off karaoke for me, starting now and throughout Masturbation May.

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Simply put, in order to play you’re going to need a toy with bluetooth capability and remote access. You can start with a lovense toy and if there are any you prefer to use instead please email me at willow@enchantrixempire.com and let me know. You will also need a basic understanding of technology and how remote apps work with bluetooth toys. If you’re a technophobe this probably isn’t for you. At present I am aware of two different companies that make remote toys, lovense being the one I’m most familiar with which is why I offer a lovense and texting package. E-stim remotes are also welcome for jerkoff karaoke.

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Ebony Femdom Jerk Off Karaoke – Fuck Machines

If you enjoy anal play, there are also remote controlled fuck machines you can try out while serenading me. Same rules apply, test them out before our session. If you want me to be able to watch you, you will also need to have skype or discord working and installed. How much fun would it be for me to push your buttons, while you sing for me and try to keep your composure? The best part about fuck machines, is if you hit those high notes, I bet I could make you have an analgasm.

Ebony Femdom Jerk Off Karaoke – Fun With Multi-Mistress Calls

Now listen, I don’t mind if you like my ideas and share them with other Mistresses, but at least remember to give me credit for them. I’m sensitive about my art. Even better, let’s do a multi-mistress karaoke session. Plot twist: The only one singing is you, while we all twist your dials and tweak your frequency. And the best part is that during Masturbation May, Multi-Mistress phone sex calls are 20% off this month. If you need help setting up your devices in the early am, 10 minute phone sex calls are only 20.00 between 3am – 9am eastern. Perfect for all you gooning chronic masturbators that need a quick fix.

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If you own lovense devices, many of them can be used in the virtual world… because they made an app for that. If you need instructions for use please first make sure you have:

A computer that can run the viewer for the virtual world with excellent graphics and memory.
An account. Virtual accounts are FREE. Click here for how to join us.
The viewer. Firestorm is required to use.
The lovense connect app. (Pay attention: The lovense connect is not the same thing as the lovense app you use for one on one sessions.)

Tips For Success On Your Jerk Off Karaoke Sessions With The Duchess

Number one: Read the instructions, do any troubleshooting, do all set up, make sure everything works properly, before you call. Fumbling around for 10-20 minutes wastes both our time, and I don’t mind keeping you company while you’re paying me, it will leave you less time to sing, and play, which will be displeasing, to me. The last thing you ever want to do is disappoint me. I want you to be my star, so please, figure out your tech before you call me. If you do need my help, I would advise calling me or paying for a text session on skype or discord. And the same goes for skype and discord, make sure your apps are working, before you call. Skype is known for being quite a pain. Maybe the most important tip is also, make sure your wifi is working. I cannot see or talk to you if you have no internet.

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Will You Impress The Ebony Femdom And Get To Have An Orgasm?

You just keep singing, no matter how “hard” I buzz you, pet. If you spill your seed while I’m teasing you, you will be punished and required to eat your cum. I don’t care if you don’t like it, I’m the one in charge here. Your punishment will vary. Do not ask me what it is. I want to test your skill, vocal range, endurance, and ability to carry a tune while being put through your paces.

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Spend a little time with me this month and let’s have some fun. Gooning masturbation junkies welcome to call in and audition. Dial 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow. Reminder that I also offer texting and lovense packages, custom audios, and dick ratings. Have a great masturbation may.

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Ebony Femdom Creampies – A Different Kind Of Cumslut

Posted on May 1, 2023May 1, 2023 by The Duchess

In a previous post about Femdom Noire, I discussed anal domination with my big black cock. This go round, I’m going to talk about being a submissive cum slut for a black man, and what your job is in this equation, as the cuckold. Since this is a couples phone sex blog, I feel it is my duty to plant the imagery in your head, of exploring a cuckold scene, where your wife is the cum slut and instead of a traditional creampie, she gives you full body ebony femdom creampies.

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Maybe you have yet to see your partner exhibit certain behaviors in the bedroom, because you haven’t invoked them. For example, I love black men, I love black dick, and I will let a well endowed black man do things to my body, that I would never allow from a member of the tiny meat gang. Let the above picture be an indication of the privilege my beautiful black stud has, to take pleasure in my body as he sees fit, and cum however, and wherever he pleases. This includes my face, my breasts, all over my ass, and of course, my pussy. Leaving me dripping, and satisfied, from head to toe. So where does that leave the cuckold, you wonder?

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Now you can see the mess my lover has made, and this is what you wanted, so if you want to earn that BBC, now you are going to show me how much you appreciate being able to watch my black bull use me and cum on me, by licking his seed clean off my entire body. Every crack and crevice of me, is waiting for your tongue. If you do a good job of cleaning me up, you may be rewarded with my pussy. Not to fuck me, of course, but to taste that which you do not deserve, true ebony femdom cuckolding style. Being a submissive and a switch, has its advantages.

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Now, if you happen to be the well endowed man, and have an entirely different scene in mind, maybe one involving two submissive cum sluts for your enjoyment, I am game, for pleasing and sharing your cock, with your beloved. And since this is a cuckold friendly post, we must talk about cuckqueaning. Whatever side of the coin you’re on, I’m here to enhance your pleasure. You can reach me in the virtual world, if you’d like a virtual couples phone sex experience. I am also available for couples “counseling” over the phone, and cuckold husband training. Be sure to call 1-800-601-6975 and tell the dispatcher you would like to speak with Duchess Willow about ebony femdom creampies and cuckold training. Email me at willow@enchantrixempire.com if you desire setting up some details before your call. This naughty cum slut will be very happy to hear from you. Stay safe and stay blessed.

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Ebony Femdom CFNM – Prove It To Me In The Nude

Posted on April 9, 2023 by The Duchess

The only person that is going to get the correlation between the second half of my blog title, and where its from, is me. I’ve made my peace with my vague references that nobody gets. Today however I’d like to discuss the spiritual act of being vulnerable as a man, when you venture into the depths of ebony femdom CFNM.

Disclaimer: I enjoy scaring my “potential” callers. Weeds out the men from the boys, and the bois. If you’re scared after reading this, just imagine what that fear boner is going to feel like, when you’re naked with my stiletto planted firmly on your skull.

Ebony Femdom CFNM – Domination Is Not A Joke To Me

I know that Ebony Femdom Phone Sex is a form of distance Domination. It is still very much real, and there are so many layers to Femdom. As such, I don’t take Femdom like it’s some fucking hobby. Most who call Enchantrix Empire already know this is a phone Femdom service. We have casual callers who just want the fantasy aspect of Femdom, and that’s fine, so long as you remember the point of female domination is not for you to top from the bottom and use us as fetish dispensers. Which is a pet peeve of mine: People who treat kink like it’s a joke, and want to “serve” us by doing what interests them. This is not service. When you’re catering to your own fantasy, you are only in service to yourself. I am the vessel in which brings that fantasy to life. You bust a fat nut, and carry on with your day. That’s not service, that’s us providing fantasy fulfillment you’d be otherwise resolved to complete with your left hand.

Serving Us Means Submitting To Us – Is Femdom A Service To You?

The short answer is yes. Don’t worry I’m getting to the CFNM bit. A submissive chooses to submit, just as a Dominant can accept or refuse you as a submissive, and often after careful consideration. This is how I know who the real subs are, vs. the subs who just want to bust a nut and go back to the real world. There’s nothing wrong with fantasy, sexual roleplays, or Femdom porn. Just know, that the little world you create in your head, is not how real Femdom goes, and most real life Femdoms are not going to have sex with you unless it’s what “they” want. Being the dominant involves leading, teaching, guidance, and a lot of emotional labor. Which is why I demand payment for my time. And even if you’re paying for my time, if at any point I feel unsafe playing with you, I can refuse you service, no matter how much you’re paying. So let me give you a stern piece of advice: If you truly want to be in service, you’re going to have to release this unrealistic and male entitled expectation, that women have to do whatever you want them to, because you’re paying them. Don’t turn your ears off just because I said something you didn’t like. I’m getting to why CFNM is such a visceral experience.

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Ebony Femdom CFNM Bares Your Soul

Think about it. You’re in the mind garden of your virtual femdom space, kneeling or standing before your Dominant, after being stripped of everything that gave you a false sense of power. You’re naked and vulnerable, you can lie with your tongue, but your body will tell your truth. When the only thing you’re wearing is shame and humility; when your dick is not the centerpiece of attention; when you realize that having a penis alone is not enough to please me; when you get that gut punch and your stomach drops while your hands are behind your head as you’re being inspected, smug grin gone because no matter how smart you think you are, Mistress is not pleased with your self righteous behavior. That’s when it becomes necessary to surrender. Your pride, your ego, your useless erection and my foot on your neck. Once you realize that with one move or one word I could destroy you, you will begin to see things my way. How can you serve me? By listening and doing as I’ve told you to do, the first damn time I tell you. Remember that pain can be mental and emotional, not just physical.

CFNM Subspace

When you’re naked, nervous, and out of control, the world spins differently. Some people drop so deeply, mentally, and emotionally, that pain becomes a reward. Anything to escape the uncomfortable sensation of being laid bare. Just like with mind control techniques, once out of subspace, you may not remember everything that happened to you, only that – if done correctly – you will know you’ve done well for your Mistress. Think of BDSM as sensory perception play, for adults. I can’t take credit for that, check out Supernova on twitter. Every inch of your body, being seen and scrutinized, in a space you cannot hide anything from, lying and fabricating and exaggerating are pointless. So is CFNM all about humility? No. Some of us enjoy seeing your naked body, especially when you’re in service to us and not in a sexual manner.

CFNM Is Not About Your Dick

Doubling back to what I previously said about fantasy. I know in your head you think “wow, she’s gonna be so turned on when she sees my penis” or “I bet I’m gonna get laid.” You do not, I am not, and you will not. Your naked body provides non-sexual pleasure, when you’re my personal servant, providing something that is needed, for me. Did you not learn anything from my himbo training and house husbands blogs? It’s okay if you get an erection knowing that I’m watching that ass, just don’t expect me to be interested in your erection, solely because you have one and think it’s important. I deflate egos without trying. Think of me as the Master, and you the apprentice. You want to learn from me, start by scrubbing the floors. Imagine being trained and housebroken by doing the furthest thing from focusing on your penis?

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Examples Of CFNM

A Femdom party or gathering where all the men are naked whilst the Dominas catch up with each other and have a good time. You’d be lucky if we so much as acknowledged your presence. Himbo house maids and naked butlers. Take my coat boi, but don’t you dare get your filthy man juice on it or I’ll have you tarred and feathered. CFNM Forniphilia. Naked men spread out and contorted into various (uncomfortable) positions and used as home furnishings. I do admire the male form, especially when you’re busy serving and not talking. Oh.. I can shut you up by sitting on your face? Of course I could, and I know you’d enjoy that, which is why facesitting is reserved for all the good bois who knew how to first follow directions.

Is The Ebony Femdom In Service To You?

Remember when I said I am a vessel by which your phone Femdom fantasies are fulfilled? That doesn’t mean I’m your goddamn doormat. The second you forget your place, or whose presence you’re in, I’m happy to remind you. You will need to use your brain AND your wallet, if you want to serve me. If you find that offensive, I will remind you that you have to pay to play with us, and that some of you have to pay just to have a woman speak to you. So if you’re not into CFNM humiliation, I’d suggest you think before speaking.

But Duchess What About My Femdom Phone Sex Fantasy?

Oh for hell’s sake, have you not been paying attention to everything I just said? Boooooo tomatoes tomatoes. If you’re worried you will get shot down for your kink, that won’t happen. So long as you are not harming me or yourself, we can discuss it. Speaking of harm and risky play, yes, we can talk about “those” fantasies, too. Roleplay exists so that when your dopamine levels drop and that post nut clarity slaps you in the balls, you don’t have to worry about a tarnished reputation or everyone at work giving you, “the look.” Your fantasies are done in confidence. So strip boi, get naked for me and show me what you’ve got.

What CFNM Means To Me

Men are better listeners when their pants are pulled down around their ankles and their little bitch stick is exposed. They’re also more likely to tell the truth when naked and vulnerable. Now I love a man in a suit, but I love seeing what’s under the suit, and inspecting my property. That’s what CFNM means to me. You are trusting me with your livelihood and your life, and you are trusting me when you’re at your most vulnerable. I take that seriously. As I do getting to tease and play with your naked body, and see what makes you jump, twitch, and squirm, and moan.

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In three days I have a featured Mistress day coming up. If you call me on Wednesday, April 12th, you get 10 free phone sex minutes to impress me. In the event that you are reading this and not yet a customer, call me today and let’s fix that. The 10 free minutes are good 1, per person, per Mistress day. If you’ve already called the first 3 Mistresses, I’d suggest you call us all. I would love to hear – in your own words – how you feel about this blog, and what CFNM means to you. I will point something else out about the free minutes:

You can do a two Mistress call and add a second Mistress for the 10 minutes. You will have to pay for the additional Mistress.

If you get the 10 free minutes you are welcome to add more paid time to your call.

Should the Mistress of the day be busy, ask the dispatcher to put you in the queue for a call back.

While you’re waiting for your callback, strip, get naked, and sit quietly until the phone rings. Or practice your writing as if you were on an CFNM ignore call.

If you would like to reach me before, during, and after my Mistress day, please dial 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Duchess Willow. I look forward to hearing from you naked bois. Thanks for reading my non-linear tangent. Stay safe and stay blessed.

Duchess Willow